Because if you are too nice to a woman, care about her and do whatever she says she is going to think that she is too good for you and that she deserves better. You have to treat your woman a little like trash and let her know that she isn't a priority in your life. That will make her think that you are greater than her and that SHE is lucky to have you.
Because there is a point between being nice and being plain. You need to do something to separate yourself from the other guys. Often nice guys get looked over because a number of them are not assertive when it comes to making a move. That is why women friend zone them.
What? So you want to get a girl, and girls say that they want nice guys. Did it not cross your mind to verify what these girls say by looking at the actions they take before you mould your whole life and personality around this lie?
Because these self proclaimed nice guys, often lack initiative. The biggest difference between a nice guy and a "bad" guy, is not how they treat women, but that the bad guys is putting themselves out there.
Most self proclaimed "nice guys" are the guys that are too scared to make a move. Their are plenty of real nice guys that have real relationships etc but the guys that always complain about being girls not wanting nice guys are the creepy , awkward, weird unconfident guys and all they offer is being nice
Because they are too passive waiting for "the perfect moment" to make "the perfect calculated chess-move play" in conversation to get a woman!
For the left-brained 'nice guys' out there; you have to understand that socialization is imperfect. There is no way to have a formulated, precise way to handle socializing with every woman in every situation.
Get out of the "formula" system, and become more carefree and free-flowing.
either because the nice guy constantly dates the women with long hair, big booty & boobs, skinny body & etc or because most women fall for the assholes.
Nice guys don't end up alone. Truly nice guys have a bunch of friends of both sexes and women want to be with them. Whiny, socially awkward guys who think they are nice but are really just passive-aggressive end up alone.
We have our worth undervalued by women, we are treated like shit by those same women, and the majority of our life proves that it is easier to be happier alone. Women don't know how to make relationships mutually beneficial. We get tired of attempting to gain women's attention when they ignore us. We rely on ourselves for our personal happiness instead of relying on someone else to make us happy. When we realize that, the majority of women don't seem as attractive as people anymore.
No most women probably just dont know you're even interested. In your head you might be thinking that you're showing interest but from her point of view you might just look friendly. So you end up assuming she's taking advantage or w. e but she probably has no idea..
@xwingz No, she knew I was interested because I approached her. I don't approach anymore because women make men feel like shit when they show interest.
Women ignore good men, even save them in the friendzone in case their other relationships with Joe Dickbag falls through they have the nice guy as a backup plan.
Well i guess she wasn't attracted to you, some women love the attention but it goes both ways some men act that way too, but yeah it makes them feel good and they act like bitches to see how far they could take it with you
they probably don't try to turn her on or acts like a friend so she doesn't notice? Or acts too desperate/doesn't treat her like an equal as in puts her on a pedestal. Or then he might just not be her type.
Because you're not a "nice guy". You label yourself that, but in reality you are weak beta SIMP. 😔
Look at it like this: If you refuse to use your balls and act like an effeminate boy then NO ONE is going to respect you. That includes girls. They'll want you to be their gay best friend, not their boyfriend.
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They don't. Nice is such a cop out. If by nice do you mean also too timid to talk to an attractive woman? Or does it mean self-entitled and thinks he "deserves" her? Or does it mean never makes the first move because he's scared to be disrespectful? If nice is your greatest asset, then you're too scared to get out of your comfort zone and take some goddamn risks and find out who you really are.
Because most of the nice guys are convinced that this is how they end up, because they see Jocks getting all the chicks, and they feel like they are pushed away, but it's not like that :)
Most normal being are nice. Being nice isn't a unique trait or anything. So you're not lonely because you're nice, you're lonely because you're boring or too weird.
On the contrary bud... Girls don't actually want a nice guy as in a nice guy that has no back bone... by NICE GUY they mean a gentleman that can skirt the edges a little but overall genuine kind to people and her
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Because if you are too nice to a woman, care about her and do whatever she says she is going to think that she is too good for you and that she deserves better.
You have to treat your woman a little like trash and let her know that she isn't a priority in your life.
That will make her think that you are greater than her and that SHE is lucky to have you.
Sounds stupid, but that's the female mind for ya.
Lol. Perfect
Because there is a point between being nice and being plain. You need to do something to separate yourself from the other guys. Often nice guys get looked over because a number of them are not assertive when it comes to making a move. That is why women friend zone them.
Because nice guys are spineless gullible morons.
What? So you want to get a girl, and girls say that they want nice guys. Did it not cross your mind to verify what these girls say by looking at the actions they take before you mould your whole life and personality around this lie?
uh.. they don't.
Guys that like to feel sorry for themselves, probably and its pretty self explanatory, don't ya think? nobody likes that
Because these self proclaimed nice guys, often lack initiative. The biggest difference between a nice guy and a "bad" guy, is not how they treat women, but that the bad guys is putting themselves out there.
Most self proclaimed "nice guys" are the guys that are too scared to make a move. Their are plenty of real nice guys that have real relationships etc but the guys that always complain about being girls not wanting nice guys are the creepy , awkward, weird unconfident guys and all they offer is being nice
Because they are too passive waiting for "the perfect moment" to make "the perfect calculated chess-move play" in conversation to get a woman!
For the left-brained 'nice guys' out there; you have to understand that socialization is imperfect. There is no way to have a formulated, precise way to handle socializing with every woman in every situation.
Get out of the "formula" system, and become more carefree and free-flowing.
either because the nice guy constantly dates the women with long hair, big booty & boobs, skinny body & etc or because most women fall for the assholes.
Nice guys don't end up alone. Truly nice guys have a bunch of friends of both sexes and women want to be with them. Whiny, socially awkward guys who think they are nice but are really just passive-aggressive end up alone.
Very harshly worded but true
We have our worth undervalued by women, we are treated like shit by those same women, and the majority of our life proves that it is easier to be happier alone. Women don't know how to make relationships mutually beneficial. We get tired of attempting to gain women's attention when they ignore us. We rely on ourselves for our personal happiness instead of relying on someone else to make us happy. When we realize that, the majority of women don't seem as attractive as people anymore.
No most women probably just dont know you're even interested. In your head you might be thinking that you're showing interest but from her point of view you might just look friendly. So you end up assuming she's taking advantage or w. e but she probably has no idea..
@xwingz No, she knew I was interested because I approached her. I don't approach anymore because women make men feel like shit when they show interest.
Women ignore good men, even save them in the friendzone in case their other relationships with Joe Dickbag falls through they have the nice guy as a backup plan.
Well i guess she wasn't attracted to you, some women love the attention but it goes both ways some men act that way too, but yeah it makes them feel good and they act like bitches to see how far they could take it with you
they probably don't try to turn her on or acts like a friend so she doesn't notice? Or acts too desperate/doesn't treat her like an equal as in puts her on a pedestal. Or then he might just not be her type.
Because you're not a "nice guy". You label yourself that, but in reality you are weak beta SIMP. 😔
Look at it like this: If you refuse to use your balls and act like an effeminate boy then NO ONE is going to respect you. That includes girls. They'll want you to be their gay best friend, not their boyfriend.
They don't. Nice is such a cop out. If by nice do you mean also too timid to talk to an attractive woman? Or does it mean self-entitled and thinks he "deserves" her? Or does it mean never makes the first move because he's scared to be disrespectful? If nice is your greatest asset, then you're too scared to get out of your comfort zone and take some goddamn risks and find out who you really are.
They don't end up alone. They just are more patient and wait for the right girl without making mistakes
Because most of the nice guys are convinced that this is how they end up, because they see Jocks getting all the chicks, and they feel like they are pushed away, but it's not like that :)
im liking a nice guy now, ill make sure he will never end up alone
hahahahahaa
is it a funny thing?
That's just a generalization. Not all nice guys end up alone. You just need to find the right girl for you.
Because they never go for it. bad guys always take risks. Us girls are literally waiting for Prince Charming
Most normal being are nice. Being nice isn't a unique trait or anything. So you're not lonely because you're nice, you're lonely because you're boring or too weird.
On the contrary bud... Girls don't actually want a nice guy as in a nice guy that has no back bone... by NICE GUY they mean a gentleman that can skirt the edges a little but overall genuine kind to people and her