What do men dream about? Verses what woman dream about?

[Anonymous]

I've heard that men and woman have very different kinds of dreams from each other. Like how woman dream more about emotions while men dream mostly about fighting and shooting like more manly things. Is that true or do you guys dream about your crushes, people, friends and random things. I also hear that women dream more about people they know and men dream more about strangers. Now, I'm not generalizing how both men and woman dream, It's just a thought and observance. I know everyone is different and dream not just about generalized studies. But, I want to see if it's somewhat true! Men dreams - usally set outdoors and generally centered around male characters. The action in the dreams is usually aggresive, and hostile behavior against the dreamer. And violence. Like competetion with other men. Dream more about --physical aggression Unfamiliar settings, tools & weapons -Less color -Shorter dreams than woman -Cars and roads -Stangers, success or failure -Sex with unknown partners? Women dreams - setting is usally indoors and familiar involving friends and family. Dream more about verbal aggression and emotional expression. -Kissing, flirting with someone, or sex with someone known to the woman -Loss of loved ones -Conversation -more color -Longer dreams than men

[LaFemmeFatale]

I have dreams people can only dream of having :D
I love every time I get asleep because I know every night I'll have some kind of funny, weird, epic or romantic dream. Sometimes all of them together.
Yesterday I put very peaceful and beautiful melody as my alarm and when It started ringing I was dancing with someone on the clouds along with this music :D

Another day I rescued my family from serial killer and things like that. Once I even was the Duchess of some part of my country and had battle with Turks :D Once 10 rabid dogs chased me and I was running on circle and laughing.

I literally don't see nightmares :D

[LaFemmeFatale]

My family members call me "Sizmara" which means dreamer xD

[sweetmay]

I am a fantastic dreamer! Unbelievable, long story's, sometimes 3 or 4 the night.
It's all about the fear, the Tini little things that comes up again. And a few times also sex dreams. They are great, and a welcomed goodie 😊

[Astoriana]

I don’t think that’s true. Most often your dreams are just your subconscious making sense of your day.

[JesseEllyson]

I think you've got it pretty much nailed down. Your descriptions are spot on. Only one thing I would change. My own dreams do tend to be long. I've dreamt up such sagas at night!

Once I had a dream that covered years. It began with me as a child and ended with me as an adult. The subject matter of the dream does fit into your generalizations. But it was long, so long!

[Asker]

Wow!

[Anon85]

Umm... my dreams are too bizarre to describe and don't really fit the description you gave. Normally they're pretty adventurous and the only violence is normally someone trying to kill me while I'm defenseless. I've been shot and stabbed and it felt more lifelike than my IRL injuries. That crap hurts like hell

[Asker]

Yeah!! Haha I can agree for sure! I don't know why dreams can feel so real!! Like you can feel the pain!!! It's too surreall! Maaan!

[gahsbsbhsb]

Well i dream about fighting zombies several times, running from a crazy scientist with a shotgun once, witnessing a scattered brain turning into a monster once, stabbing people twice.
The rest is just me doing random things like applying for a job, showing a song that i write to a boyband in a hospital, dreaming about my favorite celebrities in different circumstances, yeah. Random things.
My dreams are usually short so in a night I could dream like 3 or 4 different short dreams and when i wake up it's too much to remember. It's so random.

[stove13]

Dreams are the subconscious trying to communicate with your conscience. That's why we have such weird and variety of Dreams. When you study dreams certain object certain emotions reflect a type of sign that shows or could show what the sub conscience is trying to say to your conscience.

[Asker]

Right, the brain is like a universe of imagination. No telling exactly where it chooses to go! Dreams can go from one idea to the next!

[false]

i dream about bizzare random shit.
usually outdoors and usually about people i dont know that sometimes turn into people i knew all along, without me paying attention to that.
sometimes the dream is so seriously fucked that im starting to realize that its a dream and change small things but still go with the flow, for example: i remember holding a pear and i said fuck it and changed it into an apple cuz i really wanted an apple and there werent any.

[Asker]

Hahaha

[oscarmz]

Honestly my dreams are like, wtf just happened. It's either one of 2 things something random like a spinning pyramid with warbling sounds, or something that is gonna happen in the future. Although something normal that I should add is that I have had dreams about my crushes, friends and family

[Asker]

Haha, hmm better pay a bit attention to that!

[Anonymous]

Men dream of big tits and big booty. Women dream of big black dick

[Asker]

Psh, in your dreams!! XD

[Agent]

I don't think that's true. I've dreamt about everything there (for both men and women).

[Asker]

I guess that good!

[Asker]

that's*

[Jawajoey]

Literally zero of the things you mentioned are things I would say are common themes in my dreams. They're all over the place on every one of these dimensions.

[ChancellorCharemagne]

I dream about whatever I want to dream about, Lucidity. I use my dreams to solve my problems.

[Asker]

Thats dope!

[Anonymus2017]

I have had very strange dreams in my time.

The most recent one was I dreamt that Martin Freeman was a hobbit and he just kept repeating the same thing over and over to me... "We've had breakfast yes. But what about second breakfast?"

[lastcall95]

I have the same recurring nightmare that I've had for over 20 years now.

[Asker]

Uh oh!

[lastcall95]

My dreams have a lot to do with repressed memories from my childhood.

[Asker]

Ooh I see... well that kind of sucks.. Wish there's at least some happy dreams..! That's no fun at all.

[Tyberius]

I only dream when my subconscious is trying to tell me something.

[Asker]

Interesting

[Tyberius]

Did you want details?

[Asker]

Sure!

[Tyberius]

Last dream I had was about a person I've always had feelings for, tried to talk to her again.

Before that was sexual, because I'm as dry as the Sahara Desert.

Before that was a dream about destruction, because I have a terrible relationship with my father.

[Asker]

Oh wow! Yes, That's very interesting. It's like you have dreams about now situations and experiences. I've heard that dreams can balance your emotions when you're feeling too much of it. Like, if a person doesn't really cry often in person and hold it all in, their dreams will be the ones to release all of that. Now, I'm never 100% sure if it's as told, but dreams are definitely a mysterious thing!

[Asker]

It's got to be that dreams serve ssome kind of purpose! I think it's for some sort of purpose in our lives.

[Tyberius]

I'm not an expert on dreams, but I know they happen in REM sleep. That's when your brain sorts through all your memories and discards the ones that doesn't need.

[Asker]

Hm, right. Isn't REM also the state of when the body is paralyzed?

[Tyberius]

Kinda, yes

[Asker]

Right

[slatyb]

About this time every year I start dreaming about skiing.

[Zelian12]

Men dream about normal day to day stuff. Women dream about their homeworld of vagtopia 7, land of the lizard people

[DaltonBenhardt]

Im in the military and i habe emotional dreams. I usually dream of family and friends but mostly family

[Asker]

Hmmph... that's interesting.

[Eternallylucky]

sex and twosomes, threesomes, quadsomes and mass orgy parties.

[TheRish]

Really your dreams charged me. I am standing now how will I sleep now? 😋

[HaleyArnold]

more a less same, though not frequently. Last night I dreamt I had sex with a friend bc I was very horny

[Eternallylucky]

@HaleyArnold ok please im not your sex therapist

[Eternallylucky]

@TheRish fuck off

[Asker]

Oooo. Lol, did someone wake up on the wrong side of the bed? WHOOPSY🌼 😄 ; ) 🐸🍵 ♩

[Eternallylucky]

I don't need to know about your sexual fantasies 😂😭😱

[heavygear40k]

Mostly nightmares of different calibers of fucked up.

[Wolframium]

My dreams are…oooh god! I jsut remembered the one from today. No, no, no, brain, WTF? Why? God, why…

[Asker]

Pahah

[Asker]

Do I even want to KNOW what it was about? 😅

[Wolframium]

Well, here is the thing. It's not about something horrible or such (most of the time). It's just…basically random noise. Random scenes with some weird transitions, the “plot” is…nonexistent, but things, which are happening make no sense what so ever. It’s kind of hard to explain, because those dreams are extreme nonsense.
But that’s not all. Then, I go on with my day and out of the blue, my brain reminds me something, what happened in dream, but he is telling me, that this actually happened. It always throw me off.

[Asker]

That is very funny haha

[Wolframium]

Yeah, it's funny when you read about it. :-)

[Asker]

Yeah true, worse to actually experience it, right? I think I'd be a little creeped out tbh! I wonder why this happens? So weird. You basically don't have dreams. Is what it sounds like!

[Wolframium]

It’s just that “WTF are you doing, brain?” moment. You’ll get used to it after some time, but still.
No, you have dreams, but…maybe the fact, that you remember them and brain reminds you of them, is the “fucked up” part. I believe, that basically all dreams are weird, nonsensical noise, but only if you remember it, you can tell. Obviously.

[zagor]

You're confusing real life with dreams. I don't dream about the stuff you're talking about, and I suspect other men don't either. Most of mine are rather frivolous.

[psychosam]

I dream mainly about near death situations, old friends and people I like

[Volvagia]

I dream about cannibalism n murder n videogamez n shiet