This is true. I probably wouldn't give a shit if I grew up knowing from an early age that girls actually did get that much body hair. And then there's another thing: It's hard to tell whether to shave your body hair or how much of it to shave because some girls consider lack of body hair to be feminine and therefore unattractive.
Imma need you to shave your legs, and armpit hair. You can grow hair all over your vagina but if you want me to go down thats not happening. Lol so i don't get it? We have to shave our faces for many reasons everyday, a job we have, girl doesn't like it, we dont like it and just want a baby face. Why are you being a feminist about this?
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Lol this is not me being a femenist. I'm asking why some guys want our entire bodies to be free of hair. Can a girl not ask a question without being a femenist? I think you need to look up the definition if feminism
It shows that her skin is softer and that she's "clean" honestly i won't care if a girl is completely hairless or not because i'm hairy myself and i will never shave (i only shave armpits , facial and the sensitive area), because it would make me feel less masculine and less confident
My opinion is that I really don't mind. if we have more hair at some (intimate and other) places it's because we need it. I mean hair protect our body skin, I'm not trying to act like a doctor or whatever but this my POV.
It started because razor companies used the rising popularity of bikinis in the 60s to promote hairlessness as attractive (so women would buy more razors), and that expectation has been kept in popular culture ever since.
No it didn't started in the 60s. Women practiced shaving their body hair even in ancient times. Egyptian, Greek and Roman women did that thing back then.
Because it looks really fucking good. No, seriously, there is nothing better in the body parts department than a woman`s completely hairless arm or legs.
Disagree! Its the complete opposite, especially with regard to pubic hair. There is nothing more feminine than a woman with a full bush down there. It shows she is sexually mature and not a 10yo looking porn star
I’m pretty sure that at least 50% of women’s historical aversion to period sex is simply a result of how naaaaasssttyy (and smelly) it gets when there’s hair down there.
@redeyemindtricks I'm sure there are exceptions. That said, I have had sex with a few women in my life. All three had a full bush and there wasn't any difference when on the period vs off because they kept things sanitary down there. I don't mind period sex but it can get sheets and things messy but honestly hair hasn't made my experience with period sex any different.
@redeyemindtricks One of them would wear some shorts over her bottom swimsuit. The other two would trim but only on the edges where the swimsuit covered. Any moving of the cloth and I'm sure hair would have poked out on the side a bit lol.
@redeyemindtricks Hey we are all different. My perspective is anything but "awful" regarding pubic hair. Nature didn't get it wrong. Its supposed to be there post puberty. To me its attractive because a female looks mature and developed with it vs none or very little.
@jpmoore89 Dude, "nature" gets shit wrong all the time. "Nature" has also given your yr tailbone and yr appendix — neither of which have any productive function at all, and the latter of which can rupture and kill you. "Nature" also gives about 80% of men the gift of prostate cancer by age 55 or so, although fortunately it stays latent for quite some time in most of them. Etc etc.
You do realize that evolution is literally a series of completely random changes...
@redeyemindtricks Life isn't perfect. I never said the body is a perfect system. But at the same time, lets look at the known facts of the function of pubic hair. 1. It's purpose is actually to keep things clean, not more dirty as commonly thought. 2. It is there on both sexes to provide padding during intercourse. 3. Its a visual form of stimuli to signal that the other partner or potential partner is physically and sexually mature. 4. It traps and transmits pheromones to help attract the opposite sex.
While the above are facts, my own personal preference is that I want the look of a mature woman, not a porn star trying to look 10yo.
BS your beautiful just the way you are if someone loves you they will love all of you If you were yo just trim it some youd be fine I personally use a torch and burn mine when it's burned it leaves the folical curled an stuns growth and I get nice and hot
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Lots of women are turned off by hairy men, so your argument doesn't hold water.
Also, body hair is masculine, not feminine.
Men have to shave their faces. Do you?
Life isn't fair. Feeling like a victim doesn't make it any easier.
@Belorum Of course you're right. But it's really beside the point. Yes, hair is natural on both men and women. But body hair is perceived as masculine, and smooth, hairless skin is perceived and feminine. And that perception is really all that matters. Women hold those same perceptions, for the same reasons. It's not going to change. Men will tolerate some hair on a woman's body, some more than others, but smooth, hairless female skin is the ideal and people will seek and aspire to the ideal. And of all the things that factor into a woman being attractive and sexy, body hair is one that they have 100% control over, unlike so many other things. We can lament it all we want, but this is not going to change.
By the way, I am talking about armpits, lets and crotch here. Most guys don't care about hair anywhere else on a woman's body. I sure don't. But I do mind hairy legs and snooch.
Well, how hairy is hairy? I don't see any point in shaving my legs because of the thin, short blonde hair I am naturally having there. And my boyfriend doesn't give a fuck about that XD You can't see them anyway.
Well, it's not a ton to ask for. I wouldn't feel bad if a chick told me to shed off some fat (which isn't the case, but still). At least it's something you can actually change and end up looking better in return.
What guy expects a female to be hairlesss? Thats probably one 5% of males. All normal dudes can dig it.
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I am currently with a woman that has a bush. I don't want her to shave it. But then again, most women had them when I started having sex, so it isn't strange.
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This is true. I probably wouldn't give a shit if I grew up knowing from an early age that girls actually did get that much body hair.
And then there's another thing: It's hard to tell whether to shave your body hair or how much of it to shave because some girls consider lack of body hair to be feminine and therefore unattractive.
Imma need you to shave your legs, and armpit hair. You can grow hair all over your vagina but if you want me to go down thats not happening. Lol so i don't get it? We have to shave our faces for many reasons everyday, a job we have, girl doesn't like it, we dont like it and just want a baby face. Why are you being a feminist about this?
Lol this is not me being a femenist. I'm asking why some guys want our entire bodies to be free of hair. Can a girl not ask a question without being a femenist? I think you need to look up the definition if feminism
Read the defenition, then read your question & your rant and piece two and two together and we'll have a winner !!! :)
Feminists are lazy slobs and cannot be bothered to do simple bodily hygiene maintenance for the sake of a man... They don't deserve men.
It shows that her skin is softer and that she's "clean" honestly i won't care if a girl is completely hairless or not because i'm hairy myself and i will never shave (i only shave armpits , facial and the sensitive area), because it would make me feel less masculine and less confident
My opinion is that I really don't mind. if we have more hair at some (intimate and other) places it's because we need it. I mean hair protect our body skin, I'm not trying to act like a doctor or whatever but this my POV.
It started because razor companies used the rising popularity of bikinis in the 60s to promote hairlessness as attractive (so women would buy more razors), and that expectation has been kept in popular culture ever since.
No it didn't started in the 60s. Women practiced shaving their body hair even in ancient times. Egyptian, Greek and Roman women did that thing back then.
I have hair every where. Especially on my arms. And I'm not ashamed.
Because it looks really fucking good. No, seriously, there is nothing better in the body parts department than a woman`s completely hairless arm or legs.
Because men and women are different and it's not feminine to have body hair. Ideally no hair below the eyebrows
Why does body hair on women make them no longer feminine?
u dont want women to have eyelashes? ok got it
Disagree! Its the complete opposite, especially with regard to pubic hair. There is nothing more feminine than a woman with a full bush down there. It shows she is sexually mature and not a 10yo looking porn star
@jpmoore89 Do you feel that way all month long?
@redeyemindtricks I feel that way all the time. I'm a consistent person. What do you mean by "all month long"?
@jpmoore89 ... even during period week mahah
I’m pretty sure that at least 50% of women’s historical aversion to period sex is simply a result of how naaaaasssttyy (and smelly) it gets when there’s hair down there.
@redeyemindtricks I'm sure there are exceptions. That said, I have had sex with a few women in my life. All three had a full bush and there wasn't any difference when on the period vs off because they kept things sanitary down there. I don't mind period sex but it can get sheets and things messy but honestly hair hasn't made my experience with period sex any different.
@jpmoore89 Out of curiosity, what kind of swimsuits did they wear? Did they at least trim around those contours, during beach/pool/swim season?
@redeyemindtricks One of them would wear some shorts over her bottom swimsuit. The other two would trim but only on the edges where the swimsuit covered. Any moving of the cloth and I'm sure hair would have poked out on the side a bit lol.
@jpmoore89 That sounds like four colors and five sizes of awful, dude.
I mean, I don't like any body hair on boys, either... so at least I'm consistent mahah
@redeyemindtricks Hey we are all different. My perspective is anything but "awful" regarding pubic hair. Nature didn't get it wrong. Its supposed to be there post puberty. To me its attractive because a female looks mature and developed with it vs none or very little.
@jpmoore89 Dude, "nature" gets shit wrong all the time.
"Nature" has also given your yr tailbone and yr appendix — neither of which have any productive function at all, and the latter of which can rupture and kill you. "Nature" also gives about 80% of men the gift of prostate cancer by age 55 or so, although fortunately it stays latent for quite some time in most of them.
Etc etc.
You do realize that evolution is literally a series of completely random changes...
@redeyemindtricks Life isn't perfect. I never said the body is a perfect system. But at the same time, lets look at the known facts of the function of pubic hair. 1. It's purpose is actually to keep things clean, not more dirty as commonly thought. 2. It is there on both sexes to provide padding during intercourse. 3. Its a visual form of stimuli to signal that the other partner or potential partner is physically and sexually mature. 4. It traps and transmits pheromones to help attract the opposite sex.
While the above are facts, my own personal preference is that I want the look of a mature woman, not a porn star trying to look 10yo.
BS your beautiful just the way you are if someone loves you they will love all of you If you were yo just trim it some youd be fine I personally use a torch and burn mine when it's burned it leaves the folical curled an stuns growth and I get nice and hot
Lots of women are turned off by hairy men, so your argument doesn't hold water.
Also, body hair is masculine, not feminine.
Men have to shave their faces. Do you?
Life isn't fair. Feeling like a victim doesn't make it any easier.
The hair itself doesn't have a gender... xD females just (usually) got thinner/lighter bodyhair then men, thats all.
@Belorum Of course you're right. But it's really beside the point. Yes, hair is natural on both men and women. But body hair is perceived as masculine, and smooth, hairless skin is perceived and feminine. And that perception is really all that matters. Women hold those same perceptions, for the same reasons. It's not going to change. Men will tolerate some hair on a woman's body, some more than others, but smooth, hairless female skin is the ideal and people will seek and aspire to the ideal. And of all the things that factor into a woman being attractive and sexy, body hair is one that they have 100% control over, unlike so many other things. We can lament it all we want, but this is not going to change.
By the way, I am talking about armpits, lets and crotch here. Most guys don't care about hair anywhere else on a woman's body. I sure don't. But I do mind hairy legs and snooch.
*legs
Well, how hairy is hairy? I don't see any point in shaving my legs because of the thin, short blonde hair I am naturally having there. And my boyfriend doesn't give a fuck about that XD You can't see them anyway.
@Belorum Whatever works for you and your boyfriend.
I don't expect her to be hairless, but i do like her to be shaven down there.
Well, it's not a ton to ask for. I wouldn't feel bad if a chick told me to shed off some fat (which isn't the case, but still). At least it's something you can actually change and end up looking better in return.
I don't as long as she showers and keeps it trimmed she can have hair where she wants
I think body hair is disgusting on me so I choose to shave. I don't care what guys think or what some feminist thinks.
Because I think it's sexy without hair but I know that some guys like hairy women and others don't care.
Because all the best animals are hairless... like frogs. Pepe and Kek in particular.
What guy expects a female to be hairlesss? Thats probably one 5% of males. All normal dudes can dig it.
I am currently with a woman that has a bush. I don't want her to shave it. But then again, most women had them when I started having sex, so it isn't strange.
It's called grooming. To be attractive. How can that be bad?
Or are you buying into the FI that both genders are equal, the same?
That is your decision, but it is also men's decision to date whom they choose to date.
Besides, many women I am sure have their own reasons for shaving, it may have nothing to do with men.