Insecurity during sex

[Anonymous]

Would a girl get turned off if a guy didn't like his body thus having sex with his shirt and boxers on? How would you feel? And what would you do to make him feel better?

[serm416]

A loving caring women would suggest that the lights should be out to help put you at ease and maybe some candle light of in the distance of the room you are in.

And maybe you could try walking to help with any problem areas if they bother you so much.

My thought is if you've got someone willing to be in the same bed with you chances are she's not turned off.

[paigems]

I don't think that most girls would have sex with a guy if they weren't already attracted to his body. I would be disappointed if the guy would not take his shirt and boxers off. I would probably just try to reassure the guy that I thought he was attractive, and that he has nothing to be insecure about.

[Anonymous]

I'm insecure about mine too so I guess we'd have something in common lol. I would just hug and touch him a lot to let him know that I care about him and find him attractive. I wouldn't want a guy I'm with to feel bad about himself since I know how that feels and it isn't a good feeling.

[Asker]

Yea Its a really horribly feeling.

[Anonymous]

Hey chubby, Lose the weight then you won't feel so insecure. Duh!

[serm416]

Sensitive! - it could be any number of other things...scars, pigment problems, warts, hairyness...Sheesh. And you a fellow man.