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Why are men always telling women to smile? (Page 2)
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Alright, dont compliment a womens smile, noted.
If you think that is what she is saying, it's probably better that you don't.
Hey, mr. Whiteknight, how about you stop mansplaining before you piss off the women here?
All sarcasm aside, is it necessary to approach this with the sjw mindset? Why not discuss the issues you take with what I said, instead of trying to indirectly mock me?
Oh you have no idea how much I like to be a whiteknight. Not because I want get in girls good grace, oh no. It's just for the fun I get pissing other guys off. That is why I didn't adressed what you said instead of mocking you. Because it's so much more fun xD
But fine I will bite. Did you understood what she asked? She never said you couldn't compliment a women's smile. A strnger telling her to do so out of the blue is the problem.
Get a room you two!
@ThisIsMyOpinion fair enough since I mocked you right back.
I guess not, I kind of thought she meant in general since I only really compliment girls i know. I don't really care enough to compliment people I dont know (plus I'm quite shy IRL so I rarely approach people).
Regardless, I kind of feel like putting restriction on flirting like this is a little strange, I don't see the reason to restrict such people from approaching each other. I agree harassment is wrong so if the person being approached says "go away" then you should listen to that, and perhaps we should fine people who aggressively or repeatedly approach someone who does not want it, but I don't see a reason to say that it should never happen.
Hey look at you being much more coherent than I expected. I miss judged you.
I agree with you, but still I don't think complimenting for the sake of flirting is bad. I believe neither does she.
When she asked this I imagined a guy, trying to flirt with a girl and the girl really unconfortable with it. Since she is not responding to him advances he hits her with "smile for me baby" or something.
@ThisIsMyOpinion Perhaps that is part of the problem here, I mostly envision women dreaming of guys who look like Justin Timberlake saying their smile is beautiful. That said i do understand that flirting can be unwanted and I mentioned that maybe we should think about fining people who aggressively or repeatedly approach someone who asked to be left alone, though this may be hard to enforce. It goes both ways, which is why I dont think stopping such things entirely is the answer, but putting restrictions in place to protect people who are being harassed, I definitely agree with that.
Nothing is so linear in similar situations that is always a bad idea. Like you said if the guy is really attracttive he can come next to a gilr ask "let's fuck?" and she might love it. Still not the best idea in the world to come to random girls and ask "let's fuck?" even for the really hot guy. Going in easy and read the situation is the best option.
@thisIsMyOpinion You touched on something really interesting there. "Still not the best idea in the world to come to random girls and ask 'lets fuck?' Even for the really hot guy.", this is actually the opposite of the truth in some situations. I don't support all the things they say, but pick up artists have a point when they say that the more chances you take the more chances you have of success. Therefore if you ask everygirl "lets fuck" you might be turned down 99 times and on the 100th you might get lucky. If you want a relationship then taking it easy is probably the best option, but if you just want to find a woman who wants something casual then asking a lot of women actually works.
Again, I dont support harrasment or coercion, so I think if she/he asks you to stop or go away then you should. Keep in mind I work with gay (philipeno) guys who try to flirt with me sometimes, and typically they just flirt by offering/asking for sex. Without going into detail, I have been offered sex a few times, anither coworker got asked if he would let one gay guy suck him off, but mostly the flirting happens in small compliments and overly touchy hands. I think a few times it has turned into harsssment, but I dont report it because I think it's cultural, they all seem very sexual and open about it, the men and women, straight and gay. Also, while it might be somewhat aggressive it does not seem to be predatory. The other straight guys and myself aren't upset to be approached (I am Canadian btw), but once we asked them to stop we started getting upset that they did not listen. So I understand what being approached is like and how it can make you nervous turning down someone. Regardless as long as it is legal and people enjoy casual relstionships it will continue.
I agree that trying a lot and be frontal works if I just want sex. But I do it like that "let's fuck" 99 women will be really creeped out by me.
I know it will. Not to say it's a good thing.
I dont understand why they will be creeped out just because they were approached. As I said, I get approached by coworkers, I dont see them as creepy just because they enjoy sex and want to know if I am interested in sex with them. The only way you can find that creepy is if you find sex creepy/strange. Unless they say something weird like "I want to lick your feet" or some strange or way too intimate shit, in that case being creeped out is justified. You might feel intimidated, but that typically has more to do with aggression in my opinion. It's just a part of relationships, if no one approaches then how will relationships (casual or serious) begin?
Someone has to aproach. Just don't think saying things like "hey let's fuck" or "smile to me honey" is a good idea. That is coming up too strong and it might leave them creeped out and unconfortable.
Dude were did she say don't compliment a woman's smile? You totally failed at comprehended what she's talking about.
To get a reaction.
Because we're sexist monsters.
Duh.
Because is attracte to us
Because a smile makes women more lovable.
Assholes never smile.
Lmao... on the down vote!!!
Has anyone ever experienced any inner joy and expressed it towards others in general? Its someone strength speaking towards anothers weakness.
And it's no different than a bunch of cheerleaders at a football game. I never tell others to smile , I just go about my joyful journey of life with those always frowning behind me.
Cause they wanna see you happy
We don't, it's an invented controversy.
Maybe YOU don't, but there are many people that do.
People tell me to smile all the time— it’s not an invented controversy
I don't ask women to smile, and I don't see hordes of men asking women to smile. This is from Tumblr.
It's not hordes of men. It's just every now and then. I'm not saying that it happens every day, at least not for me. I'm saying that there have been times when a man has told me to smile.
Yeah, and why is it such a big deal? It's not that big of a crime to encourage someone to smile.
Because it's annoying, they need to just leave people alone.
Smiles look great
Probably an attempt to make you less miserable.
Cause a smile is gorgeous
some guys talk shit
Its just small talk.
Who doesn't want to see people happy?