It's only natural for the feelings to die down a bit on both sides. That said it sounds to me like more was going on but it's hard to tell. Maybe he felt unappreciated and possibly emasculated at times by you, possibly he felt like you didn't contribute enough for the relationship, possibly he was focusing more on work to try and be more financially stable for you, maybe he was just tired of always going out of his way for you, maybe he is just lazy and put effort in for the first bit to get sex? I don't know much about the details of your relationship with him so it's hard to tell.
Also, at the end there, are you saying all men are around good women? Maybe there are some good women here, but where I live bad women seem to outnumber good. My friend once had a woman tell him she was girlfriend of the year as they laid in bed together, then she told him to leave before her boyfriend got home. I wish that wasn't a true story, but it's not uncommon, every man I know has been cheated on by multiple women.
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Sex. That's the fundamental reason.
Women's liberalization actually backfired when men can get laid without legal commitment (marriage).
My wife (when we quarrel) at times brought up "You were sooooo different when we were courting" (LOL). Ya, you got it. We married as virgins. So our entire "courtship" was all romantic without sex.
in my opinion, if women held back sex until marriage, then premarital relationship will be a lot more romantic, sweet, and above all, practical.
And as an Anonymous guy wrote "Sort of sounds like the same thing women do once you marry them", I reluctantly agrees. (LOL)
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Some guys feel like women want to see that stuff early on, so we put on a show for her. Other guys simply lose interest in romancing the girl... Some guys are hoping that the woman will step up to the plate and try to cultivate intimacy and romance in the relationship.
Well for some "guys" aka douchebags they just like the challenge of getting you to submit to them and as soon as you do there's no longer a challenge so there's no longer a need to try or prove anything
Sort of sounds like the same thing women do once you marry them.
a) we're horny
b) We need a legal method of emptying our balls
Now the morality of it can be up for debate tho
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