What do you guys go through when you have a crush on a woman whom you never spoken too yet either out of intimidation or not having the courage. Whatever the reason may be.
What are the things you do or act when she’s around. I know some men stair like a creep without noticing themselves !! They think we don’t know but guys even though we don’t look at u or stair back we know lol. We just pretend we don’t notice so that we don’t embarrass you.
Some other guys will stair then when u catch them they’ll give u an angry look shutting their eyes heavily and looking away. Hiding away their feelings... which I wonder why they do it.
I read somewhere in the web,
“ I Daydream a lot about her but try hard to act normal and uninterested when am around her so that I don't give it away." !! WHY?
Share your experience or way of dealing with your crush whether be it at work, school, or college !
Insight in a man’s head when he has a crush on a woman?
Two things can happen if a woman knows you have a crush on her. One, it can be really awkward. Two, she can flirt with you and you can misinterpret signals. Men and women love validation.
Generally speaking, I'm thinking about what to say to her. If I'm checking a woman out I only use my peripheral vision. In the same way I wouldn't see somebody and say "I like you" I don't want to stare and give it away.
I check with my peripheral vision if she notices me or not.
I will say one other thing. In my past experiences with women, women can often overestimate how much a given man is into her. A lot of things guys do mean nothing but women assume he's into her.
When I have a crush on a woman. It depends on my closeness to her. If I see her everyday, she will always be on my mind, if I see her once a month she will be on my mind when I see her. For me it is all about the closeness. I will be thinking about hanging out on the couch and cuddling. and just wanting to chill with her and spend time with her. To have her enjoy spending time with me and me spending time with her. Laughing smiling and giggling I will probably have a carpenter song stuck in my head while daydreaming like this one
because its 1) a crappy strategy to date a coworker. cause if you break up badly the environment will be unbareable. 2) she might reject you and it can be a one sided thing.
Well I can't speak for other guys but I feel compelled to look in her direction and I get kinda sick in the stomach I might even start to panic in my head how do I approach her what do I say to her but I'm not like that anymore now I'm a charmer I no longer have these problems I can walk up to any woman hand her a blue rose and say a pretty flower for a pretty lady and kiss her on her hand to make her blush then look in to her eyes and walk away I dont normally ask for her number I'll let her feel all fuzzy inside for a while first
The last woman I had a crush on, I just felt really awkward around. I was thrilled to see her, but really struggled to make conversation. Or eye contact. I didn't really believe she was interested. There was a point later on, where I thought maybe she was after all. But I never tried my luck, and now a year has gone by and we aren't in touch.
People's reactions can vary a lot. Usually all I do is think, wow she looks good, and get a good look at her occasionally. I generally won't stare at unattractive girls, so staring is exclusively if they're attractive. If the receiving girl doesn't react badly/think it's weird, that's usually a sign to make a move in my opinion. If you react badly, it'll definitely put off anyone looking at you in interest.
I avoid showing interest for following. 1. Experienced shaming language for smallest expression 2. Unlikely to have common ground to build friendship 3. Girls like to talk about stuff that happens around them so anything that happens could spread fast. 4. Got enough females around me as it is
i have a crush on this one girl and for one i keep thinking about her. she keeps popping in my head at random times. i try to make eye contact with her sometimes but i get shy around her even though I'm not usually a shy guy. i find it hard to kale eye contact sometimes and when i dont make eye contact when I'm passing by her i get really upset with myself. whats worse is i think she may have liked me but thought i wasn't interested because of that. just my luck. I'm such a p***y.
There's attraction and then there infatuation... i generally tend to look after a beautiful lady walks by... and yes, all guys check out a girls ass if they're sexy enough... but if a girl caught me stAring I wouldn't stop... she can decide how good of a compliment she was just given from afar
"Does she like me back when I start a conversation with her asking her out?" and "Will I be rejected if I do that?" ... lots of thoughts pop in my head then. I'm way too overthinking.
I’d love to be his he’s so smart he’s gorgeous he has a strong conversationalist plus the sexual thoughts then I’d approach him be extra nice to him talk to him flirt then ask him out for a coffee or food my treat haha n we’ll see if we feel each other or not then I’ll know that I should lose the infatuation
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