WOW, 19 and 60 years old... puke!!! Okay, I say if you want to have a fling then have fling have fun, knowing exactly what it is and move on from it. But for 19-year-old to get with a 60-year-old, sound like more than a fling to me.
Definitely more going on with that then meets the eye, that's my take on it.
19 and hooking up with guy in his 30's or 40's I can see that as being fun. I mean older guys have more experience and I will tell you at 22 I thought I was hot shit, but I was a child. 38 to 42, really isn't that old, and plenty of attractive older guys out there, that can show you what a real man can do. But again, that is if you just want to fling it and have fun. If not, then stay in your weight class until you grow a little more and gain some maturity before trying to hang with the big dogs.
I'd say likely poor training by the parents or prior traumas. I'd say gross, but then again, can't judge others... Bible says not to do that... dang it!
Back in the olden days the emperors would do that, the kings and powerful would do that. So... that pattern exists in human society. Not so many examples where old wmen have young guys
. There are some "old souls" which are drawn to older or more mature people, some people who are just stupid as dirt (relationally) and developing, and there's people whom think they are going to get something out of it. Look at all the "chicks" that showed up when the playboy owner opened his doors. sick, but that's the chick brain!
What can you do... you have to let people make their decisions and hopefully they aren't life altering misery.
You donât seem like a true friend if you are still crap talking her past and arenât looking at the fact that she couldâve went through abuse from this guy.
gross.. however, safe sex and be careful are the main points.
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It depends on you and your "realpolitik" view of life. What I mean by that is we all have different desires and fetishes. I don't know your friend but to her it could be dick is dick, she wanted a new experience or had alternative motives like seeking money. Personally I think such an age gab is indeed disgusting and shows me either the woman is something akin to a whore or has ulterior motives which makes me question her motives with men. For strictly someone who is my friend it depends how it affected the friendship, if she was a good friend to you but her choices repulsed you so much then its your loss since who she bangs isn't your problem. Otherwise since it cost the friendship, you clearly have your boundaries as to what you can accept, move on with life then.
What was it about this guy in his 60s that she was willing to have a fling with him?
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