Guys, would you freak out if the girl you're seeing/dating looks different without makeup?

[Anonymous]

E. g dating for few weeks
If so, would u ghost her? End it?

Yes

Depends

Not really

[Anonymous]

Likely yes, this is a big part of guys not liking makeup on women. I want to know who you are and what you look like. I don't want to find out later that you've just been wearing a mask and you're actually someone different. Like, if I found out the girl I was dating turned out just to be a proficient cross-dresser should I react negatively? How is it any different? I'm not attracted to men, and so if you take off makeup and look unattractive (man or not), how is that different?

You should be trying to have as little makeup as possible if your intent is to appeal to men for anything other than one night.

Two the girls who say it's for themselves. If you're just going to get mad at us for being critical of this stuff and snapping back by saying that you don't do it for men, then stop asking for our opinion.

[Dark93]

I would be upset that she felt that she had to hide herself behind lies because she thought incorrectly that her natural beauty wasn't good enough.
I wouldn't get upset to the point of breaking up with her, at least not until I talked to her about it.

[nerms123]

It used to be that makeup was just slap on some foundation and mascara but now there’s all these YouTube gurus teaching drag techniques and people are contouring their faces to high heaven with seven layers of product and it’s just out of control. Those looks are not meant for every day imho. I would never put on that makeup for dating because I want a guy to know what I actually look like.

[dancing_in_nebulas]

Wow, that's a ton of makeup on that girl.

If guys had a makeup alternative or something, and he put so much on that his looks went from a 3 to a 7... yeah, that means I'm only attracted to the synthetic him 😫

I keep my makeup to eyeliner and lipstick. Guys tell me I'm very pretty looking like a tomboy bum ha ha, and laughing at it smeared a over my face the next morning 🤣

[Claireluvskaren]

I was friends with a girl in college who never wore makeup and was stunningly beautiful. i ran into her one day at the mall, and she was wearing makeup, and she didn't look good at all. So it can work both ways. I tend to wear very little makeup, unless I am on camera, but in everyday life less is more for me.

[Cazper]

I prefer girls with little or no makeup unless she's going to a special event so in general I would not be surprised like that. However, No I don't think I would because - well duh of course she does. But I can't say there wouldn't be cases where makeup hid something that freaked me.

[JamesBoradil03]

it deoends on how different she looks. if its night and day and she is absolutely not attractive, then yes, if its not too bad and she just has a few blemishes then i wouldn't care. but in general i won't go out with a girl if she has a lot of makeup on, it screams insecure

[Browneye57]

It tell guys to make sure she looks good to you even without makeup, cuz you're gonna wake up to that mug for the rest of your life if you marry her. There's a thing called 'natural beauty.
And while it's said beauty is skin deep, ugly is to the bone. LOL

[Wally48]

That's straight up.

[Anonymous]

Yes. That's like a guy wearing heel lifts that make him a few inches taller, and wearing a muscle suit underneath his clothes. Then you finally get back home with him and you realise that actually he's a couple of inches short than you and has a Dad bod.

[iFarted]

Most girls who cake on way too much make up are usually hiding something, I don't date these girls.
I like girls who put on natural looking make up or make up that highlights their features. I wouldn't get freaked out without make up as they usually don't look drastically different.

[Киттйлинк]

holy shhh*! D: lol
well i think most guys do not even care as long as their body is on point. I've seen some ugly ass women with handsome men and it's just that the ugly girl usually has a fit body and such.
That's scary though lol

[Anonymous]

Yep I don't tolerate false advertising. How would you feel if I told you I was a millionaire, and that was one of the major reasons you were attracted to me, then 2-3 weeks later i told you 'JK! I am a starving artist!!!', you'd have every right to be pissed right?

[Anonymous]

if i don't like her without make-up then i'll probably ghost her. i think girls shouldn't hide how they look. i'm not saying they shouldn't wear makeup but the make-up shouldn't totally change their looks because ultimately the guy would see her without make up and he'll be shocked. it's better to show your real face up front

[AnonDude1998]

I'd probably be a bit shocked, but I don't think it'd change how I view them. At this point I only date girls that I find interesting personality wise, so as long as they're still the same personality underneath then I wouldn't really mind

[AaronFromTheForest]

I don't like makeup because of the smell and taste of it. Something I learned in my teenage years I guess. I just prefer natural faces and crows feet especially.

[Anonymous]

Make up is supposed to enhance your looks, not make you look like a different person so it’s understandable if a guy got freaked out by that. It’s basically catfishing lol.

[lightbulb27]

I had a friend who wore a LOT of makeup and it scared me, never got to see her without it. The girl above is actually kinda... unique, she's fine both ways. But no doubt it messes with our heads...

[brandonk]

I said yes in the case of the photo. If she looks like her phone can't recognize her face then yeah. It's basically catfish. I don't mind if they wear makeup but I don't want it to be extreme

[BeMuse]

The person in the picture isn’t attractive either way. The second picture just looks like shit tons of make up and fake as fuck. Usually people that wear that much make up automatically look unattractive.

[teamvic]

There's a good chance

That's why make up scares me and I don't really like girls who rely on a lot of make up to look good

Because then its not even really you at that point

[Djolea]

Every girl looks different without makeup. That's why I don't go for girls who use too much makeup. It's false advertising.

[Angelina25]

If she actually looks like Adolf Hitler and after make-up she starts to look like Taylor Swift, then yeah. Duh.

[MrTuxedo]

I wouldn't even date someone who wears SOOOO much make up as that girl on picture to begin with, as that looks like she's going out for Halloween.

[nicks939s]

I would joke with her saying " excuse me who are you and what are you doing in my house" but it wouldn't bother me if i had feelings for her then i wouldn't care

[Ejeffers85]

Personally I think natural beauty is much better then a woman wearing a lot of makeup. I would be fine with someone I am with who wears little to none typically. Since makeup is truly meant to enhance your natural looks. And not cover them up.

[GlackBuy]

I prefer a girls natural look. Makeup is fake nonsense designed for the vain to pat themselves on the back even further.

[slatyb]

I avoid women in heavy makeup so I don't have this problem. I've never been shocked at a woman's appearance without makeup.

[CocoBat]

I wouldn't consider being with anyone that wears even close to as much make up, it says a lot about the person in general and it just looks uncanny

[Liam_Hayden]

If the dude can't tell that she is wearing a lot of makeup then he is very, very, very inexperienced.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

I don't like her in neither of the pictures.
Anyway if she used so much makeup that she is basically a different person I would just ask her please don't put so much on!

[Maximilian294]

I don't girls with a lot of makeup anyway, if they do their eyes it makes them really pretty but more then that i really hate. But thats just prefference

[HeWhoIs]

That big of a difference is what is called false advertising. It's not grounds for a breakup but damn... You shouldn't feel compelled to do that to yourself.

[bamesjond0069]

I prefer no makeup but say you're an expert and i never seen you without and then i was not attracted to you with no makeup id break up. Thats why i prefer to just not have makeup on girls so the attraction is real right from the beginning.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Depends but most of the time i would be surprised since looks is also a part in my criteria. The whole idea of makeup is supposed to make you look better is just like refined sugar and you already know what they do.

[MrMilti]

Actually, I would prefer the woman on the left 🤷‍♂️
Seems more like an authentic human being, than that pornstar on the right.

[Meditatingsquirrel79]

My friend, Summer, she looks beautiful without make up. When she goes out with her boyfriend and friends, she looks weird with make up on.

[anametouse]

Lol not really. I'm smart enough to understand what makeup is

[crazy8000]

Higher risk if it's the other way around that she usually use that much and especially to cover up her skin on the face but didn't use it when she started dating me.

[Nivinxus]

Expecting a girl to look the same without makeup is just stupid.

[Alphonso1948]

All girls/woman look different without makeup. If you are dating her only because of her looks you will be disappointed when you see her without any makeup. No, I would not ghost her. That would be cruel. And, no, I would not end the relationship.

[TripleAce]

Is she's no make then its means she's ready to do it
Lol so you’d break up after that if anything

[Smelly12]

Thing is I wouldn't date a girl who got that much makeup on her face

[stuntbrain]

How is it possible to not look different after applying makeup? The entire purpose is altered appearance

[GuidoThePizzaMaker]

I could care less, what makes me find a woman irresistible has nothing to do with looks

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

It wouldn't matter to me , i want love a Woman for her
not what she looks like.

[ImJustCurious13]

Nah, unless she was using makeup to hide that she's a man or some shit.

[Sambo226]

I like a girl with minimum make up on. Shows her natural beauty.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't date a girl who wears a lot of makeup... you know she is hiding something.
But if one managed to sneak by and I saw her without her makeup, I would consider it a form of misleading and lying, so I would dump her for it.

[The1person]

I'd say it depends on just how different, it's would be weird to go on a date and she isn't wearing makeup and you wouldn't know who she is, but that's in the extreme part of the board.

[Aquariusmystery]

That girl looks sooooo much better without makeup, what’s with the clown lips?

[Massageman]

If some guy can't tell that his gal is heavily made-up - - - - -

[mattia93]

I don't like girls wearing a lot of make up, a bit it's good

[Sunbursted]

I don't know, I don't like heavy amounts of makeup so the problem couldn't come to create itself anyway

[Bman4907]

If i go to bed with Anna Kendrick, and wake up next to E. T. yes. Some make up is fine.

[JimboGB]

I have never been a fan of makeup, I have always appreciated nature beauty.

[esotericstory]

Obviously yes. I want a healthy woman, not a woman who has ruined her health with trendy beauty practices.

[highjinx]

that girl in the pic yes another girl probably not.

[TheWombRaider]

Honestly guys dont really pay attention to that as much as you do

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't freak out but damn she looks like she layered on all that make up it makes me want to grab a baby wipe & unveil her face. some make up is okay but don't over do it.

[Guanfei]

If after a few weeks I don't even know what she looks like without makeup, I did it wrong.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I’d call her out to tired if all these fake bitches

[jonesjessica812]

The girl I'm trying to talk to looks good without makeup. But approaching women is very hard to me

[jonesjessica812]

No I wouldn't freak out

[name_is_eric]

No, that is the point of makeup.

[Anonymous]

worry more about your butt in yoga pants than your face and all will be good