Guys, would you freak out if the girl you're seeing/dating looks different without makeup?

[Anonymous]

E. g dating for few weeks
If so, would u ghost her? End it?

Yes

Depends

Not really

[Anonymous]

Likely yes, this is a big part of guys not liking makeup on women. I want to know who you are and what you look like. I don't want to find out later that you've just been wearing a mask and you're actually someone different. Like, if I found out the girl I was dating turned out just to be a proficient cross-dresser should I react negatively? How is it any different? I'm not attracted to men, and so if you take off makeup and look unattractive (man or not), how is that different?

You should be trying to have as little makeup as possible if your intent is to appeal to men for anything other than one night.

Two the girls who say it's for themselves. If you're just going to get mad at us for being critical of this stuff and snapping back by saying that you don't do it for men, then stop asking for our opinion.

[Dark93]

I would be upset that she felt that she had to hide herself behind lies because she thought incorrectly that her natural beauty wasn't good enough.
I wouldn't get upset to the point of breaking up with her, at least not until I talked to her about it.

[nerms123]

It used to be that makeup was just slap on some foundation and mascara but now there’s all these YouTube gurus teaching drag techniques and people are contouring their faces to high heaven with seven layers of product and it’s just out of control. Those looks are not meant for every day imho. I would never put on that makeup for dating because I want a guy to know what I actually look like.

[dancing_in_nebulas]

Wow, that's a ton of makeup on that girl.

If guys had a makeup alternative or something, and he put so much on that his looks went from a 3 to a 7... yeah, that means I'm only attracted to the synthetic him 😫

I keep my makeup to eyeliner and lipstick. Guys tell me I'm very pretty looking like a tomboy bum ha ha, and laughing at it smeared a over my face the next morning 🤣

[Claireluvskaren]

I was friends with a girl in college who never wore makeup and was stunningly beautiful. i ran into her one day at the mall, and she was wearing makeup, and she didn't look good at all. So it can work both ways. I tend to wear very little makeup, unless I am on camera, but in everyday life less is more for me.

[Cazper]

I prefer girls with little or no makeup unless she's going to a special event so in general I would not be surprised like that. However, No I don't think I would because - well duh of course she does. But I can't say there wouldn't be cases where makeup hid something that freaked me.

[JamesBoradil03]

it deoends on how different she looks. if its night and day and she is absolutely not attractive, then yes, if its not too bad and she just has a few blemishes then i wouldn't care. but in general i won't go out with a girl if she has a lot of makeup on, it screams insecure

[Browneye57]

It tell guys to make sure she looks good to you even without makeup, cuz you're gonna wake up to that mug for the rest of your life if you marry her. There's a thing called 'natural beauty.
And while it's said beauty is skin deep, ugly is to the bone. LOL

[Wally48]

That's straight up.

[Anonymous]

Yes. That's like a guy wearing heel lifts that make him a few inches taller, and wearing a muscle suit underneath his clothes. Then you finally get back home with him and you realise that actually he's a couple of inches short than you and has a Dad bod.

[iFarted]

Most girls who cake on way too much make up are usually hiding something, I don't date these girls.
I like girls who put on natural looking make up or make up that highlights their features. I wouldn't get freaked out without make up as they usually don't look drastically different.

[Киттйлинк]

holy shhh*! D: lol
well i think most guys do not even care as long as their body is on point. I've seen some ugly ass women with handsome men and it's just that the ugly girl usually has a fit body and such.
That's scary though lol

[Anonymous]

Yep I don't tolerate false advertising. How would you feel if I told you I was a millionaire, and that was one of the major reasons you were attracted to me, then 2-3 weeks later i told you 'JK! I am a starving artist!!!', you'd have every right to be pissed right?

[Anonymous]

if i don't like her without make-up then i'll probably ghost her. i think girls shouldn't hide how they look. i'm not saying they shouldn't wear makeup but the make-up shouldn't totally change their looks because ultimately the guy would see her without make up and he'll be shocked. it's better to show your real face up front

[AnonDude1998]

I'd probably be a bit shocked, but I don't think it'd change how I view them. At this point I only date girls that I find interesting personality wise, so as long as they're still the same personality underneath then I wouldn't really mind

[AaronFromTheForest]

I don't like makeup because of the smell and taste of it. Something I learned in my teenage years I guess. I just prefer natural faces and crows feet especially.

[Anonymous]

Make up is supposed to enhance your looks, not make you look like a different person so it’s understandable if a guy got freaked out by that. It’s basically catfishing lol.

[lightbulb27]

I had a friend who wore a LOT of makeup and it scared me, never got to see her without it. The girl above is actually kinda... unique, she's fine both ways. But no doubt it messes with our heads...

[brandonk]

I said yes in the case of the photo. If she looks like her phone can't recognize her face then yeah. It's basically catfish. I don't mind if they wear makeup but I don't want it to be extreme

[BeMuse]

The person in the picture isn’t attractive either way. The second picture just looks like shit tons of make up and fake as fuck. Usually people that wear that much make up automatically look unattractive.

[teamvic]

There's a good chance

That's why make up scares me and I don't really like girls who rely on a lot of make up to look good

Because then its not even really you at that point

[Djolea]

Every girl looks different without makeup. That's why I don't go for girls who use too much makeup. It's false advertising.

[slatyb]

I avoid women in heavy makeup so I don't have this problem. I've never been shocked at a woman's appearance without makeup.

[Angelina25]

If she actually looks like Adolf Hitler and after make-up she starts to look like Taylor Swift, then yeah. Duh.

[MrTuxedo]

I wouldn't even date someone who wears SOOOO much make up as that girl on picture to begin with, as that looks like she's going out for Halloween.