A few years ago, when I was 15, I was a pretty chubby, borderline fat guy. I didn't have many friends and I was always trying to fit in but I really couldn't and was depressed. I didn't like who I was so I started weight lifting and working out, as a way to vent feelings and change myself at the same time. I would go every day, every week and worked as hard as I could. Initially, I still had no self confidence and was semi-depressed. I still remember this one really, really, really beautiful girl who worked there one summer (when I was 16 now) as a summer job. I'm pretty sure she didn't notice me or anything like that and every time I'd look at her I'd feel sad. Sad because I didn't think that I was worthy of anyone as pretty as her. At the same time it gave me motivation to work harder and maybe one day deserve someone like her.
Eitherway, every person has something hidden inside and the gym, I find, is most of all a place for you to work on yourself and some people (like me) have had a difficult past so when I am working on myself in a place like the gym, I often have memories and still think about instances at school, girls who never liked me, etc, etc...
Maybe he has a story behind why hes' there too.
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He likes you, but he's either too shy to approach or thinks he's not good enough for you. You might have to make the first move if you're interested in him.
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