Why is he purposely avoiding me?

[Anonymous]

He used to be really into me, trying to show me he was into me, but since he never got around to asking me out and I'm very shy around him to the point I find it hard to look at him, I just went with his flow, but he stopped staring at me and smiling, now when he walks past he doesn't say hello he looks into the distance and ignores me, When he walks in the room and I want to say hi, he looks any where and at any one but me making it hard for me to approach. He leaves the room when I walk iin, and constantly assume I'm coming in the room because of him. He makes me feel like I was begging clingy when I wasn't. If he's standing next to the person I need to talk to and I ask that person a question, he will either look away or turn around.

All the while he's still nice, and I could be reading too much into it, but he definitely isn't pursuing me anymore. He won't let me approach, and also one time I find into the room and he walks away from me, as if I was going to approach him which I wasn't. I never have approached him, I still like him and his behavior is making me question whether he likes me, because although he seems to be avoiding me, it seems he is doing it consciously, rather than someone who just wasn't interested and didn't see me like that. I'm confused and I feel like giving up... What do you think?

[Anonymous]

I went through something similar. A girl told me she only wanted to be friends, so i stopped texting and emailing but i would talk to her when i would see her and i would be nice, we've built our friendship back up but the next few weeks will show if we are to go to the next level. Your probably wondering how we got to to the point of meeting up. She texted me and asked me to go to the cinema with her and i did. I recommend if i'm not too late, emailing him, say hi. he might be shy too. if he doesn't come back then the issue is him and at least you know you gave it a try.

[timmy111]

I think maybe it is as simple as he likes you, but his ego is hurt, hence he is just protecting his feelings now, and hesitant to put himself out there

[Asker]

Why would his ego be hurt? &.. What can I do to let him know it's ok, ot should I just nice on?

[timmy111]

He might of been too shy to actually make a move, thinks your disinterested, and just saving face, he could of created the whole problem in his head himself

[Asker]

So should I continue to show him I'm interested?

[timmy111]

Give the shy boy some help ;) If you like him sure definitely put yourself out there, I don't know what's going on in his head, someone might of giving him the old advice to give you the cold shoulder and see if it gains your interest. But if he never made a move in the first place, I have no idea why

[Megit_Rainn]

I think he just lost interest. Someone should've made a move earlier. Just show him u don't care and he might come around. if he didn't, its fine. drop it.
Try looking real good for the next few days, you'll catch his attention.
Do not approach. You'll look clingy,

[ArabianPwincess197]

Has he lost interest?

[Anonymous]

Probably thinks you've friendzoned him