Not necessarily. My mother spent her life running away from me and her responsibilities, leaving me to chase her in tears. Thankfully, none of my girlfriends did this to me.
Reasearch shows that men look for the opposite of their mothers if they are on bad terms and same if theyre on good terms. As opposed to women. In other words if theyre on bad terms chances are the way he treats her is opposite of the way he will treat his woman, assuming he treats her bad based on the bad terms theyre on.
I disagree. Everyone is different and dont abide by the same stereotypes. I think a mans childhood and early adult friends have more influence then how they treat there mother. On top of that, I am a perfect example of how wrong this is. My early years I was a manwhore.
I have to disagree kind of. As some people said here, it depends more on what he treats EVERYONE like, so it's only accurate to an extent because a mother is part of that "everyone". You should actually look at how he gets (and got) treated by everyone before judging based on what he does now, there is often a story to be heard.
Well.. my mom ain't hoeing around so yeah imma treat my mother different than a lot of girls who are around me but when there are quality women around I will treat them with the respect they deserve ya feel? Like y'all girls gotta work for this respect besides the basic human respect of meeting a stranger
One time I heard of a guy in my country who was dating a girl. Around him she was always pleasant, kind, and affectionate. Then one day he paid her an unexpected visit at home and found her treating her mother shabbily. It was an instant dealbreaker for him.
True for most men I've been with. One in particular showed it's not always the case. He was lovely, always helping his mum out with shopping, looking after his siblings, assembling furniture etc. But he treated me like dirt.
Not really true. He learned coping skills and expectations when dealing with women from his mother, but most people are able to adapt to a new personalities and adjust their expectations when "real life" gets in the way.
Yes, I agree. A boy's first female role model is his mother. She endured at a minimum delivering and raising him to adulthood, despite ALL hardships. In addition, most mothers ALWAYS love their son NO MATTER WHAT and will SACRIFICE THEMSELF for their son!
So, why shouldn't a son owe a debt of respect and gratitude to his mother? Why shouldn't a son treat his mother as the Queen that she is?
If a man loves a woman then he should and will treat her as he treats/treated his mother.
I don't think so. I treat my mother with love and respect, but to me, my girlfriend is the most important person in my life. If I could remember to eat on my own I would have minimal contact with my parents. In fact my inability to remember to eat is why I still live with my parents.
Nah i don't find this to. be true reguardless of how much we love or hate our moms the love is always there it's the women who held as for 9 months and took care of us as newborns... But when another woman comes around she's nothing like that bond the mother created so. i highly doubt that can be seen as the same either ur a good person or your not
I dont think so, I know many guys that are a mama boys etc but when it comes to dating women they are aweful and sexist. I would say they copy the dad how he treats his wife
Usually. If he has “bad mommy” issues he’ll likely treat his woman likes she’s the devil too. My rule of thumb is is avoid men who don’t get along with true parents.
This is often true, but I have also seen where a guy treats his mother great, so great, that he takes his mother's side whenever there is a disagreement between his wife and his mother.
It truly depends, but in my cause I'll use myself as an example. I've had some trouble with my mom, nothing too serious but enough for me to move to my father. However my point is that I never treated women any worse, if anything it made me realise that they are more important than we realise. As I have come in my feud with my mother, I do have a bad relation to her, but I don't treat her bad, nor do I treat women badly.
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Not necessarily.
My mother spent her life running away from me and her responsibilities, leaving me to chase her in tears.
Thankfully, none of my girlfriends did this to me.
Reasearch shows that men look for the opposite of their mothers if they are on bad terms and same if theyre on good terms. As opposed to women. In other words if theyre on bad terms chances are the way he treats her is opposite of the way he will treat his woman, assuming he treats her bad based on the bad terms theyre on.
I disagree. Everyone is different and dont abide by the same stereotypes. I think a mans childhood and early adult friends have more influence then how they treat there mother. On top of that, I am a perfect example of how wrong this is. My early years I was a manwhore.
I have to disagree kind of. As some people said here, it depends more on what he treats EVERYONE like, so it's only accurate to an extent because a mother is part of that "everyone". You should actually look at how he gets (and got) treated by everyone before judging based on what he does now, there is often a story to be heard.
Well.. my mom ain't hoeing around so yeah imma treat my mother different than a lot of girls who are around me but when there are quality women around I will treat them with the respect they deserve ya feel? Like y'all girls gotta work for this respect besides the basic human respect of meeting a stranger
Omgggg it's soooo soooo true!!! good question! Now I hope you treat your mum nicely.. You better or no girl wants to be your wife 👍
P. S. Must be an Arab thing hey
One time I heard of a guy in my country who was dating a girl. Around him she was always pleasant, kind, and affectionate. Then one day he paid her an unexpected visit at home and found her treating her mother shabbily. It was an instant dealbreaker for him.
True for most men I've been with. One in particular showed it's not always the case. He was lovely, always helping his mum out with shopping, looking after his siblings, assembling furniture etc. But he treated me like dirt.
I disagree. Some people can be appear to perfect person in front of friends and family but it can be a completely different story behind closed doors.
Not really true. He learned coping skills and expectations when dealing with women from his mother, but most people are able to adapt to a new personalities and adjust their expectations when "real life" gets in the way.
Yes, I agree. A boy's first female role model is his mother. She endured at a minimum delivering and raising him to adulthood, despite ALL hardships. In addition, most mothers ALWAYS love their son NO MATTER WHAT and will SACRIFICE THEMSELF for their son!
So, why shouldn't a son owe a debt of respect and gratitude to his mother? Why shouldn't a son treat his mother as the Queen that she is?
If a man loves a woman then he should and will treat her as he treats/treated his mother.
I don't think so. I treat my mother with love and respect, but to me, my girlfriend is the most important person in my life. If I could remember to eat on my own I would have minimal contact with my parents. In fact my inability to remember to eat is why I still live with my parents.
Nah i don't find this to. be true reguardless of how much we love or hate our moms the love is always there it's the women who held as for 9 months and took care of us as newborns... But when another woman comes around she's nothing like that bond the mother created so. i highly doubt that can be seen as the same either ur a good person or your not
I dont think so, I know many guys that are a mama boys etc but when it comes to dating women they are aweful and sexist. I would say they copy the dad how he treats his wife
Usually. If he has “bad mommy” issues he’ll likely treat his woman likes she’s the devil too. My rule of thumb is is avoid men who don’t get along with true parents.
“Their parents”
Not necessarily. Some men are good to their mothers but cheat on their wives. I would say it’s a combination of both mom and dad.
This is often true, but I have also seen where a guy treats his mother great, so great, that he takes his mother's side whenever there is a disagreement between his wife and his mother.
Disagree I know many men who adore their mother but treat all the others as if they were slut.
It truly depends, but in my cause I'll use myself as an example. I've had some trouble with my mom, nothing too serious but enough for me to move to my father.
However my point is that I never treated women any worse, if anything it made me realise that they are more important than we realise.
As I have come in my feud with my mother, I do have a bad relation to her, but I don't treat her bad, nor do I treat women badly.
I think a better way to put this is if he treats his girl like a princess then he was raised by a queen 😊