I myself always disliked kids I even told myself and my mother that’ll never plan on having kids but recently my female friend gave birth to a child and when I went to visit her she allowed me to carry her child I said I didn’t wanted to but she still gave it to me cause she had to go do something in the restroom during those 15minutes I couldn’t hold myself I couldn’t let go of the newborn off my arms After she got sent home I kept visiting her but just to go hold the newborn
Is this natural? Do we have this “fever” in our chemistry as well?
Yes. It's only natural for people to desire children but they had to have a logical reason for it. If holding her baby opens up the door for you to desire children, then that is a good thing. The only thing is is finding a suitable wife who's able to be the mother of your children and getting yourself stable enough to provide for your family.
1
4 Reply
Asker
+1 y
Yeah if I find the right girl last girl ran away after we had the talk
Look, if you want to have children and you definitely wanted to be with the wife that is worth having children with, you got to make sure it's somebody who really wants that life with you. And not somebody who just wants to use you for things because you're not going to be happy with such a person, and if you end up do having a child with her you're going to make that child miserable. Think of the welfare of your future children not just yourself or the other person.
Yes they do. At least my husband did. We had trouble getting pregnant. He wanted kiddos as much if not more than I did. So he really got into the whole baby making practice as much as I did! When we discovered we were in fact pregnant, we were doing our check out/up for an invetro fertilization procedure. When our Doctor jokingly told us she couldn't help us, because we already did it ourselves! Both he and I almost stopped at "I can't help you..." I was ready to burst into tears, he wasn't far behind me. It sunk in both our heads at about the same exact moment, I'm not sure who was more excited him or me!
He has always liked babies and especially toddlers who he can get on the floor and play along with them! He's pretty cute and funny to watch too! So I know he loves babies, just by watching how sweet he is with them.
He was twice as excited when our one bun in the oven turned out to be two buns, even more excited to be Daddy of twin boys! They're six months old and Daddy has already got them little footballs, soft little baseballs, I think if he could possibly get away with it he'd get them a little baby T-Ball set. LoL!! Both of the boys have Seattle Mariners baby jerseys (they're way too big for them but Daddy doesn't care). Football season will be coming and I. Sure he will find the smallest Seattle Seahawks outfits for his little bruisers!
So yeah, guys do get baby fever big time. It's been really fun to watch my proud Papa love on and show off his boys. I'm pretty partiality but, I'd say they're just as cute as their Daddy any day!
4
1 Reply
Asker
+1 y
Reading this just made my oxytocin levels go high 😭😭 do we have oxytocin or it’s just for women?🤔😂
Its natural... got a babygirl a few weeks ago, was unsure about my feelings but she is the prettiest girl I've ever seen...
If you want it or not, your dna starts to try push you in a way where you give your genetic informations to the next generation... you will see pregnant woman everywhere, your sexdrive will get higher but softer... because thats what your dna wants, life in the next generation...
But thats all chilly... woman got more "affection", at some you can feel their breasts thinking about produce milk while you just hand her the baby...
Big problem is that there are entire generations which had no father, so they dont know how to act as a father... especially guys arround 25-40 right now... But we need to cross that line simply for a better life of future generations...
2
1 Reply
Asker
+1 y
My neighbor is like in his 60s and regrets abandoning his kids they’re like 40-20 something like that all his kids hate him for leaving them behind I don’t want that the fun is watching them grow yes I do believe in genes making that on pushing you forward but sometimes they’ll over push you my other neighbor has 14kids and 3dead kids that’s like 17 total
Yes. I knew a kid since middle school, he had baby fever since then. After HS he had a kid with some girl and she left. But he's been an amazing father to his daughter. He is an asshole and an idiot as well, but with his daughter he treats her like a princess and does everything he can to take care of her.
4
5 Reply
Asker
+1 y
He’s a bitch to his gf/wife huh like wtf that’s the woman who gave birth to her daughter treat them like the Queens they’re
That's not what I said. I said he is an asshole and an idiot. Never said he acted that easy towards his girlfriend. He is just as sweet with his partner as he is with his daughter. He treats them well. She was jus not ready for the kid, so gave it to him to care for and left.
He is just and asshole to me and other people that don't matter to him.
I got my first daughter with 22 and I wasn't ready at this time to be a father. I disappeared and left the mother alone because she lied on me with anti conception pills and she didn't want an abortion. However I begun to pay alimony because DNA test said it's mine and I think it's a man's duty to care about his kids. So I got access to my daughter after a year. As I hold her in my arms first time I felt proud to be a father of so wonderful baby.
2
1 Reply
Asker
+1 y
I have a neighbor who left kids all over the U. S (he was a trucker) and he told me before he feels a deep remorse on abandoning his kids cause now he’s like 60 I think and his kids are like 40-20 and all hate him for abandoning them it’s never good to leave your kids when they’ll need you in life
I don’t know if I have it. I just know that I wish to have a girl some day. Because I feel raising a girl is the only way to truly and deeply understand the feminine side of humanity. Many men are angry at women but what happens when you have a daughter? I don’t know but I imagine their feelings change to some degree. I never hated women, I’ve always been very curious about women and wishing to understand and so boom, that’s why I want to have a girl :)
You know if you want to catch somebody's attention just reaching their pocket and take out a little cash. So the next time you go over there you leave you leave $25 for the baby hey let's see how soon you go back to visit and have a hug after that and remember every time you go back you give money. You can't stop still he's 18 maybe 26 . Oh let's not forget you're responsible for his moral fiber he knows the difference between right or wrong. You have to make sure he can count. Tie your shoes, wipe his ass. Oh and a billion other things. that's just the stuff you need to give him or teach him or the things you want to give him. Wait till you find out all the the wonderful things that he helps make happen in your life. bottom line the best thing that ever happened to me in my life was my children. I couldn't sold my soul to the devil for a better son. if he isn't already he will be a better man than I ever was!
My fiance acts the same way. He gets so excited around my little 4 year old daughter, and everytime we see a newborn/infant at a store or out somewhere, we both get really excited and both start talking about how cute babies are.
2
1 Reply
Asker
New+1 y
That’s how I be at the stores running to a child in its carriage just to say how cute he/she is 😂
😂 I texted to her last night 😂 but then the fucker blocked me so I called her to her other phone the dude answered like “yoo wtf do you want” Me: “bitch I dialed my besties number not your phone pass her the phone loser” Dude: “ima fucking kill you” Me: “do it mf watch her leave you later now quit acting like a bitch and pass her the phone” Dude: *hangs up blocks #* Me: calls her house phone Dude: hello Me: Ohhh it’s you again loser pass her the phone Dude: grunts hangs up Me:calls her through google hangouts Dude: Hellooo Me: quit acting such a retard and pass her the phone damn it Dude: hangs up 30mins later Me: calls home phone Ashley:Heyyyy Me: 😍🥺😭🥰 I FUCKING MISSED YOU
Think it’s a biological response just like the need for sex or a woman’s want to nurture. You’re a healthy guy. You must have strong genes what has the need to be passed on. Or something I don't know.
1
5 Reply
Asker
+1 y
I doubt that I’m healthy I have ptsd And half my uncles on my dads side are like 50 and no kids I grew up with out cousins I probably got the fever by something triggering me like oxytocin found on women I either have that inherited or nah my male friends say I’m weird for wanting to have kids “you not acting like a guy anymore”
I know so many people, guys and girls that sing up and down for years that they would never have kids and would never want kids and they are now on their 2nd or 3rd child and would tell u right now that can’t even imagine their life without their children. It awoken and fills a part of them they never new was empty and needed to be filled. Some people maybe just have that calling that’s dormant inside them and being exposed to being around a child woke that up in u.
Whatever it is it sure did hit me yesterday I ran up to a mother in her morning walk just to look at her child wich she thought it was weird for me walking up randomly 😂 i love kids now but I’ll probably won’t have any sooner my ex left me when I tried to get her pregnant ehh tough luck
@Bismarck_96 Sorry it is innappropriate but What do you mean you try to get your ex pregnant? Sorry i am curious. There so men who broke condomes on purpose to get their wifes pregnant cause their partner did not want kid at thst time.
It happens from time to time especially when i drive by schools, wanting to be a parent picking up. or dropping my kid off but the effort to find a good chick is ehhhh so it just passes
3
2 Reply
Asker
+1 y
Yeah my last girl ran away when I gave her the talk of having kids
Can't answer for all men. No man on here can and if he presumes to, he's already set himself for failure.
That said, go by how you feel. Clearly you like kids, hence the reaction (which was a normal, biological instinct). I'd go with this answer, but I'm biased.
Yes sadly some do like a friend of mine the sad part is that most laws will let the mother take the kids and (girls) know this so they use to to get whet they want women or a lady would not and puts this kid first
Yes, I always loved kids, everytime I see them my heart melts. But I always wanted to have kids myself. I have no idea if it happens to people who don't like kids and all of a sudden start liking them
Girl's Behavior 
Guy's Behavior 
Flirting 
Dating 
Relationships 
Fashion & Beauty 
Health & Fitness 
Marriage & Weddings 
Shopping & Gifts 
Technology & Internet 
Break Up & Divorce 
Education & Career 
Entertainment & Arts 
Family & Friends 
Food & Beverage 
Hobbies & Leisure 
Other 
Religion & Spirituality 
Society & Politics 
Sports 
Travel 
Trending & News 
Most Helpful Opinions