Guys, do you find older women attractive? (Page 2)

Question

For guys 18-20s for women 30-40s.  I’m curious as I’m reaching 30, I’m searching for guys around my age 30 and up. But what surprises me is younger guys hit on me. Especially 18-20 yr olds. That I question them why they hit on me and why they’re not asking younger girls there own age out. They’re response is usually they want a mature woman and younger girls are all the same. Which I don’t understand.  Is there a new trend or lifestyle of teens not being compatible?

Matt57 · Answer

Yes I’m attracted to them. From what I’ve read about things like cougar dating, a lot of older women seem to prefer flings.

Logorithim · Answer

I found women in their 30s to be the most attractive of any age cohort when I was a young adult but never hit on them or saw them as potential partners.

Stevenjacobsen · Answer

Yes, often as a matter of fact. Beauty is not found in age. It is found in character, kindness, and heart. These should be the things to draw you once you have gotten past the skin. Being attracted to someone physically will determine if you stay together.

spartan55 · Answer

Would you want to date your 18-20 year old self? I know I was NOT relationship material, to put it diplomatically. Not sure what the confusion is about.

Therisinghero12 · Answer

If she takes care of herself and has actually wisened up over the years. I'll have to agree, mature women are much more attractive, but older doesn't always mean more mature.

Passinggas · Answer

I like older when she mommies me with benefits. That's it. It is nice.

LegendarySir · Answer

I do. I prefer girls my age, but older women can be hot too. I did it with a 31 year old when I was 21. She was fiiiine 👌

ZeussLightningBolt · Answer

Like mid 40s, yes

Mir95 · Answer

I do find women upto mid thirties attractive but I am not interested in having a relationship with any woman who's older than me.

TheFlak38 · Answer

All I need to do to make up my mind is go to the closest place where young girls gather and listen to their discussions. The stupidity will give me such headaches that I will switch to the closest place with older women immediately.

vince999 · Answer

Yes but personally I don't give age to much thought as it's about the person, I'm 33 and dated a 21 year old and recently dated a 44 year old

Dragonstarterplus · Answer

Attractive enough to have sex with? Sure Attractive enough to get in a relationship with? Not really

wankiam · Answer

many are attractive but i tend to go for younger women mostly

FakeName123 · Answer

In german you say: "On old ships you learn to sail". That's it. It's a means to get experience for some young guys.

IlyaTheImpaler · Answer

I can't recall the last time I find women above 30 attractive, maybe some actress, or porn actress, like milf and stuffs

Jerre · Answer

I date a number of women in your age group and enjoy their company

sasukeuchiha7 · Answer

I used to he but after an interaction with a certain woman on this site, I think I'm done with that nonsense.

Slim57 · Answer

Yeah love older women and only ones I have dated seriously

gnuff3 · Answer

Maybe they think that older women are less egocentric and vain.

matt200501 · Answer

I still fancy older women, along as you both like each other, nothing wrong with it

TonyBologna25 · Answer

Only @redeyemindtricks although she’s MIA. The things I’d do if I got her alone in a room with me...

clampfan101 · Answer

Anything less than 10 years older would be just fine. :)

OrangeBoy2 · Answer

It depends on her personality more than age. She just have to surprise me somehow.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Even at 45 I find some older women attractive. It is not exclusive to teens and 20-somethings.

Azazeres · Answer

No, I think it’s probably that we learn a lot more in bed from someone with more experience.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

Oh definitely, depending on the woman. Holly Willoughby, Kelly Brook, Monica Bellucci, Elizabeth Hurley, all were/are very hot.

casanova411 · Answer

I prefer older but not too much they are less crazy than younger girls

Liam_Hayden · Answer

I'm 23 and regularly date women 28-35. Not really by design, but that is just what seems to happen.

Dolemite510 · Answer

As long as a girl takes care of herself she can look great til 50 🤷‍♂️

Hypnos0929 · Answer

Sure if they're attractive (5/10 is fine tbh) and laid back

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