Just an update on “the way an older man acts towards me.” Needing advice or just an opinion is good?

Anonymous
So as many of you know of and have given advice on the situation I have with this older man, I do have an update on the situation and need advice- again! So yesterday when I got to work this man, Ben, had come in like he usually does and we spoke as usual. During our conversation I just asked him how he feels about me and what’s his reason for some of the things he does. I don’t think I had ever felt so anxious but thanks to many of your guys opinions and advice, it made it a bit easier. He said he does have strong feelings for me. I did tell him it wouldn’t work because our age gap (I’m 18 and he’s 45) he seemed off during the rest of our conversation. He usually gets me to take his order and I’m not sure if he wanted someone else or one of the girls just went and took his order. He also usually says goodbye to myself and then girls and often has a quick chat with us before leaving but he just left without saying goodbye to me but said goodbye to everyone else. He never even looked my way. So I feel quite hurt by that. Or am I just taking things too seriously? I’ll be seeing him on Wednesday’s he comes in every second day. Should I speak to him about what happened? I’ve never been in this situation before as I’ve not had a boyfriend so trying to figure out the reason for boys actions are impossible for me. Any opinion or advice on the situation?
Just an update on “the way an older man acts towards me.” Needing advice or just an opinion is good?
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