How does a narcissist feel when you suddenly cut off contact with him?

[Anonymous]

Going completely NC. I blocked him on everything.

[Damieeeeeen]

How do you know he's a narcissist? Examples please. But if he is - the rage and ego blow to him will have him trying to punish you somehow. "How dare she" etc etc

[Shesdope]

This is happening to me right now lol

[Damieeeeeen]

Really? If it gets worse, get a restraining order

[Shesdope]

Lol I don’t think it’s that bad of a punishment

[Asker]

He definitely has a very big ego and thinks very highly of himself. He's very arrogant and selfish.

He's been sending me messages from different numbers since I blocked him on my phone

[Damieeeeeen]

First reply with a warning that you need him to leave you alone (if you haven't already). Then go to the police. The harassment could get worse otherwise. A chat from an officer could go a long way in giving him a wake up call.

[Asker]

Why is he doing it though?

[Asker]

He's not exactly punishing me like you said

[Damieeeeeen]

Because he wants to be in control.

[Asker]

Control of what? I mean I blocked him doesn't he get it that I don't want anything to do with him anymore?

[Damieeeeeen]

What I'm saying is a narcissist likes to be in control all the time. He can't control you now so it's not having a good effect on him. He gets that you don't want anything to do with him, he just can't accept it.

[Asker]

That sounds absolutely crazy.

[Asker]

Thanks for explaining though and the help 😊

[Danny_dan92]

All you need to know is this

Either he is not gonna think twice about it and carry on.

Or he is gonna lose his god damn mind

[Asker]

He's been sending me messages from different numbers since I blocked him on my phone.

[BellePepper]

They probably don’t care since they’re only thinking about themselves right?

I think it’s a good choice for YOU. though and that’s what matters

[Damieeeeeen]

Your thinking of a selfish person. Narcissism is much more than that.

[BellePepper]

@Damieeeeeen what’s the difference?

[BellePepper]

@gguy767 I’m sorry you had a rough time with that but I still am struggling to see the difference :/

[BellePepper]

@gguy767 sooooo like Donald trump? XD

[BellePepper]

@gguy767 first of all you need to calm down.

You said: “they will say they are the most empathetic. They are the best anything story you may have they will top it.”

I bring up the guy who says things like he’s a “very stable genius”. And you freak out.

It. Was. A. Joke.

[BellePepper]

@gguy767 probably because you keep freaking out and then pretend you didn’t.

[BellePepper]

@gguy767 people who aren’t freaking out don’t write a paragraph saying how they’re not freaking out XD

[Asker]

@BellePepper He's been sending me messages from different numbers since I blocked him.

[BellePepper]

Oh my gosh op! That’s so creepy!!! Like you should tell your parents and think about calling the police!

[BellePepper]

@gguy767 she’s talking about the guy she blocked...

[Asker]

@gguy767 Wth is wrong with you?

[Asker]

@BellePepper I don't know why he's doing it but I'll tell him stop the next time he does it.

[BellePepper]

Have your dad or a mean sounding friend tell him so he doesn’t get the attention from you OP

[Asker]

You think he's just doing it for the attention?

[BellePepper]

Harassing you? YEAH

[BellePepper]

@gguy767 or you could mute the question and take away the valuable lessons you learned here

[Damieeeeeen]

@gguy767 you're a strange man.

[BellePepper]

@gguy767 bro. Stop freaking out on my threads. Save that for your personal time

[BellePepper]

@gguy767 are you doing this because you don’t know where the mute option is? XD

[BellePepper]

@gguy767 what if I just like watching you think everything is about you on a narcissist post XD

[BellePepper]

@gguy767 okay! :)

[markscott]

If he is a true narcissist, he doesn't feel, not like other people do. People are just blocks to be moved around, and used for his benefit.

[Anonymous]

i dk, ask trump

[pavlove]

very angry