Do guys actually get intimidated by girls? (Page 5)

[crazydewd]

Of course. Men are actually made self conscious by women. We stress and worry about what women think and feel (especially when trying to find a partner). Our own obsessions with money and life goals mess with our minds and make things just that much more difficult.

[master_shaggswell]

Yes. Absolutely! Some girls just have a real strong personality. Some guys feel inferior to them and intimidated. Guys with more experience are less likely to be intimidated. However, if you don't mind being in control, you could be a dominatrix and have a submissive guy as your love slave! Maybe a bit much for a young girl such as yourself but maybe not as well

[Koki11]

I mean guys have told me I'm intimidating lol and one even said I'm too better for him, and I was like thinking if that's what you think you've already lost me on having such a low self esteem that you that u just give up

[Koki11]

@_Varsit11 way to eloquently put it and i totally agree with you. Well Said

[_Varsit11]

@Koki11 thank you

[Jeremiah2791]

I hope you don't get offended by this, but from your pic, you are a bit intimating (coming from an introvert).

I guess it's more "strong-willed and confident" than intimating. You just need a guy who is outgoing, you can tone your disposition down enough where you'll approachable to most guys.

Thanks for reading my opinion, hope it helps 😊

[iLala_Water]

@Koki11 - Don't you DARE attempt to "tone down your disposition" to accomodate any mediocre male !

Shine brighter and brighter. Let your Life Force burn hotter.
🔥 ⭐✨

NEVER. Settle. 🔥🔥🔥👉👤

@jeremiahwhatnot - Rubbish. The males you speak of can go seek low energy, weak life force females. 🏃🚺

[Koki11]

Yeah I'll have to disagree with @Jeremiah2791 lol I will not tone down or change for a guy, if him being around me emphasise his own insecurities about dating a confident woman that's too bad👎. @iLala_Water thanks for that and I would never change to accommodate an insecure guy. If he can't handle all Thhat lol he's not worth it 😉

[Jeremiah2791]

It's cool, thanks for replying, hope all goes well with you 😁!

[iLala_Water]

@Koki11 - Yw, dear. Follow YOUR path. The right man will stand in the heat, the wrong one will melt.

Use that as your guideline in relationships. 🐳🍦🍋🍋🔥

[ThisAndThat]

At age 19 my record of girl friends was one only because I'm including my first when I was age 9. I was 19 when I had met my second girl friend and I was 20 when I met my last girl friend. I've been without for 32 years and counting as of this year. But to answer your actual question, yes, Girls are extremely intimidating to guys, a lot of them.

[ThisAndThat]

To put it mildly, if I were to have any type of romantic or sexual desire for her, then yes. If she's just the receptionist taking appointments and she looks that good, maybe slightly but not that much because I know I'm probably not going to pursue in any romantic way.

[bklynbadboy1]

That is definitely a real thing guys really do get intimidated by girls especially pretty ones it takes a lot of Courage for a guy to come up to you and talk to you that being said next time I got does try to be more understanding try to understand how much courage it took him to come up to you and actually strike up a conversation before you shoot them down and if you do shoot them down just be nice about it

[tom122727]

Uhmmm yessssss we do get really intimidated not that it’s your fault and us guys attend to worry a lot and that we are simple human beings we kinda get afraid to talk to you cause us guys feel like we may come off creepy or we may say something that would offend you when we don’t mean to or intend to at all yes it’s kinda intemedating we’re scared of rejection...

[crazy8000]

Pretty common. but don't mix them up with these that doesn't approach anyway. especially today where equity is on.

An advise. Step up and approach yourself instead of being one in the bunch. make you two happen.
It's a higher shanse to hit off as a female than for a male when approaching being on with stubbornness take initiative make thing's happen.

(making negative assumptions is your enemy)

[theshyestman]

Yes all the time. Hot girls are goddesses and angels to us. We don't dare approach out of fear to be rejected. out of fear will say something stupid. We don't what to say to you. Please, approach first at least once and try and smile and start a conversation. You dont know how much us guys will appreciate it.

[kruzan]

Yes it's possible just depends on the guy or the girl. Guys can be intimidated by a girl if they are the intellectual type or if they are real successful or of they think they are so beautiful they don't stand a chance.

[jennifer_bloom]

I think they do - and depending on how insecure or superficial they are - the more intimidation - also the ones who come from broken homes might be afraid of being vulnerable around a person they are dating

[imagoat]

In person I do get intimidated by a female I find super attractive. It takes a lot more to pull a beautiful girl aside and ask her number then it is to have a legit reason for speaking. The more I want a beautiful female in my life the more I difficult it is for me to Express myself. I am working on this problem of mine I need prayers and blessings

[niDaye]

Yes. But pay attention to some these shy guys. Some of them are really good. Hopeless romantic. Likely to have successful career.

Careful about the type of guys you went of with at your age. They can really tune your taste for the rest of your life. If you date shitty guys now, you will continue to date bad ones in the future. Shy is just a temporary thing. Once you touch them and teach them a couple things , the shy guys will be just like normal

[idiotmanchild]

If a girl is both attractive and confident, hell yeah I'm intimidated. I think it's incredibly attractive, but that's basically game over for a scrub like myself. My mind automatically assumes that she has the highest of standards that I don't even come close to reaching.

[pootytangg]

Dont turn down your light to make others feel better. Your confidence will attract the right person.

[Krazzymike321]

I dont approach people because I always assume any below average up girl is dating someone... It's stupid but I can't help it, I'd need a girl to approach me which, haha, isn't gonna happen (Never had a real relationship, never kissed, never had a girl have a crush on my. )

[markcrums101]

Yea, I think its already been pretty much said but we just sometimes think that we aren't good enough and will get a shit response from trying. We think the girl is out of our league and feel we might just get shut down or ignored. Sometimes it's not even the fear of the rejection itself, it's just not nice to be reminded that you aren't attractive or good enough

[CoffeeWC]

It's true some girls are just intimidating. It's not because you're mean. It's actually quite the opposite. A lot of guys are intimidated by the fact that we have more competition. It's not your fault at all. I see it as the more men want a girl, the more likely they will be rejected by the girl.

[CassieIsTrans]

Yes, guys do get intimidated by girls. If you are tired of waiting for them to make a move, and you really like them, then make your own moves.

[micheebee]

I dunno any guy who isn't scares of girls lowkey haha. But don't generalize- not all guys are afraid of girls lol. Some are braver than others. It just takes one to know one as I always say 😜

[Rico1987]

I dont quite understand the question. The situation i think you're asking is if guys who are attracted to you (or any girl) dont make a move on who they are interested in because they believe you'll reject them? Any guy whose to scared to take a shot at whoever they are attracted to is unbelievably weak. You're better off without them if it's like that. I think they would be described better as bous then guys.