Should I have a baby with a man twice my age?

[Babydollllllll]

This is not a “sugar daddy” dynamic. He is self made, CEO of multiple companies, physically gorgeous, and just an old school gentleman. We also share same passions like literature and opera. He is just perfect in every way, has been extremely generous while I’m studying at Uni, and I couldn’t ask for more. We have been seen each other for over an year, he recently confessed that he confessed that he wants to have a baby... I have been anti baby since I was little but recently have had hormonal rashes of baby fever so I’m seriously considering it. I also have a lot of eligible “suitors” that want a serious relationship with me so I’m still hesitant about committing to something so major as I also want to do a Masters after finishing my BA, and on the other hand my body is screaming for it so I am very conflicted. Just want to hear some constructive advice to get a different perspective... and yes I’m aware that “he is old enough to be my father”, and yes my mum knows about him and is ok with it.

[Reaperbot666]

• https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-8836033/Botched-star-Dr-Paul-Nassif-58-wife-Brittany-29-welcome-daughter.html

[dutch69lover]

For something that "isn't a sugar daddy thing" it sure does sound like one... you say he's generous and then go on to talk about having other eligible suitors which I assume are more closer to your age which tells me your somewhat conflicted inside about the age difference. So don't bring a child into this world with these conflicts within yourself.

There will be time for a baby after you have all your degrees... you are young and still habe plenty of time for that

[guitarnovice]

If you have a baby with him and shit goes south, you'll never get child support from him with his 5 lawyers at his side. I suggest being married to him for at least 3 years, happily, before having kids with him. But I figure if you have to ask that question you already have reasons to not have a baby with him. Don't go through with something like that you don't feel absolutely sure about. It is your body and therefore your choice.

[WindAtMyBack]

I would strongly recommend waiting until you get your masters before thinking of having a kid. You are awfully young for your body to be screaming to have a kid.

About this CEO of multiple companies. How do you know this?

[colelydiason]

If your age on profile (21) is correct then you are both consenting adults. Just make sure it is what you really want. You dont want to be two years down the track and resenting a partner and child that "held you from your dreams"

[Avicenna]

Your respective ages aren’t a problem; however, don’t you want to get established in a career before having kids? And wouldn’t it be better if he married you first? It shows greater commitment on his part.

[slatyb]

Not until he marries you or there's otherwise some legal provision for your support (not just the child's), like an irrevocable trust. You're 21, he's 42 so you could have a long live together.

[chriscdi]

I don't know if you want too, from what I've heard a majority of gapped relationahips, flop and end in divorce, hope y'all work out tho 💯🙏🏽

[Wise4myage]

Personally, I think that would be a huge mistake. Get your education first so you have something to fall back on should things go bad.

[Anonymous]

Sure. If you think he would be a good father, and you respect him, and love him, do it. You can get your Masters whenever you want.

[Smirnoff23]

Follow you heart I'm sure you will make the right decision

[Anonymous]

Fuck ur stupid BA family is more fulfilling than work and fertility window is fleeting, have a kid

[Quackthulu]

That depends, are you an idiot?

[RHK36]

Do whatever you feel is right.

[Anonymous]

Have him put a ring on your finger first.

[Dchrls78104]

Do you love this man? Are you compatible?

[Samantha_17]

Yeah, first get married and then make the baby :)

[SandandWaves]

no way!

[Anonymous]

might as well 🙄. If you really like the guy.. 😒