Why do men like exotic looking women?

Question

I have just been walking on the pavement next to the road of bikes and already two bikers passed by me in 150 meters since I started walking,

and they are almost crashed something because they have been checking out well after they have passed me, with their heads looking at me instead of a road, Checking me out.

They seem very curious who I am seems like they saw me from behind and they have been very curious to check me out from the front too and I am honestly a bit tired because I’m used to getting attention but sometimes you just want to to walk on the pavement for yourself and not to have peoples eyes in your ***.

andreasderjuengere · Accepted Answer

Weeeeeelllll --- we guys are optical persons.

Specialized, to spot and to appreciate something or someone pretty.

Please, generally take it as an innocent compliment.

The story is of course different when some of ''us'' begin to slobber like Pavlov's Dogs whenever they sense some kind of ''prey''.

As for ''exotic'' --> being a 'Westerner' living in SE Asia, I don't think that many of ''us'' 'eye' the exotic part, but rather the feminine details that too often went missing in ''Western'' girls.

Not saying that a ''Western'' woman'' can't look good, or act ''good'' in general... it's just that so many meanwhile don't even attempt to look (or to act) pleasant.

So the interest - now detached from visual aspects - comes rather from cultural or behavioural expectations?

It may look ''tiring'' to you. But don't you think that it's no less tiring for me - in my own life arrangements- that I'm also seen as some kind of ''prey''?"

It is as it is.

Keyboardkat · Accepted Answer

Years ago I was on a NY subway train, and there was an absolutely gorgeous Black woman there, in a colorful dress, nice makeup, sexy black patent pointed-toe stiletto pumps, and her hair just so. She looked like something out of a magazine! I think she must have been a model! Well, there was this young white kid coming through the train and once he saw her, he couldn't take his eyes off her (completely understandable). He passed her in the aisle and turned his head around but kept walking, until he crashed right into one of those poles you hang onto when you're a standee! She just laughed. He, I think, must have wanted to crawl into a hole! He went into the next train car.

Guido · Accepted Answer

Yes I personally find exotic women attractive. Nor sure why but it may just be they are different and rare where I live.
Attractive women will always get looks from men no matter where they are. Men love to look and admire beauty. Appreciate the attention while you have your looks as that can change over time and then you may be wondering why the guys don't give you rest attention.

Biancam13 · Accepted Answer

I think because they're different and stand out, looks wise. They're usually ethnically ambiguous looking or mixed race, so they are usually in the minority in whichever country they are in.

It's traditionally one of the reasons why men are known to find blondes attractive too. Natural blonde hair used to be considered rare, so a blonde woman would stand out. Being a rarity is a signal of good genes.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I get a lot of looks in America and in foreign countries like Japan because with my pale skin, blue eyes and red hair I'm considered exotic as blue eyed redheaded people are so rare.

WhitneySnow · Accepted Answer

I agree with you 100% about not always wanting to be stared at. Guys like exotic women because they see them as more sensual and more erotic than regular girls.

JacobJordan · Answer

This may come across a bit harsh so I do apologize in advance as this is quite blunt. The major reason men find "exotic" women attractive actually has less to do with the exoticness and more to do with other things. Presuming you are asking about American men. Men find traditional values attractive and for better or worse (depending on your view) foreign women tend to have those values more often than American women. As a result we tend to find them more attractive though we also find American women equally as attractive provided she is a traditional woman. Issue is of course a dwindling number of American women are traditional as such most are not that attractive to men

TheorionMage · Answer

'Gather Ye rosebuds whilst Ye may..." for this too shall pass.
Exotic looking women fuel imaginative fantasies just as the stereotypical 'bad boys' fire feminine imaginations~

In either case, reality seldom lives up to its best potential.

WhiteSteve · Answer

Everybody’s “exotic” to someone, haha. I’m white and blonde and blue-eyed, and that’s not typically what I go for in a woman, although a hot chick is a hot chick, period. I think something in my subconscious desires women who don’t look like we could be related, lmao.

lightbulb27 · Answer

stimulating to the brain. Our biology wants to mate and reproduce.

Probably an outcropping of civilizations where everyone was similar and then some "exotic woman" shows up. it's more stimulating if something is novel. curves and hair says "female".

question is if you should be found liable for the distracted driving. Muslim cultures solve that...

Naruse · Answer

All races are hot. With all that said something is considered exotic if it's not common. Plenty of black people want to fuck a white woman because to them dating other people of their race is the norm. With that said Asians have an epicanthal fold on their eyelids which are unique to Asia so that probably has something to do with it, other races have ethnic traits that vary but besides the levels of melanin none of these traits are as visually distinctive.

AviatorTom · Answer

Guys like to look at girls, especially attractive ones. You obviously fut that category.  Do you really dislike it, or does it make you feel good that guys find you attractive?

Angelo75 · Answer

Because "both genders" tend to think that somehow that 'the grass is always greener' at the other side.

If you've grown up only eating peanutbutter&jelly sandwich, ofcourse you'll be curious for a ham&eggs sandwich.

It simply goes both ways. But women and men do that.

LiamJHayden · Answer

A lot of men like the novelty of that which they do not see everyday. For those who live in the UK, green or blue eyes are so common (over 75%) that most might not notice. For those who live in Mexico City, where over 95% have brown eyes, those colors would be quite unusual.

Lester102 · Answer

Let’s talk logic here:generally speaking you may not seem typical, ethnicity, height, weight, hair complexion for whatever reason you may stand out by the way I was in such a situation with a girlfriend back in high school we would be walking guys were always glancing at her which is okay but I didn’t like it.

love_conquers_lust · Answer

Rubbernecking. https://

DryGermanGuy · Answer

I might  notice  an exotic looking woman, but if I  like  her or not depends on her personality.

Likes2drive · Answer

That’s like asking why are we attracted to women as it is , it’s just wired in us to be attracted to the opposite sex unless they are homosexual, if you’re different than most women in the area then they will be staring for sure

Sevenpointfive · Answer

here's your narcissistic sociopath @paris13

RingOfFire · Answer

You're just too irresistible. And so humble and filled with humility. How can any man possibly resist?

jshm2 · Answer

To be fair, they probably see you as potential victim material rather than partner material.

Andres77 · Answer

Exotic, in its base form, means “not from around here” so you stand out…and you’re not just different, ur stunning.

Count_de_Monte_Volo · Answer

Perhaps the evolutionary principle of genetic diversity.

Anonymous · Answer

Don't in general, they are just more feminine in personality and therefore marryable. Far too few western women have female minds.

jahaims · Answer

Evolution. Breeding with someone exotic makes for a stronger gene pool.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

They are one of a kind. That makes them special.

Anonymous · Answer

Well you brag about this enough that you may have to post a pic to prove it

Anonymous · Answer

Do we? I think we just like attractive women, and some of them happen to be "exotic", whatever that means.

Pohjolan · Answer

1. They stand out of the crowd. 2. No risk of inbreeding.

TheGuyYouCrave · Answer

Exotic. I am exotic. show me a photo on messages. Extremely hot is one thing, but exotic?

Lj0011 · Answer

Attractive is attractive no matter what background someone is.

QuietRunner · Answer

people like seeing something different it creates an attraction in some men

Anonymous · Answer

Because it’s something different for them they’re not used to seeing that

NathanDavis · Answer

how are you exotic looking?

spartan55 · Answer

The humble bragger returns.

notfoundtoday · Answer

That’s what we call attractive

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

I wonder what were you wearing? 😄

RedInnocent68 · Answer

Why do women? Variety is the spice of life.

Amur8711 · Answer

And women don't do the same 🤔

SUMAIREBRAHIM · Answer

I don't believe this...

Maddy2002_ · Answer

Probably cause their rate around them.

dolemite58 · Answer

cuz they’re hot 🤔😅

Unit1 · Answer

Exotic?

Anonymous · Answer

Are you mixed

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