Guys, do you find older women attractive? (Page 2)
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I find some older women attractive yes. They are more mature and not as childish or shallow in a lot of cases as many younger people are. And I dont consider then sexual flings either, if I am ever interested in older women then its genuine interest not sexual interest
30-40 plus yo women are more career and goal oriented than younger ones. Most seem to know what they want and are not afraid to try to get it or at least ask for it.
As for the younger ones, they are still wondering around not having a direction to go in.
I thought your Q was interesting. So I would like to add my 2 cents.
I have dated younger and older women than myself, but honestly, age is irrelevant. Some, not all, younger women can be more mature and attractive than the older ones. And vice versa.
The thing that attracts younger guys to women in their 30s is the maturity aspects of things. The older a girl, the more understanding they are likely to be. Guys get fed up with drama at some point in life and the younger a girl, the more drama you will face.
I certainly prefer women older than me specifically for that reason. I still date women younger than me, but I prefer ones older than me.
Too much drama makes a girl less attractive.
I'd guess they hit on everyone. Or maybe find generation x an easier demographic than generation y.
Their explanation sounds like a typical suck up, not to be trusted (they won't exactly say they struck out with younger women so opened up search criteria)
A couple of reasons I can think of is they are tired of the drama that comes with girls/women of their age. Second maybe a desire to not have kids. Third they may have mommy issues, and or are looking for a sugar momma setup. Me personally I think it's more of the first thought.
The younger guys think the older women will be easier for them to have sex with, which is the primary goal of many younger guys when getting with a woman. The reason they think that is because many men around your age and older that want a relationship and not a hook up lose interest in women that pass 30, which leaves women in that group more available with less options.
I wrote a long answer about that earlier today on another question but I guess it was removed. Basically it comes down to older women not being a good choice for a man that doesn't have kids but does want to have some with his future SO.
That means her desirability/relationship value significantly decreases passed 30 and the younger guys know that makes those women easier to get with and use for a hook up. they may not tell her that is their intentions, but it usually is.
Where as a middle aged man with no kids becomes more desirable because however he is now (habits, wants, physical shape, etc.) is how he will stay which makes him more reliable for a relationship to last. Not old like 60 or something, but middle aged. So men's value tends to go up passed 30 for a while and at the same time women's dating/relationship value decreases.
That is reality but it often angers people and they just remove my opinion. I went into much better detail earlier on the other question but that question was removed I guess because I can't find it anymore.
Um... guys find *attractive* females attractive. Whether they are older or not doesn't really matter much unless she has reproduced, which is an instant boner-killer and "no thank you." If she doesn't have kids and she's hot and fun, then yeah sure we like them. It's natural biology for guys to prefer younger girls, but older girls can still be hot-- it just becomes far less likely over time.
I do have a thing for older women, as they know what they want sexually. They also have passed that 'Guys won't take me seriously if I consider sleeping with them' kind of stage in their life, as they are more concerned with more important things than that.
Plus, they aren't scared of actually having sex. :)
Hai there.. Let me tell you honestly.. I like only mature aunties. I am not a pedophile to like girls below of my age. Young girls repulsive to me. I want woman. A girl became woman when she became 40 and above. The more you age, the more you became mature and the more you became sexy. Thanks for the question.
... Are you dumb? Serious question.