He grabbed my breast in public, should I be angry?

[Anonymous]

I went on a second date with a guy. At this second date we had our first french kiss and it was also my very first kiss. At some point we were sitting at a bench and kissing and he grabbed my breast firmly. I pushed him a bit and said No. He apologised. A few minutes before this had happened, we were making out and his hands were on my butt. This all happened in a park and it was still daylight. It was my very first kiss so I was nervous and dont know if I overreacted by not allowing him to grab my breast. I have pretty big boobs but not huge. What should I think?

[holograph]

If you were letting him touch your butt, and he tried to go for the breast, I can't blame him for anything except the location.

It's completely okay for you to tell him when to cut it out, and to expect him to listen (and it sounds like he did). But given the situation you described, I would cut him a little slack because he probably thought he had the green light. I won't say he did nothing wrong, but I would say it's a minor and probably honest mistake.

Now, if he had not listened when you said stop, or if he kept doing it again later, I'd absolutely say you should be upset.

[AaronTupaz]

If you're in the middle of making out and a guy grabs you there, then you're over reacting. You have the rights of course to set your boundaries and push him away and if he keeps persisting then of course you have the rights to be angry.

[Spongebob1235]

if it made you feel uncomfortable then you are not overreacting.
for a second date, and the fact it was in a park, id be pissed off.
he doesn't sound like a very good catch to be honest, id find someone else if it was me

[DinaM]

If you weren't ready for him to grab your boob, then it wasn't overreacting to tell him no.

[Anonymous]

you're overreacting trust me that's fine and normal

[gtjrh4zrfg]

You weren't overreacting, but the fact you allowed him to touch your butt a few minutes ago, probably made him think he could grab your boobs as well :/

[meatballs21]

He misread your interest, it's an honest mistake. It's always a nervous moment when you think it's okay to touch and wonder how they'll react.

[rajpotchh]

must have reacted...
Indian girls do it...

if u do so.. its a mark u r good decent and innocent

[Skadouchebag]

wel he did apologize, so you should forgive him. but if he does it again...

[George12345]

if you are happy for him to do it. just try grabing his dick and see if he likes it

[Anonymous]

Blow his pecker in public - And when he's about to let loose kick his balls so hard that the juice comes out of his nostrils instead.

[emerald77]

You're not overreacting.

[TallAnon]

Yes, public harrasment.

[Nahid1234]

Were you okay with that?

[Anonymous]

yeah be angry.