Jennifer Lopez said all men under 33 years old are “useless” when it comes to dating and relationships. What do you say guys?

[Pinay_ako]

[CandacePerry]

Everyone has different attraction what they like in men /girls. It is just mainly personality. Make a person immature or mature. age is nothing to do with immature. It like saying that all girls grow up to be mature. It, not true. i seen immature females. As well as an older guy that can be immature too.

[dmmmmm01888]

That's dumb. You can't judge people based off of age. I don't agree with j. lo

[Ryanmondoley]

If a guy said something like this about women, he would be called a sexist pig but a woman can say this because apparently misandry is acceptable.

[mlgjamz]

Definitely agree, Jennifer Lopez's opinions are what I live my life by

[Pinay_ako]

lol ok

[WhatTheHellAmy2]

dude XD

[Definitely]

"Useless" is a big word. Maybe if she had the brain not to date any player she would've had a different opinion... It is actually true that, in general, people (not just guys or just girls) are not looking for serious relationships until later in life, but useless? That's a strange word to use...
Oh, wait a moment... "Useless" doesn't go quite well with commitment, does it? She's actually referring to guys in regards to money... Well, it is also true that being stable financially doesn't come until you're around 30. This is actually backed up by numerous studies...
HOWEVER. Useless? Not by a long shot. If you're going to be with someone just because they bring you a benefit like a financial one, then please, stop... Just stop. Don't expect everyone to be rich only to fulfill your every whim. That's stupid.
Why are they even interviewing gold digging princesses on such topics in the first place? Are they thinking that she's an expert in those things? She can barely keep a guy interested in her for more than a few years

[Grobmate]

I would say I am not surprised that she would say this, and with her relationship record... I would discard the advice.

However; you must also remember that Sarah Hendricks is trying to sell an article like any fake news/pop fiction journalist would. I tend not to read those "2 minute read" articles. They generally misquote and fail to achieve the clarity given by the original words. And case in point... the only quoted word is 'useless', a word which more accurately represents the reliability of the info contained in the article.

As can be seen by the actual facts in the story below. Ironically her client wanted a real "mans man" a guy who can chop wood... I'm pretty sure a guy in his teens could chop wood.

As the Dr. That was interviewed said... men after 33 are more "financially stable", meaning they are more likely to commit. In other words, if you get with this guy and he commits, you get rich if you leave him.

But it's like saying that I want kids, so a woman is useless after the age of 30 because of biological clock. It's plain dumb.

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[Grobmate]

Also a guy who is still building wealth and getting to the dizzy hights of "financially stable" and "more likely to commit" does not make a man useless. Unless you're a spoiled gold digging snowflake. And with todays... umm... "Strong, Independent Woman"... why is it an issue?

[BabyBirdy]

Wow... the male comments on her are so hateful. I think she just meant that generally speaking men under 33 aren’t looking for long term commitment or interested in settling down. That they’re more interested in having fun and still building their careers... not that they are useless in every aspect but that they’re useless in a serious relationship

😹😹 at the guy saying she’s not attractive. He tried it 😹😹

[PrettyRegular]

What persentage out of around 30yo guys are looking for something serious and settling down? It's close to hundred. Great amount of people even on their early twenties are. I'm not looking for marrying and having kids now (obviously), but I damn sure would be happy, if I would meet my future wife tomorrow.

[BabyBirdy]

There’s nothing wrong with it but most people I think aren’t looking for something serious until their 30’s especially people who have a lot of success. That changes things

[PrettyRegular]

My parents met on their early 30s, but they are exception. Most people meet their partner already on their 20s.

[BabyBirdy]

Yes, the prior generations did. Many people are waiting to get married later in life these days. Also, people who get married too early are more likely to get divorced

[PrettyRegular]

Yeah, but it's important to remember that it gets hard to get kids for women after their late 30s. If they would meet and both would be on their mid 30s, they wouldn't have much time and having kids is not usually the first thing in a relationship.

[BabyBirdy]

It depends on the woman and many people don’t want as many kids or kids at all these days which is a good thing. Population control is needed

[PrettyRegular]

It's important to make white kids, because black people have many kids and it can result that one day there's no white people left.

[PrettyRegular]

That sounded a bit racist. 😂

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Most guys I know fresh out of university want to have a career yes, but they also want a serious relationship. Wanting and going for one doesn't mean not wanting and looking for the other. Most of my firends have a nice job and have a serious girlfriend. I am 27 I am in my company's board and I am going to get married this year so... ya.

[BabyBirdy]

I don’t know anyone that wants to get married straight out of college. Furthermore, I never said I agreed with a blanket statement as such or that you couldn’t have one without the other.
There are men who do and who don’t just like there are women who do or don’t. I made my comment because I think that’s what she was trying to say and other comments were going way left

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

I am not saying they want to marry, but after they leave university they want a lasting relationship. Start to look for the one.

In a sense I understand what she wanted to say, but I also get why guys are bitter about it. First for what it means if taken literally, second because if a man said the same thing about women... oh boy there would be an apocalipse falling on top of him.

[BabyBirdy]

It’s understandable if a man said it too. There’s some validity to it

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Why is that?

[BabyBirdy]

All the same reasons I listed for men

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

I can agree that each person's decisions are dictated by individuality not sexuality.

[Kapakani]

Shoo well if I turn 33 does that mean I can shoot my shot on mrs. lopez haha... I love jlo.

But seriously, I can understand where it comes from, even though I think it's not really about age... its the new landscape of dating in general and the majority don't seem to date for love anymore. Not all of us are like that, but I'm sure it's easier to come across the type she's most likely use to, than the guys that are looking for a steady loving relationship and that's where that comment comes from in my opinion lol.

[Alpha09]

She's clearly been hurt and she's going about dealing with it the wrong way. What she's saying is the guys she's been involved with have been immature or have cheated or whatever, and I'm assuming under 33. I personally do think a higher percentage of males before the age of 30 aren't fully mentally mature. Women to but that's another discussion. So in part she is correct from a dating perspective, but of course it depends on the guy. Some of you do know what your doing, your responsible respectful and not cheaters.

[Baew93]

I say she’s been engaged like 5 times and we have yet to see the last one work out.

She has no idea what works lol

[Pinay_ako]

ikr? lol

[drummerdude25]

Very wrong... highly disagree. And what does this do to contribute? It does nobody any good and insinuates further divide between men and women.

So I’m a 28 year old guy, work hard, a good dude and responsible, and want to find a good woman, no ill intent... but according to J Lo, I’m “not good enough?”

As if ALL men are bad if they’re not the magical age of 33 right? Typical. 🙄 Completely blanket, illogical statement...

[LesterJester]

Same can be said of women, from my experience. Too much drama and manipulation going on. Men aren't perfect either but to suggest women under the age of 33 are somehow better is just ignorant.

Why 33? That's a very specific number. Besides, she's like 50 years old now... Should she be dating men young enough to be her child?

Either way, Lopez is one of the last people I'd take advice from.

[Texaskid1]

She is absolutely right.

Most guys under the age of 33 are not financially well off. For a gold digging village bicycle such as JHo who has been pumped and dumped by every Chad , Tyrone , and Enrique (plus change) in the Hip Hop industry , a man under 33 does not have much coin that she can can wrap her now washed up cunt around.

That being said , I agree with this strong and independent woman.

[Imhot467]

Most guys in the world are poor this is bs

[Texaskid1]

@Imhot467 Yes. Most people in the world are poor. But what is your point?

[Imhot467]

They still aren’t financially well off is my point fool

[Texaskid1]

@Imhot467 OK. But be realistic fool. Do you think JLO is going to marry the bus driver? She is going to go for guys at the top. So most guys are not rich. True. But even if only 1 % of the worlds men are rich. ...

1 % of 7.5 billion people amounts to millions of people with a lot of money.

There's plenty of rich guys for woman like JL to choose from.

[Imhot467]

She’s rich too and is about to marry a guy like 5 years younger than her fool.

[Texaskid1]

@Imhot467 So he is a little younger than her. It does not matter.
Yes, she is rich. Rich women usually marry rich men. Money seeks out money.

[joeshi]

Tbh i thought she was a cougar. She dated drake, cris Judd, Ben affleck , Casper smart, Alex, all are younger than her and then she came out in the “boy next door” with her having sex with a teen or something and “her not knowing” it’s all bs to me, i just think she has lived and she has learned. I don’t blame her I’m attracted to older men myself or at least mature men because it’s just much more promising for me

[UnknownReflection]

I can't understand her perception until i communicate with her about it. Frankly, i can't. So i won't judge.

I'd say, she's entitled to her opinion. Every person forms their ideas according to their outlook and experiences and this is what her experience on relationship has provided for her. Generally i would disagree but i can't form a certain opinion until i know the reasoning behind her ideology.

[Felinegirl]

That's a very mature response to such a seemingly immature statement. But it must be bullshit as you are 24 (sarcasm intended).

[abc3643]

She's more or less correct.

I might go down to 28 or 27, but, younger than that, most guys just do not have their shit together in terms of maturity, experience, and position in life to completely satisfy a woman's emotional needs.

[TripleAce]

she's just triggered because they most likely just wanted to mess around and not actually commit... because they wanted younger women

I mean 33 year old guys are tight skinned and ripped still while she's starting to get wrinkled and loose... dont let the make up fool you lol

[mattdzz]

They're not useless. Society can use their labor and fighting strength for wars and production, but as far as suitable mates, she's right. Men 33 and up are prime mates for women, and that's an economic fact. Not to mention the peak age of men's attractiveness is 33-35; so, there ya go.

[Imhot467]

Most men are poor. And guys do not look best in 33-35. You obviously like older men.

[mattdzz]

@Imhot467 bigthink.com/.../study-women-peak-at-18-on-dating-apps-men-peak-at-50
www.nytimes.com/.../...s-online-men-women-age.html
www.theatlantic.com/.../
campuscasanova.wordpress.com/.../

[Imhot467]

Why would you show me such stupid crap? A woman your age has a better chance on a dating app than you or a damn 50 year old man. Of course a real man would know this already.

[mattdzz]

@Imhot467 You wouldn't know a real man if he was a foot down your throat :D

[ChiTown33]

Yay i'm in the game! Lol
I would say J. Lo. Is almost 50 and that might have a lot to do with that statement lol.
I would like to know her reasoning though.
She also said in an interview, she's been married several times and has yet to have an actual marriage. Could she be basing this of her lack of marital success in her younger years?

[Kurαȷ]

Jennifer had multiple "on-off" relationships with people:
Who were involved in armed robberies
Held her at ransom
Whom she had to sue for defamation multiple times

So what I say is that, perhaps, Jennifer should spend a little more time choosing her partners and maybe then she wouldn't hold this opinion.

[Chris00987]

Bullshit Jenny from the block!
I was in a relationship from 21 until 36.
I was a good boyfriend and husband.
How many times has JLo been in and out of relationships?
I think she shouldn't generalize.
Maybe she's got a problem.
Boom!
Hit me back Jennifer if you go something to say.

[Felinegirl]

Depends on your own age. 33 is a bit old for me.

If it were true:
If they didn't get to date and make mistakes while young, they wouldn't be any good at 33 either.

But it's not even true. Its bullshit either way.

[stilllanuagthtboy]

I think that's well said why do mean I am a man and I cannot lie question but why do they react in a hostile way anything is saying the questions in masculinity and that is the sign of a boy and a man

[wingattebaby16]

tbh, I have to agree.

Most young guys are only focused on their own pleasure and girls are just for them to have sex with, display as arm candy to other people, and someone to listen to him talk about cars, video games, sports, AND how hot other girls are and he wishes you had bigger boobs, butt, hips, etc.

[Kaazsz]

I feel like most young guys are more like “how do I find a girlfriend please help me 😭😭😭😭😭😭”

[wingattebaby16]

@Kaazsz very true... and then how do i keep her?

[Robertcw]

This is actually right. Lol. But he can’t learn unless he goes through this stage. Even a 33 year old virgin could be the same way because he never put himself in positions to have sex when he was younger.

[Imhot467]

That doesn’t change with age wing.

[Robertcw]

Yeah I think it changes with sexual experience rather than age.

The more sexual experience a guy has, the less he’ll be like that. Only one way to get experience.

[Imhot467]

I don’t agree. A guy being a manwhore isn’t going to help him settle down. He’ll just be used to the manwhore life. And most of the women I talked to said they wouldn’t date a guy that has slept around.

[Robertcw]

? Isn’t everyone a man whore in college? I think only shy guys refrain.

It’s also pretty difficult to man whore as well. It isn’t like it’s automatic.

[Imhot467]

Too many incels for that to be the case

[Robertcw]

That’s my point dude. Lol.

[Lightning8]

It's not about sexual experience, it's about how you were brought up and the culture you have existed in. Men have the same complaint that women treat them like objects and are heavily disloyal. And we all know that a young pretty 20 something yr old girl gets way more attention, consideration, 《options》, and even privaledge than most guys will ever see for himself.

When she leaves him, the guy is then pressured to not care; his emasculatd if he does. And it's the very nature of why women usually only have to date "equal or better" and can get away with overvaluing themselves. Biology even enables it. We see guys don't often make less than their partners, and when they do their woman is less tolerant.

And considering the divorce rate for women who file, guys are more likely to be loyal. When we talk about incels, I think we focus too much on the ones who only want sex; I feel like many really just want a relationship. I don't think wanting a relationship is useless; I think that's noble and indicates that they appreciate whoever does come into their life; they are loyal.

[Imhot467]

@Lightning8 A woman being 20 something won’t make her pretty

[VIVANT]

Why is she letting guys off the hook

It’s like saying ok go ahead and be useless until youre33 🤨🤷‍♀️

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Exactly!

[VIVANT]

@Jean-Marie_Céline

Ty😌