Do guys expect girls to be completely hairless?

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I remember having a conversation with a guy and I told him a lot of girls have hair everywhere but we get rid of the main parts (legs, underarms etc) and he was so shocked and disgusted to discover women have hair on their backs or stomach even though its blonde most of the time or the hair is so thin you can't really see it. I also told him some women have hair on their boobs but you can't really see and he said he would refuse to date someone who had a lot of body hair even if its thin and hard to see.

I would never refuse to date a guy who has body hair, in fact, my preference in men is that they stay hairy! Do you guys expect girls to be completely hairless?

dissolute_dog · Accepted Answer

lol no; most guys understand that girls have body hair too. It's just a natural thing that the bodies of mammals produce. :)

Like some others here have said, it sounds like your friend doesn't have much experience seeing girls up close, or he would realize that most girls have body hair that is very visible -- and that can even be felt in many cases when a guy runs his hands over it. xD

Granted, because I grew up in society, I much prefer if a girl shaves her legs and armpits, but I'm fine with a regular amount of body hair that girls naturally have on other body parts you mentioned, like the arms, torso, etc. It's actually interesting and kinda cool to feel it, haha! xD

ak666 · Accepted Answer

Sounds like a virgin thing. Any guy who has looked at a girl up close would realize that she tends to have tiny hairs everywhere.

That said, I personally prefer a girl to shave/wax her legs and pits and down there. Actually the first two have no functional benefit. It's just an aesthetic I'm used to for reasons that might be cultural.

Shaving/waxing/trimming down there is one that goes beyond aesthetic benefits. I find functional benefits to it if I'm going down on a girl to not have to navigate through the pubes.

RJGraveyTrain · Accepted Answer

Most guys say they wouldn't go out with x, y, and z until they meet an amazeballs girl who has x, y, or z. I just don't take people too seriously.

lilliank · Accepted Answer

humans have hair all over their bodies whether we see it or not. So that just shows you what he knows 😂

Chico_brah · Answer

Body hair on women grosses me out. My body is hairless because I'm a bodybuilder and it hides muscle definition. It's not that hard to shave in the shower. Get a razor with a large guard and you can do it as fast as you want without cutting yourself. My girlfriend is hairless and I prefer it that way. So yeah, I expect that out of a girl. I'm not going to fuck a girl that has a full bush and have I've flat out rejected a girl while getting her naked because she had hairy armpits and a full bush. She even had a happy trail. That's gross af and it doesn't take much of a diligent effort to shave. A lot of the guys here will take anything that they can get. "Natural.. Natural.. Natural.." These are the same guys who say they hate makeup and wouldn't be able to tell if a chick is wearing it or not. Just my opinion.

MrSelfless · Answer

I would never ask her to remove her hairs. Hair are natural just like a part of your body. Girls do it but its not at all necessary. I know there are some weirden who wants her girl to remove hair etc they term it as "clean" which I feel is stupid. If I put up same question with woman I'm sute most woman dont want bearded men but some rare woman does. Id love to meet those rare ones. You're fat , you're short , you're chubby , you're skinny , you're brown you're white , you're Indian , you're Jew , you're muslim you're this you're that. So many obligations and conditions to love , i dont like it.

Bananaman177 · Answer

I don't even care if you shave your armpits, I don't get all the hair-phobia. Pretty much all mammals have hair. I don't want to date a reptile, thanks.

TadCurious · Answer

Guys who expect girls to be completely hairless like a Barbie doll are just immature and ignorant. Like you say, it's normal for girls to have hair all over. It's just that most it is very fine and light-colored and not very visible. But sometimes, especially with darker-haired girls, it can be more visible but girls don't need any more areas to shave than they already have. I think the thing about shaving their arms is just really unnecessary.

Bvroon · Answer

In short, no. I say this because I understand how much time and discomfort is involved with the process of shaving or other hair removal systems, so if my wife doesn't shave for a few or even many days, it's not an issue for me. I don't make a big deal out of these sorts of things, granted this doesn't mean I want her to have a beard, but I think you understand what I'm talking about.

CarpX · Answer

Expect is too strong of a word. It's your body; you choose what to do with it.

I would say that, all else equal, I would be more attracted to a woman with less (noticeable) hair (other than her head and a pubic patch.) It's not that I wouldn't date someone with more hair, but my subconscious attraction would be lower due to it.

That said, thin/light/unnoticeable hair on the rest of the body is totally normal. If he didn't know that, then he hadn't really spent time with naked women.

matchrestore · Answer

I don't expect girls to be hairless- in fact I briefly dated one who never shaved or trimmed anywhere. It took less than a minute to get used to, and I still found her quite sexy.

AleDeEurope · Answer

Yep, not completely, but definitely no hair on legs, underarm, and pubes. I don't mind a little bit of hair on the rest of the body, but if it's a lot, it's a turn off, so get rid of it.

I get rid of my body hair, so I expect her to do the same.

frozenhorizon · Answer

I don't really care and I don't expect her to be completely hairless. I have s slight preference for trimmed or shaved pubic hair but it's really only because it makes it more enjoyable going down on her.

reptocarl · Answer

Body and pubic hair doesn't bother me any. I love a natural bush and I wouldn't care if she never shaved anywhere. It's natural. Shaving is unnatural

DodgersGM · Answer

I don't normally like using the whole "a real man..." spiel, but...  A real man understands that women are gonna have at least *some* body hair.

ThisDudeHere · Answer

Personally, I only care about armpit hair. Anything else can stay, as far as I'm concerned.

UnknownBartley · Answer

That guy must have been pretty thick to think woman have no hair 😂

Anonymous · Answer

there's hair all over your body whether you're a girl or guy. so he's basically saying he wants to date something like an alligator or some sort of retile because they're hairless creatures xD

BasilBrushSays · Answer

Well yeah... I don't wanna be mating with a Wookie.

iceEverestere · Answer

No, I like a little hair. Reminds me that she is a human not a fucking wax statue

mrkdvsn · Answer

Of course not. But I'm aware of the small fine blonde hair you talk about. And if ALL of a girl's hair below the neck could be like that, it would be fantastic.

notallthere98 · Answer

Fuck no. Hair is natural, I don't give a shit. Bring your fuzzy self over here and let's cuddle lol

meatballs21 · Answer

Pretty much everyone has fine, invisible hair everywhere. I do greatly prefer shaved apartments, poon and legs...

sedrftvgyhujik · Answer

I don't expect a Woki but other than that its not a case of expect but thick dark hair that shows up is not an attractive feature.

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