My boyfriend looks other girls butts but lies about it, what do I do?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I've been with my boyfriend for a year and for some reason I've just now noticed he looks at other girls butts. No big deal, I've heard the whole "look but don't touch" or "he's a guy, that's what they do" crap. But he denies it. When I plainly see with my own two eyes that he does. I mean he doesn't voice his opinion about them but why lie about it? I'm a understanding girl, it hurts me that he looks but I can over look it, but come on lying about it. He's never asked me because honestly he has no reason to ask me because I don't look. I honest to goodness don't. And yeah yeah it's human nature but I'm the type that doesn't like to be lied to, I don't care what it is I want the truth. I need advice, no one else can help. Thank you 😊

[Anonymous]

He's a guy. He's going to look at women's bodies because we like doing that. He's going to tell you that he doesn't look because he knows that you are insecure about your appearance because you're a woman, and admitting that he's looking at other women will make you think he's comparing you to them. Which he's not.

[abc3643]

Don't worry about it. It's natural. Remember the Old Italian Housewive's Proverb: "It doesn't matter where your husband gets his appetite from as long as he eats at home."

[Asker]

Thank you, you're right though. I just let stuff bother me very easily, I'm short tempered to so that don't help much lol. But thanks for the advice 😊

[Drooogie4]

Guys stare, girls stare.
Of course he doesn't want to admit it.
But he's not doing anything else right?

Just tell him it makes you uncomfortable and you'd like him to stop (atleast around you).

[Asker]

I've tried, he just acts like I'm being psycho about it and that he doesn't even look. That's what makes me mad, that he's lying about it.