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I don't think I will be alone forever but after losing my one true love I am so taking a break from relationships. heart break is like a bad tooth ... if to don't fix it...it will hurt you for a life time.
I will not put myself in a position where a woman or anyone else can reject me. I will not approach women or make the first move. My expectatin is if women are interested they must come to me on my terms and any woman that can't or won't do this is too weak or lacking in judgment to be my mate.
I find the idea of myself fawning over a woman and competing for her affection to the ridiculous and pathetic. I look down on men that do have to resort to such measures.
Well 2 be straight up honest with you, you sound pathetic ! I don't think any guy or girl ought to beg 2 date anyone but if you like a girl what's so f***ing wrong with approaching her in a very nonchalant way & starting up conversation? If she's a bitch then she screw her, but I'm sure most girls won't react like that so you're just an insecure, machista man who's full of himself !
If a woman doesn't pursue meeting she isn't worth any expenditure of time or money or effort.
i think we all have one peson who we should be with, sometime people stray the path and may end up that way, but your right all it takes is a little hard work to get back on track
Yea,because I'm too scared to be with someone and find lies here and there.
Also get fooled ya know.
maybe after I finish skool my opinion will change.because for now I'm too much stressed to think about a relationship.
I don't believe in relationships that work out =P
Well personally, I think it's because I'm not the kind of guy that girls go for. I look at my friends who are in relationships, and I see that they're outgoing and "cool", while I'm introverted and seen by many as weird. It hurts to think about it, but I've come to accept it, y'know?
There comes a point when enough is enough, ya know?
When your constantly rejected time after time and f$#@%^$% time, it gets annoying.
Eventually, I just gave up. Close that part of me off. I'm 22 and I've been single and alone my entire love life.
Wait, what love life.
Yes. I like spending time alone, so I'd rather be single than with someone who makes me miserable. My odds for meeting someone I am excited to be with might not be that high, though.
Yes, anything worth having is worth fighting for, and everything worth doing is worth doing badly.
I know I won't be alone forever. I'm too stubborn for that. Too much survival in me.
Honestly I've had that fear. I think mostly it isn't that there's no person out there for me, my problem is the last couple of times I tried to find someone, I got really hurt so I don't put myself out there because I terrified of being rejected, and that makes it extremely hard to meet someone.. But that is only me..
Yep.
I'm 24 and have never been in a relationship.
I've tried, and tried. And have never succeeded.
Oh well.
I am in the same bout. Only have had 1 relationship but the guy told me I was his last resort so it was not that much of a relationship. I have tried so hard. And it is not the self esteem thing. I do have insecurity but when most people find out I do they do not believe me because I do not act like it do. They just never realized that I am a strong person. Which is the only thing I like about myself.
Teardrop06, you are stronger than you even know. Don't lose faith, and keep this in mind: The secret to life is that nobody gets nothing. There isn't anyone who will go through life alone and die and get no prize in the end. The people in relationships get their happiness, but nobody ends up never being happy. There is a prize waiting for you at the end for being so strong. I don't know quite what it is yet, but I guess we will find out. Just know that you are a champion in life for your strength, and that it takes a lot more strength to walk alone than it does relying on anyone else.
Forever is a rather long time. What I speculate on today becomes wholly irrelevant tommorrow.
the biggest challenge I have in over coming my perpetual singledom is this fallacy I have about women not being capable of love.
Oh wow, that's how I feel about men! I think men and women have a serious communication problem! I can assure you most of us ARE capable of love! :)
Men speak in logical terms and view the world logically. Women speak in emotional terms, and feel the world they live via emotion. Apparently the "Universe" thought it would be funny to make us experience the world in radically different ways. Hey, Universe, I'm not laughing, and I'm sure I'm not alone. Realistically, how about both sexes actually try to understand what the other is saying. Put an effort forth to see a situation from the others viewpoint.
I know I'll be alone forever. And you know the reason why, too =/
I've recently found a girl who I've fallen in love with and can see myself living my life with her but, not to be cynical but realistic, sh*t can happen.
Once you have entered a serious relationship and experienced what it means to be happy, there is no possible way under any circumstance that you can relate to someone who is stuck alone. It makes me sick to my stomach to hear people in relationships commenting here saying, "Well, I am in a serious relationship but I know how you all feel. Sucks to be you...". Point of fact- You who have been in love or are in love will never possibly conceive of what it feels like to have your body feel like it is burning all the time because in the back of your mind you know you have just been forgotten.
@TechGuyRy I don't know about that (going to be two part post). I used to the ForeverAlone guy who was so depressed about not ever being in a relationship or having a person desire me. I am obese introvert with geeky hobbies like video gaming, building computers, fantasy/classic literature, poetry, and horror movies. I was sexually abused by a neighbor when I was young, about 8 years old. I was bullied for my weight and my shyness. I was locked in a recess supply room by my first grade teacher because I was unruly and just wanted to go home (I hated being at school due to the bullying by the older kids), so I ended up being afraid of the dark. All the trauma's from childhood shape our fears in our teenage and adult life, but that doesn't mean we can't overcome them. I was highly socially anxious in my 20s and 30s, but now after my first relationship and going through therapy, I am much better, although not completely "cured". I still fear rejection. (Continued).
@TechGuyRy Now I am 34, and I just got out of a year and a half relationship. My first one. I met her on PoF. I'm not ugly in the face, actually I am quite handsome and wear my weight well, even though I am obese (338 lbs.)
I know I have some value, but as with most guys who have insecurity and self-esteem issues, we need to work on that first before we can be of value to others. If you are wondering, my ex-girlfriend wanted some space after I got blackout drunk on July 4th (I promised her a few times previously that I would reign in on my drinking). After a month or so of separation, we both mutually agreed to break up. Now I am 2 months without a drop of alcohol, lost over 30 lbs, and going back to college. I am no alcoholic mind you, I just liked to party with my buddies on special occasions, and we party hard. Anyways, drinking is holding me back from my weight loss goals and I want to detox. (Continued).
@TechGuyRy My point is, even after getting into a relationship after a lifetime of no play, no intimacy, no sexual satisfaction, etc. doesn't make it any better, trust me. I still feel depressed after losing my ex. I still feel insecure, still feel like I am missing something, still feel the exact same sorrow as when I was "forever alone". I still want nothing more than to be a wonderful husband, amazing lover, great father...
The point is not to find someone, anyone to fill that "void". The point is to be the best person you can possibly be, love yourself, be someone of value in your own eyes, not give a shit about what others say or think, and to find a mate who is compatible with you and your lifestyle. Don't change yourself for her or anyone else, change for yourself if you want to, but don't be a supplicant. This is why I am on a fitness and health journey now, to help fundamentally change the things that I feel are holding me back, and that is only the beginning.
yes, and I'm fine with it.
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Being divorced, on good terms with my son's mother, I took too long to figure out that being a bad date is a sign I should never have ever dated, alone is the path I should have been on, and did nothing but school, work and work out, I would have been a more productive person instead of doing nothing but regretting ever getting involved with anyone
I know for a fact I'll be alone forever. I have extreme anxiety issues that make me overly possessive, insecure, and a general train wreck whenever I have a relationship. It's unhealthy for me, and my would-be partners deserve better than to have to deal with that amount neurosis. I want someone to love me, but the trade-off just isn't healthy.
I know that iam going to die alone.. and i dont have any problems with it.. iam going to turn 18.. had just one crush ever.. ofcourse she didn't like me back i mean look at me.. who will? There has not been a single girl who liked me.. so yeah iam trying to go with the flow..
No I think I will find somebody. Just gotta keep your head up and like the song "Don't stop believin. Hold onto that feelin"
No I don't. Maybe because I haven't been since I was 14.
And I've got the most wonderful, beautiful, coolest, smartest girl now!
I don't think. there are so many people in the world. there has got to be one person out there for me. it's just a matter of time and finding him
probably not forever, but by the time I get a girlfriend, I will be way extremely past my prime.
Well you just haven't found the right guy for you and I think you should just keep looking for him. If you have to fight with them then He's not the one and do you have high standards that might be one of the factors
I do not think that I will be alone forever, but I do believe that by the time that I am finally able to get a girl I like to say yes that I will be old and will have missed out on the best years of my life :(
I'll be alone because not too many women are ready and willing to commit anymore...
You're meeting the wrong women, I think :/
Alone? Nope, I got a beer in front of me, and it has 5 more friends in the fridge just waiting to make my acquaintance, so no, I'll be just fine.
I honestly think I'll be alone forever. I'm one of those people that doesn't like to be touched a lot and I'm unnattractive. I also know my standards are too high for my looks. If I am alone forever it's my fault and I'm OK with that.
I don't think I will be alone forever. I do greatly enjoy the foursome with you and your other two identical sisters we have on Saturdays
Yes... I will be forever alone. Forever. But i do not care. Being single means that i have no one to control me, depress me.. I am cute according to a few people but im really quiet and a goth.
I like goths
I do. Many many reasons. Most of it being my extreme self hatred.
Dont hate yourself!
I don't want to be alone either but I am in my forties and never been married. I didn't think I would be single in my forties, I thought I would be married and have 3 children.
Hopefully I'll be alone forever (if my plan for world domination succeeds) HAHAHA
Yes, because I refuse to marry or date any woman that isn't a virgin regardless of whether she regrets losing it or not and regardless of any other factors.
I sometimes think of it here and there. No because I know someone is out there looking for me know that for a fact in my first love there! So am not giving it up at all.
sometimes ,when I'm tired of love ,i had this thought..
but , I no I won't , cause I believe in love
Can't be, I'm working on my social confidence! Although most of the time I'm staying at home
yeahhhhhh, why we do feel that way? is it because we are not finding the right person to be with us, or is it a problem from our selves?
Yes, I refuse to ask women out and I have absurdly high standards that I categorically refuse to compromise
Yeah... I don't have a soulmate and can't love anyone anyways.
My problem is I'm not very attractive and I'm an introvert.
Can't change either of them without being miserable anyways.
So I just accept my forever alone status and move on to other motivations in life, like career.
I am 42 now and haven't dated a single woman in my life. That makes it pretty improbable to say the least, for me to find a relationship in the future...
I think I probably will end up alone. Why? Because I don't find myself attractive among other things
I think the universe will send me the right woman, and I'm only interested in virgins.
nope, but I know that there are way more guys more prone to being alone forever than girls are
If I do...i'm OK with it...i know who I am and I'm alone or with the perfect man for me
I think i might be alone forever... I can't talk to people like i wish i could its nit that im fat or ugly i just can't dtart a conversation with anyone nor do i really want to
I don't think I'll be alone forever. But I do feel lonely sometimes lol not too much though.
I used to not think like that, but I'm starting too.
Yes. Women my age have WAY too much baggage.
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I think i'll be forever alone because i have trouble keeping friends and family closer. I have lots of relatives but non close to me. I have trouble getting along with my office co-workers. And obviously im single!
I turned 27 to tonight and I'm a virgin. I am in good shape and tall. Women should pursue me. I won't compete for a woman
lol forever alone! funny
Men are moron. that's why.
men are living in such a drama while women are in fairy tale. If you become a part of his drama you might be with him physically but not really with him in heart. Unless you are twins, you won't be together deep down inside. Deep inside there will be lonely part always. Who could care for others that deep? Most of people cover it up with their own drama or pretentiousness. And, it depends on what kind of drama you could be in as well. If you are beautiful you will play his wife.
No because I wil never look at anyon else apart from my ex and we be spli up 1 yeart
I don't think I'll be forever alone. I think I'll find that special someone :)
I want to be single forever... I mean who wants to deal with people for the rest of your life? People suck
I know I will, because I have Asperger Syndrome
I know someone who has Asperger Syndrome who got married a year ago. They met online.
a guy or a girl? if it's a girl it's understandable since they don't have to initiate
Yeah I am gonna guide aWay from everything