Why don't white guys like beautiful ethnic women?

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I'm a beautiful woman super attractive sexually appealing. Most men don't like me cuz I'm really pretty but I can somehow get other guys to maybe like me. I'm indo pakistani too. However white guys for some reason just hate my guts. It's weird most white guys just treat me like shlt and are really mean to me. I don't prefer any race but I've been on lots of dates with white men and in general they just are mean to me. But I'll see white guys dating black women or Asian women but they don't like beautiful pak women like me. I can get if I wasn't pretty ok. 

It's not my race because I barely look my race I just look like a really beautiful woman however u want to define that. But white men just don't like me. Other ugly women of my race can meet white men easily but most shun me. Do white men in general
just hate beautiful ethic women or beautiful women in general? And I'm looking for legitimate answers not cut downs.  I used to model and I barely even look my race I sort of look Hispanic. You'd think men would jump to date me but instead they are mean to me. Many will say I'm so hot and still be mean to me. And I have a great personality I'm laid back funny I go to tons of concerts shows and just fun and cool. Not bossy or mean just super laid back. It makes no sense why men or white men would prefer an ugly fat boring or rude girl to a super hot gorgeous fun girl who is cool or be mean to her. Heck I just drove 15 hours to another state to go see a show.

becca123 · Accepted Answer

I think men find beautiful women most appealing when they don't act like they know they are beautiful. Could possibly be a vibe you are putting out without realizing it that just isn't sitting well with some guys who don't feel as self confident as you are.

Self confidence is definitely a plus, but wearing it too visibly can be intimidating to a lot of men.

katlegomaabane · Accepted Answer

I don't have a problem attracting guys of all races, I tend to attract more white guys than any other guys. You may be very beautiful, I don't believe your a horrible person because it's okay to love yourself and be self aware of your own physical beauty but maybe you may be off putting. The right guy will come your way, just give it time.

Goldie757 · Accepted Answer

I am ethnic as fuck and I am dating a white guy. Maybe its your attitude not your looks.

LibraPisces66 · Accepted Answer

It's hard to imagine what the problem is, as you do sound beautiful, fun, self-confident, open-minded, and smart. Most guys don't shy away from ethnic women, that I am aware of. So it is a bit of a mystery. I have to wonder if it is something you unconsciously project, and they respond to it in a seemingly negative way?

Xelebrum · Accepted Answer

Maybe it's either because you're a lying troll (which is likely), or while you may be physically beautiful, you're ugly on the inside (which is also likely).

Either way, I would never date you. Regardless of your ethnicity or how attractive you are. Your personality is just gross.

AleDeEurope · Answer

"I've been on lots of dates with white men and in general they just are mean to me." Ok, so they do find you attractive cause they went out with you, but given your bitchy and arrogant attitude, that's why they treat you like that, cause you think you're the best when you're no better than the next girl.

Change your attitude and you'll see guys liking you, cause seriously, you can't expect us to take you seriously when you start by saying "I'm a beautiful woman super attractive sexually appealing" and that's why I think you're just trolling.

ThisDudeHere · Answer

"I'm a beautiful woman super attractive sexually appealing." Here's your bag of attention:

Octavius · Answer

Well you came off as super shallow in your post talking about other ugly girls getting dates and constantly complimenting yourself. They'res a difference between being confident and just being full of yourself. So I'm gonna go ahead and guess it's your personality.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm sure there are plenty of white guys that would bang you silly. I'm a white guy but I haven't had much experience with middle eastern or pakistini girls. I have met several indian people. Although I like their personalities/work ethics there hygene/cleanliness is a big issue for me. I have lived with two indian guys and they were messy, smelly and inconsiderate. My mother who is a RN tells me that indian are usually very smelly and don't shower after giving birth. They also bring in there smell curry good and stink up the whole room.

I realize that sounds very racist however that is just the experiences we've had.

MysteriousChick93 · Answer

guys like humble girls not boastfulness. You appear very arrogant and set on oh I look so amazing how do we know that to make comment. Being cocky isn't hot. An Asian are seen as least attractive. No point moaning over it many I know stick to their own anyway hence why they probably don't think to date that type as they usually have strict family or certain rules.

Anonymous · Answer

Well... first off you shouldn't say you're beautiful so much, it makes you sound like you're really self-centred. It could be your personality, and nothing to do with your race, so don't just assume stuff like that. Just from this, to me you sound arrogant and more interested in yourself than others... so it might just be your personality.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, hopefully I won't be "braindead" here.
If I had to guess, it is because everyone has their types. As much as we like to deny it, I think people just have a sort of inherent rascism. Heck I can't deny it for myself even. I'll admit that any race can be beautiful, but my 'type' tends to favor with white women. I can't help it. Personally, I'll still find people of other races that are very attractive to me, but I have a higher chance for physically being attracted to white women.

Most likely the men who reject you have different tastes in what is pretty vs not pretty. That doesn't give them a reason to be mean to you when they could say something like "sorry, but I'm not interested." However, turning down is acceptable. We like who we like and we don't like who we don't like. We can't help it.

RationalMale · Answer

For one, caucasian men are bred and born in Western Civilization, and most Indian-Pakistani peoples are bred and born in Eastern Civilization. The cultures are at odds, already.

For two, we white men prefer to date white women. It's group loyalty, or instinct... we prefer each other, and find our fellow whites the most attractive. You dance with the ones that brought you.

9mfeo · Answer

Honestly, some do. Stop generalizing. It is unbecoming.

9agshh · Answer

well the beautiful ethnic woman i know (Indian background) has a decent personality whereas you seem to come across as some kind of nutcase so i'm guessing it's when they've got past your looks the problems start.

martyfellow · Answer

Who are you calling white? Irish-Italian guys like me? Most of us have no problem wth ethnic minority women., I'm married to one.

abundantlyrich · Answer

Do u use your looks as a crutch to be the only thing you have going in your life?  How were they rude to u? Just curious.

Anonymous · Answer

Most people prefer their own race, people have more in common with those who're similar to them. It's that simple.

LittleSally · Answer

Who says they don't? I think they actually do. =)

Anonymous · Answer

You keep mentioning you don't look your race. Why is that something you need to mention. I hope you're trolling because everything you just said is narssistic and sociopathic.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe because you sound extremely full of yourself. Just reading this. i found myself eger to get to the end. maybe if your this self confident in life you should tone it down a notch it's very overwhelming and unattractive. maybe this is your issue

Anonymous · Answer

I don't believe you. No one likes white guys anymore.

AmandaLynn1930 · Answer

last time i checked... they do... ur just not finding the right ones. sorry.

chrisbigman · Answer

I do. Not all white guys hate beautiful ethnic women. Maybe you're around the wrong white guys.

WhaChaChaKing · Answer

Who knows? Maybe they're jealous of your sexiness and how all around perfect you are.

Why don't white guys like beautiful ethnic women?

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