Do you honestly think you'll be alone forever and why? (Page 4)

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It's probably just specific to people on this site, but lately I've been talking to users (mostly guys, but some girls) who believe they'll be alone forever.I don't know where they get this idea. I find that most often times it's people standing in their own way and putting themselves down for things they can change with a little hard work or allowing quasi-rejection or rejection to stop them cold turkey.Do you honestly think you'll be alone forever and why?I'm single, yes. But I'm not going to cry a river about it and wait to die of old age alone... I don't have that kind of attitude and it pains me to see that other people give up so easily. Anything worth having is worth fighting for.

cerealpirate · Answer

I don't think I will be alone forever but after losing my one true love I am so taking a break from relationships.  heart break is like a bad tooth ... if to don't fix it...it will hurt you for a life time.

Anonymous · Answer

I will not put myself in a position where a woman or anyone else can reject me. I will not approach women or make the first move. My expectatin is if women are interested they must come to me on my terms and any woman that can't or won't do this is too weak or lacking in judgment to be my mate.

I find the idea of myself fawning over a woman and competing for her affection to the ridiculous and pathetic. I look down on men that do have to resort to such measures.

Anonymous · Answer

i think we all have one peson who we should be with, sometime people stray the path and may end up that way, but your right all it takes is a little hard work to get back on track

Anonymous · Answer

Yea,because I'm too scared to be with someone and find lies here and there.

Also get fooled ya know.

maybe after I finish skool my opinion will change.because for now I'm too much stressed to think about a relationship.

Tomboy · Answer

I don't believe in relationships that work out   =P

IAmAGuy213 · Answer

Well personally, I think it's because I'm not the kind of guy that girls go for. I look at my friends who are in relationships, and I see that they're outgoing and "cool", while I'm introverted and seen by many as weird. It hurts to think about it, but I've come to accept it, y'know?

iiinjected · Answer

There comes a point when enough is enough, ya know?

When your constantly rejected time after time and f$#@%^$% time, it gets annoying.
Eventually, I just gave up. Close that part of me off. I'm 22 and I've been single and alone my entire love life.

Wait, what love life.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes.  I like spending time alone, so I'd rather be single than with someone who makes me miserable. My odds for meeting someone I am excited to be with might not be that high, though.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, anything worth having is worth fighting for, and everything worth doing is worth doing badly. I know I won't be alone forever. I'm too stubborn for that. Too much survival in me.

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly I've had that fear. I think mostly it isn't that there's no person out there for me, my problem is the last couple of times I tried to find someone, I got really hurt so I don't put myself out there because I terrified of being rejected, and that makes it extremely hard to meet someone.. But that is only me..

RandomGuy007 · Answer

Yep. I'm 24 and have never been in a relationship. I've tried, and tried.  And have never succeeded. Oh well.

cjwright79 · Answer

Forever is a rather long time. What I speculate on today becomes wholly irrelevant tommorrow.

Jager66 · Answer

the biggest challenge I have in over coming my perpetual singledom is this fallacy I have about women not being capable of love.

KarKingJack · Answer

I know I'll be alone forever. And you know the reason why, too =/

kermitthehog · Answer

I've recently found a girl who I've fallen in love with and can see myself living my life with her but, not to be cynical but realistic, sh*t can happen.

Spacemen3 · Answer

yes, and I'm fine with it.

loser40 · Answer

Being divorced, on good terms with my son's mother, I took too long to figure out that being a bad date is a sign I should never have ever dated, alone is the path I should have been on, and did nothing but school, work and work out, I would have been a more productive person instead of doing nothing but regretting ever getting involved with anyone

PeterNincompoop · Answer

I know for a fact I'll be alone forever. I have extreme anxiety issues that make me overly possessive, insecure, and a general train wreck whenever I have a relationship. It's unhealthy for me, and my would-be partners deserve better than to have to deal with that amount neurosis. I want someone to love me, but the trade-off just isn't healthy.

infernoexile · Answer

I know that iam going to die alone.. and i dont have any problems with it.. iam going to turn 18.. had just one crush ever.. ofcourse she didn't like me back i mean look at me.. who will? There has not been a single girl who liked me.. so yeah iam trying to go with the flow..

sweet_18 · Answer

No I think I will find somebody. Just gotta keep your head up and like the song "Don't stop believin. Hold onto that feelin"

Anonymous · Answer

No I don't.  Maybe because I haven't been since I was 14.  And I've got the most wonderful, beautiful, coolest, smartest girl now!

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think. there are so many people in the world. there has got to be one person out there for me. it's just a matter of time and finding him

moviedude714 · Answer

probably not forever, but by the time I get a girlfriend, I will be way extremely past my prime.

Shorty20 · Answer

Well you just haven't found the right guy for you and I think you should just keep looking for him. If you have to fight with them then He's not the one and do you have high standards that might be one of the factors

blueandyellow · Answer

I do not think that I will be alone forever, but I do believe that by the time that I am finally able to get a girl I like to say yes that I will be old and will have missed out on the best years of my life :(

aloneinlove143 · Answer

I'll be alone because not too many women are ready and willing to commit anymore...

zagor · Answer

Alone?  Nope, I got a beer in front of me, and it has 5 more friends in the fridge just waiting to make my acquaintance, so no, I'll be just fine.

Anonymous · Answer

I honestly think I'll be alone forever. I'm one of those people that doesn't like to be touched a lot and I'm unnattractive. I also know my standards are too high for my looks. If I am alone forever it's my fault and I'm OK with that.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think I will be alone forever. I do greatly enjoy the foursome with you and your other two identical sisters we have on Saturdays

artemissshunter · Answer

Yes... I will be forever alone. Forever. But i do not care. Being single means that i have no one to control me, depress me.. I am cute according to a few people but im really quiet and a goth.

snackeyg · Answer

I do. Many many reasons. Most of it being my extreme self hatred.

kellylenhart · Answer

I don't want to be alone either but I am in my forties and never been married. I didn't think I would be single in my forties, I thought I would be married and have 3 children.

MrReal · Answer

Hopefully I'll be alone forever (if my plan for world domination succeeds) HAHAHA

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, because I refuse to marry or date any woman that isn't a virgin regardless of whether she regrets losing it or not and regardless of any other factors.

Anonymous · Answer

I sometimes think of it here and there. No because I know someone is out there looking for me know that for a fact in my first love there! So am not giving it up at all.

Meggi_ · Answer

sometimes ,when I'm tired of love ,i had this thought.. but , I no I won't , cause I believe in love

Prilee1992 · Answer

Can't be, I'm working on my social confidence! Although most of the time I'm staying at home

Elissar · Answer

yeahhhhhh, why we do feel that way? is it because we are not finding the right person to be with us, or is it a problem from our selves?

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, I refuse to ask women out and I have absurdly high standards that I categorically refuse to compromise

dwiller943 · Answer

Yeah... I don't have a soulmate and can't love anyone anyways.

JTB19 · Answer

My problem is I'm not very attractive and I'm an introvert.

Can't change either of them without being miserable anyways.

So I just accept my forever alone status and move on to other motivations in life, like career.

nurek11 · Answer

I am 42 now and haven't dated a single woman in my life. That makes it pretty improbable to say the least, for me to find a relationship in the future...

Xenochrist · Answer

I think I probably will end up alone. Why? Because I don't find myself attractive among other things

Anonymous · Answer

I think the universe will send me the right woman, and I'm only interested in virgins.

Anonymous · Answer

nope, but I know that there are way more guys more prone to being alone forever than girls are

Anonymous · Answer

If I do...i'm OK with it...i know who I am and I'm alone or with the perfect man for me

TheColorOfBeingAlone · Answer

I think i might be alone forever... I can't talk to people like i wish i could its nit that im fat or ugly i just can't dtart a conversation with anyone nor do i really want to

hypno-trip · Answer

I don't think I'll be alone forever. But I do feel lonely sometimes lol not too much though.

Starry_Night93 · Answer

I used to not think like that, but I'm starting too.

Shaun · Answer

Yes. Women my age have WAY too much baggage.

DonMichelle · Answer

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Anonymous · Answer

I think i'll be forever alone because i have trouble keeping friends and family closer. I have lots of relatives but non close to me. I have trouble getting along with my office co-workers. And obviously im single!

Anonymous · Answer

I turned 27 to tonight and I'm a virgin. I am in good shape and tall. Women should pursue me. I won't compete for a woman

arashmenalagha · Answer

lol forever alone! funny

calmmie · Answer

Men are moron. that's why.

Blondygirl1993 · Answer

No because I wil never look at anyon else apart from my ex and we be spli up 1 yeart

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think I'll be forever alone. I think I'll find that special someone :)

Anonymous · Answer

I want to be single forever... I mean who wants to deal with people for the rest of your life? People suck

socalgamehater2006 · Answer

I know I will, because I have Asperger Syndrome

brianccc · Answer

Yeah I am gonna guide aWay from everything

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