I would like to answer your question with a question: Have you considered what is expected from us, but not so obsessively expected from you?
A) Would you have preferred to be expected from you to have large boobs (because it's not obsessively expected from you)? Or to do just a little hair shaving.
B) Would you have preferred to be expected from you to be tall (because it's not obsessively expected from you)? Or to do just a little hair shaving.
C) Would you have preferred to be expected from you to have naturally wide hips? (because it's not obsessively expected from you). Or to do just a little hair shaving.
Do you know what is expected from you?
1) Have at least a little bellow average face, yes you read well, bellow average face because you have the privilege of make-up
2) Just do a little bit of work out, and if don't want to, just stay chubby, yes you read well chubby, chubby girls are doing well, just don't be obese.
3) Just shave some hair on your body.
Let's see it now from the perspective of the males in the questions A, B and C (aka small breast woman=small dick man, short woman=short man, narrow framed woman (hips)=man with narrow frame (shoulders).
What do you think will happen if suddenly all women say something like "Hey, guys! We are going to give, short men, men with small dicks and narrow framed men slightly few more chances (mark the word "slightly") if they do a little bit of manscaping!!!"
I'll tell you what will happen: You are going to witness, not only the conventional razors disappear from the shelves of the markets but even the old style, one-blade razors from the barber shops!!!
You see most of the things that many women expect from a guy (I am not saying all women because there are exceptions), are things out of man's control, they are just genetic traits.
On the other hand most things that are expected from you are things in your control.
Now would you like to be a man and bot be expected from you to shave your hair but with the risk of, let's say have a small dick?
Or a woman with the responsibility of shaving her body hair, but at least not having any problem in dating if the genetic lottery has given you small boobs?
PS: If someday women tell that they are going to give those said groups of men, more chances with just a little manscaping, I will literally invest all of my fortune to Gillette and Wilkinson shares!!!
No guy on earth is worth all the stupid things you think might be subjected to women. Not even shaving.
@katiesmuff Look, the fact that some women may have been mistreated by some men in their past, doesn't mean "No guy on earth is worth all the stupid things you think might be subjected to women. Not even shaving". Many men, including my self, have been mistreated by women but we still do our "stupid" things. How much of my precious time it will take me to go for shopping once in a while? Or go to the gym for 1-2 hours per day to stay in shape for me but also for the pleasure of my girlfriend? These are simple things that are under my control. What do you think my girlfriend does from her part? I'll tell what: We both go to the same gym, and when we go out she simply fixes her hair as I do, put some eyeliner on her eyes (it's the only think she puts on) and dresses up as I do. You may say but she shaves her body hair while you don't, well I make it up to her by cooking. See we are doing exactly the same amount of simple things... She's never complained neither have I.
Just what the fuck does shopping, cooking, or using a gym got to do with trying to make a female shave everything. You don't even want to know what I would tell you!
@katiesmuff Did I say anything about shaving everything? I thought we were talking about the normal parts such us armpits, legs and pubic area. How difficult is to shave those for God's sake?
It is always her choice to shave or not shave whatever she pleases. Just for a heads up shaving the bush is NOT one of the normal things.
@katiesmuff You misunderstood my original reply to the asker. You, think that I am talking about shaving or other minor things like that, from a social point of view, aka being friends with someone, or go to work, or to a party etc.. And, yes from that point of view, it's her choice whether she wants to shave or not, nothing is expected from anyone (man/woman) in that situations. I believe though that the asker is referring mostly about dating life and in dating there are other rules and expectations. I'll give you an example, you said about shaving the bush. Now, when I was at sea for six months (I am an engineer in the merchant fleet), of course I didn't shave my pubic area when I was in the ship, because you know I didn't had any sex there. I did though when I returned home and to my girlfriend because she likes me being shaved there. I have the choice not to do that. but if a take that option my girlfriend won't like it. See, it's expected from me in my dating life.
I'm on the same page as you are in that I am also talking of dating, relationships and marriage. It is and should always be a persons choice to do what pleases them and not necessarily their partner especially if what they like makes you feel uncomfortable.
@katiesmuff Yes, you are right about that, it's her choice but if she doesn't want to do that kind of grooming, she will have to wait, until an exception to the rule come for her and date her. You see, sometimes our choices are only on paper, because other groups of people indirectly dictate to us what to choose. I'll try to give an example from the male perspective. Women massively expect their partner to be taller than them (with some rare exceptions). There are men out there who would like to date taller women but the massive preference of women to date taller men, makes/forces them to comply and date shorter women. You may say "but they can choose not to comply", and you are right, but the price of that would be for those men to remain single for a long time waiting for the exception by chasing unicorns. The same goes here for women, there is a massive male preference to hairless female bodies. Now if she doesn't want to shave, she can either wait for the exception or to comply.
There is also a massive amount of men who don't give a rats ass how much hair a girl has on her. I know I who has a full bush never ever had a problem dating and I once had a girl working with me who had come from the Netherlands who had all the hair arms, legs, bush and pits. Guys tripped over each other to get with her as well.
@katiesmuff Yeah, maybe it depends on the country you live, whether these man are the exception or not. In my country they are the exception. I wrote my previous answer, in order to make my point that some of our dating choices are not fully controlled by us, but indirectly controlled by the choices of the other gender (especially when these choices are massive preferences). Do you agree on that?
Massive preferences in any language or country pertaining to dating would be things like personality, attitude, work esthetics, and the way they treat people. Worrying about body hair would be at the bottom of any list even if it was on a list.
but we're supposed to be buff, tall, handsome, rich, smart, thoughtful, emotionally, yet at the same time emotionally secure, undersanding and laid back while still not being push overs. my point is we all have expectations, both sides. and guys have different views on these expectations, some won't care and some will.
if you're asking for a rationalization on why a man would want a woman "hairless" id imagine its because in a mans view as well as understanding biologically; hair in certain areas grow a lot more with testosterone. being that men are not looking for testosterone filled individuals but more estrogen filled individuals for a partner (because you know... biology) it makes sense that a guy would want a woman to have less hairbecaus eit is a sign on less testosterone therefore we naturally find that more attractive. but its your body do what you want, just dont be getting mad at others for liking what they like, as well as grouping an entire sex to only have one shared view/ expectation.
Many girls do not have that high of expectations. I'm more realistic, idc if a guy is buff, or how tall he is, i don't care how much money he has. Society's expectations vs girls actual expectations are a lot different
i understand that, my point was; just like my view on womans expectations werent exactly as high as i would think they are, the same is for you to. most men dont expect a baby smooth, hairless woman, we want it , but we dont expect it. if they do its most likely because the guy is high maintenance and expects the same from his partner. and i think its just biological as well, just like i explained. trust me im not saying that women need to be hairless, i find it normal and healthy for a woman to have hair on their arms and in other places (when i was a kid i used to pluck my mothers beard/ chin hair so im used to it) but at the same time i think that its also normal for guys not to be attracted to someone who reminds them of the same sex when they are straight. are expectations unfair when high? yes! absolutely. but that doesn't mean everybody has those expectaions to that level. expectations are normal. having high expectations is the problem and thats frowned upon on by both sexes.
Who in their right mind would give this guy a thumbs down. Not only was it carefully articulated, well thought out, and on point in all aspects, he actually helped me realize WHY men like it that way. Personally I like women period and I like it "natural" downstairs ONLY but yes. It's no different than having a bald woman, every time she turns around it's like seeing my brother. I like my brother but I dont wanna sleep with him. Men DONT like men, or anything close to it, girls with, muscles, hair, and a bald head does not say princess. Anyway like I said, I dont mind hair on a woman, but like he stated we like what we like as individuals, not EVERY GUY likes completely baby skinned shaved women. I think it's stupid to be that balled all over your body.
Same goes for guys, I'd Love to find a natural woman who isn't a Dyke.
It all started with a razor commercial that called women less feminine if they didn't shave.
But guys have a choice whether or not they want to date a woman who shaves more or not. If that's what they're attracted to, then they can rock on in my opinion. My boyfriend personally doesn't mind me being too lazy to shave a lot, but he does enjoy the feeling of smooth legs on me. :P I actually have seen guys that are specifically attracted to women with hairy legs, which I find to be an odd specific attraction, but to each their own, you know?
To be honest, no one ever cared about the hair on my legs, arms or chest. It is not even visible as it is. It really depends how many testosterone you have in your body and how dark your bodyhair is. If your legs start to look like a guys, then yes, that probably wouldn't be considered attractive anymore by the majority of guys.
And by the way, if a guy is REALLY hairy, that would be a turn-off for me too...
I do shave my armpits and pubic hair and I expect my partner to do the same.
You answered your own question on tripleaces post.
"... I think it's manly to have hair..."
That is why guys expect women not to have hair. They don't want to date a woman that is manly.
I think you should do what you want but if you're going to go that way I think you are going to severely narrow down your dating pool.
Funny you mention that. I usually avoid shaving and wear long pants. Last month I started going to school for massage therapy and dreaded having to shave so often. But I realized in an enviorment of people who actually care for the humam body, no one bats an eye at a hairy woman. Its normal and natural.
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I shave my armpits twice a week to keep it clean and I do not find it to be an effort at all. I wash every single day, so what does it take to have my razor soaked and run it over my armpits?
I would like to shave my legs and genital area too sometimes, but I cannot because girls say "hairless means you are not a man".
I still trim downstairs regularly and I still do not find it an effort. Because as explained above, I wash daily, so how much would it take to trim? 2 mins?
so I do not understand what the big deal is. I honestly feel like puking when seeing a girl have her arm up and hair length like she's never touched that area for months. Months!
I understand genital area hair, I do like it hairy from time to time, so she would get to leave it grow for a while. Then I can use that as part of foreplay or sex play, have her soaked in the bathtub, then lay her down on a massage table and shave her/wax her myself down there, then switch to an erotic massage.
But even so, if she leaves hair grow down stairs, she still needs to take care of the surroundings. If she lets herself go so much, that it starts to grow along the leg (as I've unfortunately seen with some), then I'd puke in the middle of the living room several times.
so: we understand to an extent, BUT be reasonable with letting your hair grow on the body
I don't like my women hairy. I enjoy the softness. That softness is very feminine. That said, the "peach fuzz" that is all over a woman's body, those little light hairs, drive me wild.
As far as men, I think people usually associate body hair with manliness and smoothness with boyishness. I suppose it is this primal, almost bestial quality to a man with some hair on his chest, arms, legs, tummy, etc. Even so, many women expect their men to groom themselves and do some manscaping. Personally, I wouldn't shave my chest, arms, or back; my body isn't as hairy as some men I have seen. If my woman would prefer it, I'd oblige, but it isn't something I would go out of my way to do for potential mates.
Women, on the other hand, men tend to expect it. It is just sexy. It is hard to explain. It is like trying to explain why a round ass is sexy, or long legs are sexy, or why cute feet are sexy. Some guys have different preferences, but some things are pretty universal. A woman with smooth supple skin has that youthful and glowing look. It makes her much more visually appealing. And men are very very visual creatures.
Well.. Let me ask you this.. Why do you shave your armpits and legs? If it's fine to have hair between your legs then shouldn't it also be fine to have hair in your pits and really hairy legs?
Guys think of girls and especially their vagina as a sexy sleek area of a woman. Just like a guy wouldn't like having his sports car tarred and feathered.. He wants his woman to be sleek and shiny.
This is mostly 70% because it looks better.. 20% because it feels better and 10% because it reduces the number of hairs that get into one's mouth.
Also.. Having hair in any form in your pelvic region is a tribute to the 1970s porn girls who all had terrible looking bush. Even if yours is trimmed into a "landing strip" it will remind your man of some old "not so attractive" bush that he saw in an old time porn.. And you don't want that.
It's just become the social standard and if it's something that you don't like to do.. Then find a guy who likes Bush.. Because if you get with a guy who likes it shaved it will always keep coming up again. You can also make the same request of your man too. If you want him to shave it all off or get it waxed.. Then he will do it.. If you tell him the only way you will get it done is if he does it too. Then you will either solve your complaint.. Or have more slippery sex.
Where the hell are all these guys who want us to be hairless. My pussy has had a full bush all my adult life and NOT ONCE did I ever have or hear of a guy I slept with bitch or complain about the hair. Never once stopped one from enjoying some warm pussy pie either.
Underarms
American women had no need to shave their underarms before about 1915 – after all, who ever saw them? Even the word “underarm” was considered scandalous, what with it being so near certain other interesting body parts. Then came the sleeveless dress. An ad in the fashion mag Harper’s Bazaar decreed that to wear it (and certainly to wear it while participating in “Modern Dancing”), women would need to first see to “the removal of objectionable hair.” They didn’t need much convincing, and by the early ’20s, hairy underarms were so last decade, at least in America.
Legs
The ’20s fashion was risqué on the bottom half, too, but most women of the era didn’t seem to feel the need to shave their legs, and when hemlines dropped again in the ’30s, the point became moot. The ’40s, however, brought even shorter skirts, sheerer stockings, and the rise of leggy pin-ups such as Betty Grable. “The removal of objectionable hair” suddenly applied to a lot more surface area.
WOMEN created this trend and men became accustomed to it.
Like most male versus female things in life, this expectation is an attempt to accentuate pre-existing differences. What do I mean by that? Let's see.
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Men are more muscular than women because of higher testosterone levels. Therefore the expectation is that a guy will be muscular.
Men are taller than women, therefore the expectation is that the guy will be taller than the girl.
Women have larger breasts than men, therefore the expectation is that women will have big breasts.
Women have less body hair than men, therefore the expectation is that...
By the way, it's NOT and *expectation* it's just a *preference+
Actually I don't expect girls to be completely hairless. I'll admit I have the same cultural thing about girls shaving their legs and armpits, in that I've grown accustomed to seeing that as a norm. But if a girl I'm involved with skips a few days shaving those areas it doesn't bother me. And as for pubic hair I really don't care how she chooses to do it. Shave/wax or not it doesn't matter to me. And hair on a girl's arms doesn't bother me either. And it's normal, especially for dark-haired girls, to have a few hairs growing around her nipple area, or have a treasure trail going from her pubes up toward her belly button. Those things don't turn me off and I don't expect girls to have to be completely hairless.
I fuckin' absolutely DO NOT mind at all, baby!
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Cause girls these days do expect minimal hair on men
Especially young girls, they prefer hairless bodies
So if men need to have minimal hair women need to have none! Lol
But if you noticed most women actors are very comfortable with their bodies, they almost always keep their hair - and you can see quite a lot actually...
I don't expect a guy to be hairless. That's stupid, i think it's manly to have hair, especially stubble.
I honestly don't care if a guy is really hairy. If he's my type, I'll go for it.
We all have what we do and don't like. Some women love men who are hairy. Other women can't stand a guy who is hairy. So a guy who has a fur coat of hair will either have to shave/wax or narrow his dating pool to women that like hairy guys.
Unless the woman has dark coarse hair on her arms, I don't even notice if she has hair on her arms. Even if I do notice, most women have light thin arm hair so it doesn't bother me a single bit. Every girl I have ever been with prefers to be hairless on the legs, armpits, and privates. So I have grown accustomed to that. Most women start shaving at a young age so seeing a woman with body hair other than on top of her head is so rare that it if we see it, it has a pretty high shock value.
Also, it's not like the body hair that women shave off is often visible out in public. Women can go without shaving for months and guys won't even notice. On the other hand, it's clearly visible when a guy chooses to stop shaving his facial hair.
I honestly am completely fine and respectful of what a woman chooses to do with her body. I trust she will look the way she feels best in her own skin. The only request I have is if anything, to please not shave or wax off her pubic hair (bush) and look like a porn star. Pubic hair is actually normal and natural and is a true sign of womanhood and sexual development. Nothing could be more feminine. It has many very important purposes.
I don't really care about arm hair, but the others are kinda gross. I mean you can stop shaving if you don't like it. Also, from a scientific standpoint, I believe that higher testosterone increases bodyhair, so a hairy girl doesn't look very ladylike.
But what about italian girls, and other ethnicities that grow more hair than others? I understand armpits and legs, but if i have a little bit of hair on my chest or stomach. Oh no, I'm unattractive
Listen, as long as your forearm doesn't look like that of a gorilla, and as long as the hair on your chest and stomach is only a, "little bit" you should be okay.
Guys need to shave every single day. Just imagine the reaction if a man who never cut his beard came in for a job interview or first date!
Sure it's "natural" to have hair. Just as it's natural to have bad B. O., go naked, and never brush your teeth. Just cause something is natural doesn't mean it's a good look. As a dude, I shave my pits, chest and legs. It's really not that hard.
I'm more wondering why women still have body hair like on legs and armpits. Like, what's the point now? People shave since ancient times and still our bodies didn't adapt. I wonder when will this happen. Biologicaly wise it would be better not to have them, because the opposite sex is not attracted to them. Only the pubes make sense still, since they protect private parts.
Males and females are different. Both have different expectations, neither is worse or easier then the other. Being shaved is one of the social norms that women have, it exists. If you don't like it. Get into a serious relationship where you can do whatever the fuck you want.
Lol.. den stop doing it 😂 ... Its nt what we care.. thts how we wer brought up... We grew up getting used to the idea of women waxing their body n being hairless... Thts how it is... Women personally dnt like to hav a hairy body like men do.. if u hate waxing stop doin it... Its nt the guys who has put that on u'll... You girls r doing for urself.. to get the guys attention, to keep urself at peace of havng a gud body...
Probably the porn.
I have always said that if a man expects me to do any particular kind of grooming (especially one that I don't enjoy doing), that he can pay for it. *cue deluge of blue downvotes*
But if you hate beards then you want your men to do exactly the same thing as men may want you to do... I mean you want them to shave their natural facial hair. You are 25, so it means that your are old enough, in order to remember that beards were not always the trend. When I was in my early 20s women preferred clean shaved men. No man was complaining back them that he has to shave every morning for the ladies.
@Odysseas not that it’s any of your business, but the majority of the men I have dated have not been able to grow beards. Furthermore, the men that I have dated who COULD grow beards PREFERRED to be clean shaven. This was THEIR preference, and not mine.
One can date someone who does not tick all your boxes. My last boyfriend preferred to wear a beard, and I had no problem with that until it became so long that it always went uo my nose and mouth. He shaved it off when I started gagging when he kissed me.
If you would care to read my opinion more closely, you would notice that I mentioned that there are some grooming practices that I prefer for myself. Anything extra is something I will not pay for.
I'd think that most female's chests are hairless, but, either way, most of the men I've known don't care about that kind of thing. I do, however, draw the line at armpit hair...
I'll never forget - one time I had unexpected sex with this guy I'd been dating for awhile. I hadn't shaved and was feeling self-conscious about it. He goes, "what's up with this prepubescent hair expectation you think I have? You're not a girl, you're a woman"
I think with the advent of clothes both men and women should be shaving at the minimum; armpits. Those things smell and look ugly with hair.
Otherwise trimming the genital area would also be good.
Women can shave legs and men face.
If you think shaving legs is worse (it may actually be I haven't done it), then try shaving once every 1-3 days.
For me to keep my face fully clean I'd need to shave once very 2 days.
We guys like women without body hair. It is a guy thing. Some people might say that, they have no problem with girls hair but, they are saying only to make an impression.
I can't say about them, but, I don't like hair on my body and, try to keep tgem shaved/trimmed.
We always thought that, women don't have hair but, you can blame lack on sexual education/porn for it.
But, dating isn't a problem but, seeing a women with hair is a let down.
I have heard guys complain if a woman does not get rid of her body hair but is hairy himself.
I do not care if women have hairy legs, arms, chest, belly/abs, armpits, ass, pussy.
Kids give in what they see in the media and grow into that as a fact cause they see it all the time.("so it must be true")
This is true. I probably wouldn't give a shit if I grew up knowing from an early age that girls actually did get that much body hair.
And then there's another thing: It's hard to tell whether to shave your body hair or how much of it to shave because some girls consider lack of body hair to be feminine and therefore unattractive.
Imma need you to shave your legs, and armpit hair. You can grow hair all over your vagina but if you want me to go down thats not happening. Lol so i don't get it? We have to shave our faces for many reasons everyday, a job we have, girl doesn't like it, we dont like it and just want a baby face. Why are you being a feminist about this?
Lol this is not me being a femenist. I'm asking why some guys want our entire bodies to be free of hair. Can a girl not ask a question without being a femenist? I think you need to look up the definition if feminism
Read the defenition, then read your question & your rant and piece two and two together and we'll have a winner !!! :)
I have hair every where. Especially on my arms. And I'm not ashamed.
It shows that her skin is softer and that she's "clean" honestly i won't care if a girl is completely hairless or not because i'm hairy myself and i will never shave (i only shave armpits , facial and the sensitive area), because it would make me feel less masculine and less confident
My opinion is that I really don't mind. if we have more hair at some (intimate and other) places it's because we need it. I mean hair protect our body skin, I'm not trying to act like a doctor or whatever but this my POV.
It started because razor companies used the rising popularity of bikinis in the 60s to promote hairlessness as attractive (so women would buy more razors), and that expectation has been kept in popular culture ever since.
Because it looks really fucking good. No, seriously, there is nothing better in the body parts department than a woman`s completely hairless arm or legs.
Because men and women are different and it's not feminine to have body hair. Ideally no hair below the eyebrows
Why does body hair on women make them no longer feminine?
@jpmoore89 Do you feel that way all month long?
@redeyemindtricks I feel that way all the time. I'm a consistent person. What do you mean by "all month long"?
@jpmoore89 ... even during period week mahah
I’m pretty sure that at least 50% of women’s historical aversion to period sex is simply a result of how naaaaasssttyy (and smelly) it gets when there’s hair down there.
@redeyemindtricks I'm sure there are exceptions. That said, I have had sex with a few women in my life. All three had a full bush and there wasn't any difference when on the period vs off because they kept things sanitary down there. I don't mind period sex but it can get sheets and things messy but honestly hair hasn't made my experience with period sex any different.
@jpmoore89 Out of curiosity, what kind of swimsuits did they wear? Did they at least trim around those contours, during beach/pool/swim season?
@redeyemindtricks One of them would wear some shorts over her bottom swimsuit. The other two would trim but only on the edges where the swimsuit covered. Any moving of the cloth and I'm sure hair would have poked out on the side a bit lol.
@jpmoore89 That sounds like four colors and five sizes of awful, dude.
I mean, I don't like any body hair on boys, either... so at least I'm consistent mahah
@redeyemindtricks Hey we are all different. My perspective is anything but "awful" regarding pubic hair. Nature didn't get it wrong. Its supposed to be there post puberty. To me its attractive because a female looks mature and developed with it vs none or very little.
@jpmoore89 Dude, "nature" gets shit wrong all the time.
"Nature" has also given your yr tailbone and yr appendix — neither of which have any productive function at all, and the latter of which can rupture and kill you. "Nature" also gives about 80% of men the gift of prostate cancer by age 55 or so, although fortunately it stays latent for quite some time in most of them.
Etc etc.
You do realize that evolution is literally a series of completely random changes...
@redeyemindtricks Life isn't perfect. I never said the body is a perfect system. But at the same time, lets look at the known facts of the function of pubic hair. 1. It's purpose is actually to keep things clean, not more dirty as commonly thought. 2. It is there on both sexes to provide padding during intercourse. 3. Its a visual form of stimuli to signal that the other partner or potential partner is physically and sexually mature. 4. It traps and transmits pheromones to help attract the opposite sex.
While the above are facts, my own personal preference is that I want the look of a mature woman, not a porn star trying to look 10yo.
BS your beautiful just the way you are if someone loves you they will love all of you If you were yo just trim it some youd be fine I personally use a torch and burn mine when it's burned it leaves the folical curled an stuns growth and I get nice and hot
Lots of women are turned off by hairy men, so your argument doesn't hold water.
Also, body hair is masculine, not feminine.
Men have to shave their faces. Do you?
Life isn't fair. Feeling like a victim doesn't make it any easier.
@Belorum Of course you're right. But it's really beside the point. Yes, hair is natural on both men and women. But body hair is perceived as masculine, and smooth, hairless skin is perceived and feminine. And that perception is really all that matters. Women hold those same perceptions, for the same reasons. It's not going to change. Men will tolerate some hair on a woman's body, some more than others, but smooth, hairless female skin is the ideal and people will seek and aspire to the ideal. And of all the things that factor into a woman being attractive and sexy, body hair is one that they have 100% control over, unlike so many other things. We can lament it all we want, but this is not going to change.
By the way, I am talking about armpits, lets and crotch here. Most guys don't care about hair anywhere else on a woman's body. I sure don't. But I do mind hairy legs and snooch.
*legs
@Belorum Whatever works for you and your boyfriend.
I don't expect her to be hairless, but i do like her to be shaven down there.
Well, it's not a ton to ask for. I wouldn't feel bad if a chick told me to shed off some fat (which isn't the case, but still). At least it's something you can actually change and end up looking better in return.
I don't as long as she showers and keeps it trimmed she can have hair where she wants
I think body hair is disgusting on me so I choose to shave. I don't care what guys think or what some feminist thinks.
Because I think it's sexy without hair but I know that some guys like hairy women and others don't care.
Because all the best animals are hairless... like frogs. Pepe and Kek in particular.
What guy expects a female to be hairlesss? Thats probably one 5% of males. All normal dudes can dig it.
I am currently with a woman that has a bush. I don't want her to shave it. But then again, most women had them when I started having sex, so it isn't strange.
It's called grooming. To be attractive. How can that be bad?
Or are you buying into the FI that both genders are equal, the same?
That is your decision, but it is also men's decision to date whom they choose to date.
"beauty" comes at a cost. dating is not for lazy naturalists. except if you are a vegan hippie.
Society. We need all to re educate ourselves Boys and girls
Just as I expected, lame excuses over and over. "It's just feminine!" Okay, but remember that paying on a date is not... :)
It's so different than what I'm used to seeing, and wanting smoothness. It would take a lot for me to actually turn a girl down for it, though.
Don't "expect" them to be, we just *want* them to be.
Because men are meant to be hairy. Not women. yes, Women have hair too. As much as men? No. Just remove it then. I associate hair with masculinity.
Because harry women look nasty.
Hair free, or mostly hair free, women are WAAAAAY more attractive.
Same reason girls expect pay dates and pay all the large bills in the house hold
Hair on body is more associated with men. So with no hair on a woman's body it feels more feminine.
Not feminine, childish
I don't understand why are people hating this. It's not what I feel personally. I am only giving general behaviour behind what the Asker observed.
Why do girls expect guys to be 6 foot 2?
As long as it's not crazy bad, who cares?
I do expect guys to shave. Well not legs.
It's not an expectation, but I love it.
Lol. Get you Chewbacca looking ass outahere
Lol, I have blonde hair so you can barely see it unless you look really close. by the way learn how to put sentences together.
Well you learn to capitalize the first letter of a sentence.
Most guys here do. I personally dont
I don't, I just don't want a yeti.
I didn't think they had hair to begin with
blame the porn world
I don't like hair on guys or girls. Looks germy.
Yes. Its not the God damn 80s.
What an ignorant answer!
That makes less sense than your first opinion!
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