He poked my breast

[Anonymous]

We were sitting together and he was explaining something to me and suddenly he moved his hand and it poked my breast. I just chose to ignore it because I thought it was an accident.

But then once I was tying my hair so my hands were up and I caught him staring at my chest. And when I wear V neck shirts (not too deep, just regular stuff), he's always taking glances at that area. So I am starting to think that what he did with his hand was intentional.

He's a nice guy otherwise, very helpful, kind and funny but is he a pervert?

Like to add that, he's never had a girlfriend before and is 18 years old.

[germanotaku]

Looking has nothing to do with pervetness ;)

It's just - we DO like that area, and if we're not allowed to look at that spot (because we're not the boyfriend) it's even more tempting to get a glimpse.

Things would change if he has a girlfriend, than it would be something he shouldn't do. (even though we all do it - just as romantiquee15 mentioned)

Just don't think about it too much, if it happens again, talk to him - this WILL be akward but it can be brought in as a joke like "you can't really aim well if you want to tickle me, can you?" (with an inspecting look from you) - he will get the hint ^^

[Littletad]

It's pretty hard to pass up a "poke at the breast" as accidental. Chances are he likes you.

[romantiquee15]

it's hard to say, that could of been an accident depending on how nice of a guy you think he is. like even if it were a perverted guy, there's still a chance that could of been an accident. I mean the staring at the chest thing is not really rare. nice guys, perverted guys all do it...it's just that maybe the nice guys do it when they think ur not looking or do it unknowingly...they're guys, they're attracted to those things haha. but if you say he's always staring at ur chest even though he knows you see him doing it, he could be a pervert in disguise. you never know.

[gravygirl]

Guys always look. If that makes someone a pervert, then they're all perverts. As for the touching, I'd assume it was an accident unless he does it again.

[EmberlyMai]

He's a guy. Of course he's looking! It's completely normal.

[nikki3800]

Boys just like looking at it because they are boys they just like touching and poking it and yea it is normal

[djmoney]

It probably was an accident, he seems as though he wouldn't have the courage to come up with such a diabolical scheme to brush against your breasts.

He probably is just awestruck with your breasts and once he poked you on accident, he could not help but look. It's natural and if it bothers you, let him know and he will surely be more discreet about it.

[toguro16]

yah its not being a pervert if he glances and stuff. but I'm 16 and a loner/virgin, and I have accidentally hit womens breasts before. maybe 3 times I can remember. my point is that I wasnt trying to but stuff happens, but those times it happened really annoyed me cause I didn't want any chick thinking I touched her boob. cause those girls would gime glances and stuff and id just wanna be left alone. but whatever, maybe you should "accidentally" poke his d*** lol.

[Anonymous]

Go on the assumption that it was an accident.

It didn't hurt you, right? So forget about it. Unless it happens again.

[Anonymous]

I think it was an accident I don't think he is planning to get your breasts