Why do I have feelings for a guy who is an asshole?

[Anonymous]

I know he's an asshole but he can be super sweet. He's cheated on other girls before and even though he could do that to me I can't help but still like him. Is there any reason for this?

[Anonymous]

"but he can be super sweet," Geez that takes me back and not in a good way.

Red flags popped up all over the place and I still made excuses for him, but at the end of the day the "super sweet" part of him couldn't outweigh all the negative that came along with him and I ended up staying in an unhealthy rollercoaster relationship for years. Most of which was miserable. I still made excuses and still held on to the "super sweet" part, as if things would magically get better.

This is who he is, this is who he chooses to be. So many girls make the mistake in thinking, "but I'm different than all the rest, he'll change for me" and most if not all of them get the harsh reality that they are just one of the many that made the same mistake.

I can't stop you from making a mistake, but this guy lacks maturity for a real relationship and I highly doubt he'll respect you or your feelings any more than the others.

You see the red flags deary, don't ignore them now just because, you thinks his cute and sweet sometimes. You can save yourself a world of hurt or play the fool and learn the hard way. The choice is yours.

[crazyincalifornia]

Give him a chance.
Slut him like a dog.
Drive him crazy
Most guys don't go shopping for something they already have at home
And guys like nice girls
that are crazy in bed
Trust me.
:))

[ajboarder]

No. Not really. People like what they like. I say go for it. Make a mistake. And if/when he does something that destroys you, maybe you'll actually learn a lesson and try to find a less-confident nice guy instead. Unless you're a glutton for punishment or something.

[ArchDruidMordred]

Two words, masculine energy. My work here is done.

[Anonymous]

Because it's what you think you deserve