Do married men have crushes?

[Anonymous]

So I've realised that one of my work mates who is married with one child tends to be "too friendly", blushes, tries to make laugh, sits close, tries to impress me and like a lot of signs that screams "he has a crush on you." I don't feel comfortable only because the idea of a man flirting with another woman when he's married triggers me due to personal reasons but can married men who love their wives form crushes? Like if you're in love aren't you blinded and just see that one person? Call me naive but when I am in love no matter how attractive another man is, I only have enough eyes for my man.

[Mishan97]

Of course people can have crushes despite being married, its human nature! Majority of the time people don't act on those crushes because their love for their partner is greater than their infatuation for their crush. Obviously sometimes it doesn't go that way and if he tries to take it any further by pursuing you and asking you on a date just decline and say you're not comfortable with that since he's married. From how you described it though it seems harmless enough.

[beanz90]

He became married, not blind. lol

It's normal, it happens.

[Danny_dan92]

First of all don't be a fucken home wrecker. I've seen many cases of women making the mistake of being one and it NEVER works out for them.

To answer your question, of course. Just like married women find other men attractive. But what matters is that you stick to your vows and stay loyal to the person you are married to

[Asker]

I don't know if you read the details but I'm not married,. I wouldn't be a home wrecker because my parents relationship shattered because my dad decided to be an a-hole and go with another woman. So when I say it bothers me it actually does. I would never ever do it because I know how it feels when a family breaks down because of some 'other' stupid woman. The only reason I'm asking is because this guy is decent - and always mentions how much he loves his wife but some of the things he does is too friendly and that's what makes me go "why"

[Danny_dan92]

I getcha, well I didn't directly mean in towards you. I meant it from a general sense.

Now as far as this guy is concerned. He just might have the desire to cheat on his wife... or maybe he is just openly friendly with other women and it comes off like he is flirting

[Solomonmundy]

yeah married men are still men and crushes happen. A happily married man can still flirt but he knows where the line is and whether he crossed that line it's his decision too, it doesn't happen by accident.

if you don't feel comfortable about it then let him know.

[Bsjevrnsjxhxjs]

Wtf are u on about of course married men developed crushes.. I'd go as far as to say they have more crushes than single guys
Why? Because when you can't have something it becomes more appealing.
Married men also get more opportunities thrown at them then single dudes.

[Anonymous]

Men are not meant to be monogamous creatures. We are forced to be because of gynocentric social standards. We never stop wanting to have sex with other women, we like more than one woman at a time, and we have the interest to roam constantly.
It has nothing to do with how happy we are with our partner, how much we love her, or how content we are with our sex life.

[Omar5881]

Crushes is stupid and depressing I am single and I don't have crushes I either go and talk to this girl or move on , other than this is like keeping a double cheeseburger Infront of your eyes while dieting

[Anon-ymous1]

Well, yeah be probably does. Doesn't necessarily mean anything. People are allowed to have crushes; it's normal. Even after they're married.

[Walrus_au]

Sure, we're still human, we still have feelings. The difference is what we do with or about it.

[HannahKLee]

Everyone has crushes

[HannahKLee]

Doesn't mean anything tho

[naveenpb4u]

Yes
They do

[KaranSharma55]

yes they do