Why do some men find exotic women attractive?

[JudgeJulie]

Purely curious as to why some guys like exotic looking women and do they make a conscious effort to date them due to these features.

[Anonymous]

Maybe they like the allure of mystery. Plus maybe they have had bad experiences with women of their own race or women of their own race do not like them. For example white women reject white men for black men due to penis size thus white men date Asian women.

[anonymiss15]

what's the reason for dating Asian women?

[JudgeJulie]

I don't think that's accurate in terms of them dating Asian women. There's a small percentage of white women dating Africans and it comes down to preference. Perhaps, the exposure of multiculturalism has made it more acceptable for people to date outside their race. I don't know why people always describe olive to darker skin toned women as exotic lol

[Opinion Owner]

@JudgeJulie
No it's due to white guilt and "progressivism" that white women are going after black men plus black men are seen as tough, muscular, and big downstairs.

Also they (white men) go for Asian women because they seem more cultured and reserved. Also despite multiculturalism only dating black men is seen as acceptable. I don't see white women dating Asian men or Indian (asia) men or even black/latino women dating Indian/Asian men.

[JudgeJulie]

Rarely anyone dates Asian and Indian men sadly. Times are changing, people are dating whoever they please.

[Opinion Owner]

@JudgeJulie
Not really only black men seem to get all the women other than white men. And we can blame racism, stereotyping, prejudice and media portrayal for that because who would want to date a nerd who owns a store, has arranged marriages, talks with a "funny" accent, has a small dick vs a gangsta "ladies man" who lifts weights everyday, speaks ghetto slang, refers to women as hoe and bitch, does rapping and break dancing, plays American football/basketball and has a big dick.

And multiculturalism these days = Hot white blonde dating a black man.

[anonymiss15]

disagree with the "gangsta" stereotype. lmfao

[Opinion Owner]

@anonymiss15
Then why do black guys get all the women? Even in porn hey are the ones who get all the women.

[anonymiss15]

black men and women have always been overly sexualized.

[JudgeJulie]

Everyone has their own preference. To be fair, my Caucasian girlfriends prefer dating only Caucasian men. Western women usually date western men unless if they have a different preference then they'll date whoever they want period.

[Opinion Owner]

@JudgeJulie
Yes you are correct but the ones who chose to date outside of their race tend to only go for black men.

[JudgeJulie]

I've seen quite a lot of interracial couples and it varies.

[Opinion Owner]

@JudgeJulie
If it were true then I would not be single but because I am Indian I am single. I live in the U. S by the way.

[JudgeJulie]

My Indian male friends have been successful with all women.

[Opinion Owner]

@JudgeJulie
But I am told that women hate my race because of the news coverage of rape cases in India and women say out of all men in this world Indian men apparently "harass" women online.

[JudgeJulie]

That's wrong and I think you should have more confidence in yourself. Don't fit in with stereotypes and be proud of who you are. If I was worried about my success rates being a minority I wouldn't of gone this far.

[Opinion Owner]

@JudgeJulie
I certainly don't fit any stereotypes heck if you met me in person you wouldn't believe I am Indian. The only thing about me that is Indian is my parents that's it.

[Intraluminal]

Some people are frightened of difference, others are attracted to it. I doubt that it's concious, it just depends upon the person.

[JudgeJulie]

That's true, I'm in the middle and thank you for your input :)

[Intraluminal]

Thank you. Remember, there's a close similarity between excitement and fear. They both make your pulse race. I find AA women attractive, but my cousin - not at all.

[peachblossomluck]

I think it's the same reason that people are attracted to someone quite unlike themselves or someone out of the ordinary. That's different for the genepool.

[JudgeJulie]

That's true, we can't help who we are attracted to and maybe being "exotic" is a bonus.

[peachblossomluck]

There is that polarity "opposites attract" theory always at work.

[peachblossomluck]

Thanks for MHO:)

[alice55]

I like guys from another country too, I think it just change to what you're use to see. Something like that, people are also curious to difference.

[JudgeJulie]

Interesting perspective, what exotic men do you like?

[alice55]

Scandinavian type and Asian.

[writing_essays]

I think because they associate exoticism with purity and class. Its like Donald Trump who keeps marrying woman who have heavy accents.

[JudgeJulie]

Thanks beautiful and that makes sense :)

[Eternallylucky]

Well define exotic?

I think it's the pornography they have been watching that influences their sexual curiousity.

[JudgeJulie]

Maybe or multiculturalism

[mT2359]

They think that exotic women lack the sexual inhibitions that mainland women are plagued with... the puritanical Christian (Elizabethian) values are missing in Exotic women.

[JudgeJulie]

Interesting, is that the real reason why they would date exotic women?

[mT2359]

I think... it is... they think exotic women are open to kinky sex without judging.

[Anonymous]

We always want what we can't have (or in this case, we always want what the other guy doesn't have)

[JudgeJulie]

Interesting, I thought it might scare people away

[Abe0001]

imagination is a powerful tool the exotic full of fantasy and the unknown

[JudgeJulie]

Thank you, your opinion was quite helpful :)

[Pizzalover101]

Cuz they assume there more adventurous than regular girls an guys asume that they will do what ever they want in the bedroom

[JudgeJulie]

I would hope not haha

[Pizzalover101]

Well sum guys mite tink so but guys like new an different

[jman46241]

For the same reason that women find exotic men attractive.. It's something different and new! Granted with the advent of social media, exotic is becoming more of an everyday thing.

[JudgeJulie]

That's true and maybe a change is good :)

[dolemite68]

i've just always been more attracted to them, blonde hair blue eyed girls just usually aren't my type there's always exceptions tho

[JudgeJulie]

What's your type?

[dolemite68]

dark hair and olive skin is my favorite, most of my gf's have been latina and middle eastern. I like all types of girls tho

[apexalpha]

Same reasons why some men want exotic cars=> novelty

[JudgeJulie]

Dating exotic women is only for fun?

[Wwwyzzerdd]

They often don't play games that Western women do.

[JudgeJulie]

How so?

[Wwwyzzerdd]

They are approachable and don't pride themselves in having an attitude. They maintain their femininity while domestic women have become like dudes in behavior/attitude.

[Arya_Christ]

we are attracted to slim.. curvy.. athletic beauties..

[harabi]

We are not necessary.

[Arya_Christ]

I am..

[ACrazyHaggis]

many different reasons

[JudgeJulie]

Give examples

[ACrazyHaggis]

contrast of race
have a particular thing for a certain different race
seems different from the norm
they enjoy the different ascetic characteristics and so on

[Anonymous]

I find exotic cars attractive. I only want to nail exotic women.

[JudgeJulie]

Oh wow lol

[Rizwans]

they turn em on simply

[NerdInDenial]

It's because they are exotic.

[Anonymous]

i think "exotic" varies from person to person too.

[JudgeJulie]

That's true, I just don't understand why people describe others as exotic and attractive. Maybe it's the difference or stark contrast that attracts the individual.

[Opinion Owner]

could be. I've heard it maybe twice in my life, but I never asked the question as to how?

[Danny_dan92]

Natural selection, mixed people = cute kids

[JudgeJulie]

True, I guess it depends on the individual

[Anonymous]

Because western women have become entitled sacks of shit.

[JudgeJulie]

I don't think all western women are entitled. My European girlfriends are beautiful inside out. I was just curious what the allure to exotic women was.

[Opinion Owner]

You might think your girlfriends are beautiful inside and out, but their personality completely changes when they're with a guy.

[bc1989]

the common denominator here is you, maybe it's not 'all western women' with the issue at all

[tommy323]

they're unique

[JudgeJulie]

Solid answer :)

[tommy323]

thanks 😁

[Anonymous]

i thought you didn't care about men right now?

[JudgeJulie]

I'm curious that's all

[Opinion Owner]

if your concentrating on your career, you wouldn't "be curious"

[JudgeJulie]

I can study and also be curious about this weekend's events.

[Opinion Owner]

no, not really. if you cared about only your work, you wouldn't care about anything else