What makes women insecure in relationships?

[Anonymous]

When he begins to look much more attractive

When he becomes really successful

Him having loads of money

All of the above

Other (explain)

[Finchie40]

Everything she reads on social media , or the gossip she hears her friends talk about , it’s good to make your girlfriend a little insecure , it shows she still values you and is scared to lose you , Girl’s on the other hand don’t like when their men are insecure , it’s a turn off to them because they look at him as he is weak but most girl’s don’t realize it’s not insecurity that he is showing , it’s respect that he is not receiving , Most girl’s are selfish people that only really care about themselves , A girl can tell you things she doesn’t want you doing but she can’t stop doing those things for herself , where double standards come into play , if a girl can’t prioritize you like you do her , you are best to kick her to the curb and move on because it turns into a one sided relationship , She is only with you for convenience until some other guy sweeps her off her feet. So don’t waste your time , Boot her ass. My thing is , I want a girl that wants to stay under the sheets with me , not one that runs to the streets. The key word is want , because I don’t need anyone , I am perfectly capable of taking care of myself , so I want a girl that wants me like I want her

[TonightYouu]

Women with really attractive boyfriends are usually super insecure because no matter how much women say or think they are 9/10 or 10/10 there is always a more attractive woman

there is only a small handful of really beautiful women in the world most women are pretty or cute on a good day which is why it irritates me to hear average women say “I’d never be a stripper” 🙄 bitch you aren’t attractive enough to be a stripper

but I digress, girls are always insecure with attractive boyfriends because men with options exercise their options

[Kerrim23]

I agree that there is always someone prettier, that's just how the world is, with men and women. But to say most woman are "cute on a good day" is bs. Having an attractive boyfriend isn't what makes most women insecure. It's the fact that some men will be so full of themselves that they try to creep on other women just to make their girlfriend jealous.

[TonightYouu]

@Kerrim23 so what’s the disagreement that most women aren’t average?
Because an attractive guy has no reason to be faithful when he can get something better

[TonightYouu]

@Kerrim23 that’s not bs by the way cosmetics isn’t a 438 billion dollar industry for no reason

[Kerrim23]

He does have a reason to be faithful unless there was a conversation otherwise. When you date someone you are committing to them, not people that are prettier

[TonightYouu]

@Kerrim23 oh but you’re forgetting that men are visual creatures and we are much hornier than you gals do you know why women call men dogs because if a dog can have something it’s gonna take it and an attractive man can have sex with lots of women
A good friend of mine was in tears because a guy she thought was her boyfriend was just using her for sex and would constantly ignore and block her and she still wanted to be with him attractive guys can do stuff like that

[Kerrim23]

You act like men and women are two different species and we aren't. Men get called dogs because like dogs they just want to start humping with no conversation or commitment. You are saying that because a man is attractive, he could do whatever he wanted. If an attractive women cheated on a man, she would be considered a slut. Double standard. But you know "there's only a small handful of beautiful women in the world"
Your friend was in tears, and you are saying it doesn't matter because her fuck buddy was attractive? Attractive men are only seen as attractive because of women's opinions, the minute he loses the respect of a women, he is no longer attractive.
Then you talk about cosmetics. Can makeup change a person's appearance, yes. But can a beard change a man's appearance, very much can. So again, double standard. Men can enhance their appearance, but when a woman does, they are just fake.

[TonightYouu]

@Kerrim23 we obviously aren’t the same but we are completely different you don’t even understand or accept what I’ve just told you I have quite a few pretty boy friends they do not respect women they treat women like shit and I don’t feel bad for those women because they allow it and they allow it because he is handsome and women throw themselves at really attractive guys most guys aren’t good looking a good looking man is rare she allowed him to treat her like that because he was attractive the harsh reality is that in terms of what men want from women none of you are unique or special YOU ARE REPLACEABLE ( solely on physical appearance) good looking dudes don’t care because the world is their oyster he doesn’t care about her respecting him all he wants is pussy and he will get it because he is good looking and be honest most women aren’t gonna make an attractive guy wait for sex JUST BE HONEST And where do you think beards come from🤣 we don’t buy beards they grow naturally men don’t wear makeup we don’t use filters we have to work to improve our appearance by exercising not just cover up our flaws with Blk opal

[Kerrim23]

If that's what you want to believe, then go for it but have fun trying to find a girlfriend.

But women don't stay in abusive relationships because they man is attractive. They usually stay either because they don't think they can leave safely, or they think it's their way of showing love and don't want to lose the one they love.
And don't act like I'm a moron. I am perfectly aware that beards grow because of testosterone. But how is it not the same thing? YOU ARE USING SOMETHING TO CHANGE YOUR APPEARANCE. And to be honest women don't really wear makeup for guys, they wear it for other women.
So until you grow a uterus your opinion on how a woman thinks is irrelevant.

[TonightYouu]

@Kerrim23 you still don’t get it 😂 young guys WANT SEX! Attractive young guys also WANT SEX! and they get it because they are attractive

And wym using something to change appearance we don’t buy our hair it grows on our faces whether we want it or not if we want to be aesthetically pleasing we HAVE TO eat vegetables we HAVE TO exercise every single day Men don’t go into stores for wigs nails and lashes

[hIopinionated_]

The only thing that would make me insecure in a relationship is if I feel my guy isn’t genuine in everything he does regarding me. Tell me you love you? Show me. Claim you respect me? Respect me wholeheartedly than. Claim you love my body? Worship it. Claim to love my time? Be attentive, read my body language, notice when something is wrong


I don’t know about others but I believe this is literally the bare minimum


And I would do the same. However, do the opposite and there will be doubt. My thoughts would just run wild and not in the right direction of a successful relationship


Now I’m not saying everything has to be perfect but at least be genuine and work towards things I personal need to feel secure and I would work towards it as well because I am in no way shape or form perfect.

[OnlinePeanut22]

blame a lack of confidence when I told them to stop talking about my ex-girlfriend, they kept doing so. Do not give a damn if you get sick or a cold. Girls that I had a gut feeling were bad gifts that his ex-girlfriend had given me were kept under review.

[Midgetmcwidget]

Lack of security from the guy, if you don’t really know where you stand with him or feel under valued/appreciated.

[hIopinionated_]

Perfectly said

[CallmeTheKnight]

Primarily herself.. even if he's very good looking and women check him out, that's not a reason to be insecure if he's committed.

Normally if you have insecurities you tend to wear them in your relationship until you are able to accept yourself for who you are and not let them dictate your emotions

[TacosRAwesome]

With my ex the insecurities came when he befriended some pretty women (ex coworkers now) and would constantly tell me that they're pretty. I had gained weight due to eating a lot of junk during the relationship and was already feeling bad.

[Vegasrunner]

@TacosRAwesome And he still stayed w/ you after gaining weight?

[TacosRAwesome]

@Vegasrunner yes but constantly complained about it and bought junk food and made fun of me when I tried to exercise.

[Vegasrunner]

@TacosRAwesome that's messed up a lot of guys will try to fatten their girls up so fewer guys will talk w/ them.

[J2ohhhhh]

That is some beta ass crap

[TacosRAwesome]

@Vegasrunner gross.

[TacosRAwesome]

@J2ohhhhh again gross

[Vegasrunner]

@TacosRAwesome Lol, I just report the news.

[BlueScorpio]

If he's not emotionally or physically available, secretly talking to other women, not the commitment type.

[Carina0]

When your partner always judges your body and your actions. You're too skinny, too fat, too much makeup, why you're always so tense, can't you just smile little more etc.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Being very successful can make woman insecure in a relationship because the dude will simply have lots of women throwing themselves at him.

Success breeds a lot of people always trying to get a piece of you somehow.

[bubblegunnn]

Women tend to feel insecure regarding their physical looks

[FilmGuy93]

ALl kinds of stuff. Really the core of it all is when women don't feel like their partner respects and appreciates them.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

They just have so many beauty options that makes them want validations from their partners, also makes them picky with how they should look and compare themselves to other women.

[IveGotNoName]

Any sort of comparing me to other people in a negative manner.

[Vegasrunner]

When a man has options. Womens entire sexual strategy is to find a 1% man and then hope for some inexplicable Reason he settles for only them.

[TroyDT]

Her past experiences and his current actions.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

The existence of better options in the man's disposal

[maximumpower]

Everything - from issues as minor as the tiniest flea turd to those the size of the universe.

[abhi44444]

When he give her very less time and he feel less actuators to her

[Anonymous]

When we look at other women for longer than a second.

[monkeynutts]

Sticking your dick in another women's mouth.

[Anonymous]

Their unstable brain

[jimmy2]

When either one get bitchy

[likelyOK]

Her self esteem

[lorenzomichael]

Being ugly as fuck.

[ODC2112]

Expectations.

[Anonymous]

Weak men.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Weak women.

[insteadfew]

Weak as in? Physically weak... short and underweight?