All depends on the situation, if he can put aside the feelings he has for her then he will stay friends,
But if he can't and every time he is with her he knows she doesn't feel the same, it can lead to a lot of frustration and hurting, so he might need to put a space between the town of you.
The big problem is when you're really close friends and he doesn't want to lose that, but at the same time he doesn't want that feeling of never being able to have you as more than friends that he might become very confused and one minute be ignoring you then calling you up the next.
I think personally regardless how close you may be as friends, if one is harbouring stronger feelings then it will eventually fall apart, as the one with the feelings will never be completley happy around the other and become very frustrated and it won't be good for emotional health.
hope that helps a little .
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Guys may have some small interest in their female-friends, but they don't HAVE to, it's not AUTOMATIC. However, we must address the abundance of guys stuck in the "friend-zone" and wanting their girl-who-is-a-friend so badly it hurts.
For deciding between likes-me-as-a-friend and wishes-I-was-his, I say it's all in his eyes. While men may cover up their body language somewhat (pay attention to that too) they rarely hide their true feelings in their eyes. When he looks at you, does he look with friendship, like you're his sister (assuming incest isn't involved) or like he wants to hold you close?
He might stay friends, if she was a nice person and he had no reason NOT to stay friends. Or he might feel like she's rejected him, and not want to be around her.
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I will explain to you how the system works. There are three kinds of girls:
Girls we have not had sex with yet but would like to.
Girls we have had sex with
Ugly and fat girls, and girls who are dating our bros.
The last type of girl is the type of girl we befriend, because we do not want to get in their pants (either because she's hideious/obese or because bros before hos). The other two types, we do not befriend, ever. It just seems that way to outside observers. We try to get them to sleep with us, every single goddamn time.To the first question: Yes. But nothing you should be worried about at all. I have had a friend that is a girl for about 14 years and I am attracted to her but I would never make a move on her because she is just a friend.
Second question: You won't be able to notice a difference. Maybe an unnoticeable amount more flirting.
Third question: Yes. If he was interested and it went no where but friendship the guy would not terminate the relationship. Unless of course he is shallow.
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