It depends. I've been punched by a girlfriend in the face before, but she weighed 90 pounds and it hurt as much as you'd imagine (i. e. not at all); so, me punching her back would be over-kill, BUT I think it is reasonable to push her away, which may result in her falling. If the girl is significantly larger than you and is relentlessly attacking you (as a man) I think it is reasonable to fight back to the extent that her assault is stopped.
This is coming from my experience working as armed security in section 8 housing.
Would I retaliate back? Yes if I’m trying to get her off of me. If she keeps missing, then there’s no need for me to swing. The only women I’ve encountered that come fully swinging are drunk or are on drugs. Harder to deal with than a pissed off sane person on a power trip.
personally i could care less any kind of attention from a girl is hot even if i m put in ICU lol but have yet too meet a girl that could do that lol. i dont think guys should because unless she has a bat or some kind of training the worst she can do is smash your nuts or take an eye out. but i dont worry off pain since i have a high tolerance fr it. but most guys would maybe hit back but not me.
If the woman is being abusive and punching me then I will wait for her to draw blood and cause me the most physical damage as I'm intending on sending her ass to jail. She comes at me too hard I will defend myself within reason. Even if it takes knocking her out to defend myself. Physical abuse is never okay regardless of who is doing the abusing. If you disagree then that's fine. Im sure the white knights will go REE at this but come at me Bros.
I don't think anyone should be punching anyone. And a woman hitting a man isn't a threat to his life. If she does, by all means make her need plastic surgery. But let's be honest here: a typical 120 lbs girl is not going to do a lot of damage to a 200+ lbs dude. The threat isn't the same. So, push her away, restrain her, but don't pretend it's a threat on his life and he should found and pound Tito Ortiz style
So if I flick you in the eye is it not going to hurt or cause damage. It matters where you hit more than how hard. If she punches you and it causes you to trip you could hit your head and die or be seriously harmed.
Also if the guy and girl weight roughly the same are you fine with the idea of a guy hitting back?
My logic is if you don't want to get hit back don't hit someone in the first place. And if you do you have do live with the consequences.
I don't care what your logic is. This is a general statement. You can run what if scenarios in your journal all day. If one isn't posing a threat to you, as the average girl doesn't to the average guy, it doesn't make sense to hit back merely because she hit you. If she's intent on killing you alright go nuts. But generally speaking, principle of proportionality.
And if she does it once she is likely to do it again in the future. If you hit back she is less likely to hit you again. Basically, a hit today prevents a hit on the future.
I do believe a man should do his best to retreat first, but if retreat is not possible AND/OR unreasonable he should use whatever force is needed to end the situation, and ONLY WHAT is necessary to end the situation. I had a girl try this with me when I was in the military. When she went to punch me I just stuck my foot out, tripped her and walked away
1st of all till now no women dares to lay a hand on me and if a feminist did it, i'll hit her back or brake her arm, she will be in a very bad situation...
Now why did i say feminist? Because no respectful woman would ever think about laying her hand on a man who is a crown on her head.
@4eyes2mouths i do, while you don't because the definition of feminism today has changed a lot since it's creation and these little nagging fake female liars appear like angels while they are demons from inside.
I carry a fire extinguisher filled with concentrated packing foam for just this purpose. In my line of work women are constantly attacking me with edged weapons, which is where the fire extinguisher comes in as an excellent deterrent. You know what they say, squirt in a woman's face and she'll forgive you for anything.
No and not because it`s a woman but because he shouldn`t go so low to punch a person back. My response would be the same if it were two men fighting. I don`t believe violence is the answer. People want to talk about making the world a better place and to stop violence but then they support it as well (eye roll)
@Lucky1974 That is true but we're not talking about murder. That's different. I've been in situations where the possibility of me killing someone was real. This "do you think if a woman punches a man, he should punch her back" isn't one of those life or death situations.
I'm saying I don't believe violence is the answer because it shouldn't be. Sadly it is and I know that. I just think if I were a man and I got hit may it be from my sister, crazy girlfriend or ex or a stranger then I'd just walk away because hitting back would be a reaction out of anger and our of "getting back" at the person who started.
Also it's not nice to see people fight. Why not be the "bigger" person and walk away? This is a fight after all. The whole punching thing. If a woman was trying to murder a man then I'd definitely say the man should protect himself but again... we're not talking about murder and instead this is about punching.
Hello 530d. I hope for the sake of preventing misunderstandings you read my first message at the very top. When I gave the example of murder, I wasn’t implying murdering women, I was thinking of politicians, conglomerates, and shareholders who are running this planet and civilians six feet under.
No, but yes. In most cases it's easy to just stop (or hinder) (or ignore) that punching. I see exceptions: if that punch comes out of vicious intentions AND can be considered 'dangerous' ... she will bleed as much as a man would ( If I'm successful, that is ;) )
Absolutely. It would be self-defense while she is the attacker / suspect. I would definitely take her down if she got me first. Being a woman does not give her the right to attack men without facing consequences one way or another.
I have never done so. Although I did get slapped once or twice. Being stronger by far I did not feel threatened so I only took hold of her arms to prevent any others. Looking back on it now, answering your question, after so many years I find it funny to what extent I kept my cool, calmly asking "Ben je nu klaar?" Afterward I even told her that a fist should be made with the thumb on the outside. "this way you'll break it, silly".
Physical abuse is physical abuse. Just because it's a girl punching him doesn't mean she can't cause bodily harm. Granted, if he did something to deserve it, he should just take it. But if the woman started a fight and posed a threat to his physical well-being, there's no reason why a man cannot defend himself.
Anyone that picks a physical fight should expect to be beaten until they stop moving. Then they should expect to be arrested and charged with battery and go to jail for at least 30 days after they get their ass whooped.
At least most weak skinny guys understand that if you punch a grown man, you're gonna get your ass kicked. You ladies like to take your privilege for granted.
If you don't wanna catch hands, don't throw hands. I'll treat you exactly the same as a weak, scrawny man.
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No. As it says in "Are Women the Stronger Sex?", free from obooko, men usually have upper body strength stronger than women so a woman punching a man probably wouldn't be as hard as if a man hits a woman. Besides, if a woman hits a man, it's probably because he did something to her. Whereas, if a man hits a woman, it's often because she didn't "do as she was told" (what is she, a child?) or it's a means of controlling and intimidating her (which is abuse).
Shameful that other women are saying "no." If you abuse a man, he has a right to protect himself. Stop using our gender as a shield to protect yourself.
Depends. If she's harassing you and you need to defend yourself, hell yes punch the shit out of her what TF does she think of herself... Otherwise, it might be unnecessary and if it's unnecessary you better not do it.
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It depends. I've been punched by a girlfriend in the face before, but she weighed 90 pounds and it hurt as much as you'd imagine (i. e. not at all); so, me punching her back would be over-kill, BUT I think it is reasonable to push her away, which may result in her falling.
If the girl is significantly larger than you and is relentlessly attacking you (as a man) I think it is reasonable to fight back to the extent that her assault is stopped.
This is coming from my experience working as armed security in section 8 housing.
Would I retaliate back? Yes if I’m trying to get her off of me. If she keeps missing, then there’s no need for me to swing. The only women I’ve encountered that come fully swinging are drunk or are on drugs. Harder to deal with than a pissed off sane person on a power trip.
personally i could care less any kind of attention from a girl is hot even if i m put in ICU lol but have yet too meet a girl that could do that lol. i dont think guys should because unless she has a bat or some kind of training the worst she can do is smash your nuts or take an eye out. but i dont worry off pain since i have a high tolerance fr it. but most guys would maybe hit back but not me.
If the woman is being abusive and punching me then I will wait for her to draw blood and cause me the most physical damage as I'm intending on sending her ass to jail. She comes at me too hard I will defend myself within reason. Even if it takes knocking her out to defend myself. Physical abuse is never okay regardless of who is doing the abusing. If you disagree then that's fine. Im sure the white knights will go REE at this but come at me Bros.
I don't think anyone should be punching anyone. And a woman hitting a man isn't a threat to his life. If she does, by all means make her need plastic surgery. But let's be honest here: a typical 120 lbs girl is not going to do a lot of damage to a 200+ lbs dude. The threat isn't the same. So, push her away, restrain her, but don't pretend it's a threat on his life and he should found and pound Tito Ortiz style
So if I flick you in the eye is it not going to hurt or cause damage. It matters where you hit more than how hard. If she punches you and it causes you to trip you could hit your head and die or be seriously harmed.
Also if the guy and girl weight roughly the same are you fine with the idea of a guy hitting back?
My logic is if you don't want to get hit back don't hit someone in the first place. And if you do you have do live with the consequences.
I don't care what your logic is. This is a general statement. You can run what if scenarios in your journal all day. If one isn't posing a threat to you, as the average girl doesn't to the average guy, it doesn't make sense to hit back merely because she hit you. If she's intent on killing you alright go nuts. But generally speaking, principle of proportionality.
And if she does it once she is likely to do it again in the future. If you hit back she is less likely to hit you again. Basically, a hit today prevents a hit on the future.
I do believe a man should do his best to retreat first, but if retreat is not possible AND/OR unreasonable he should use whatever force is needed to end the situation, and ONLY WHAT is necessary to end the situation. I had a girl try this with me when I was in the military. When she went to punch me I just stuck my foot out, tripped her and walked away
1st of all till now no women dares to lay a hand on me and if a feminist did it, i'll hit her back or brake her arm, she will be in a very bad situation...
Now why did i say feminist? Because no respectful woman would ever think about laying her hand on a man who is a crown on her head.
I don't think you understand the definition of feminism.
@4eyes2mouths i do, while you don't because the definition of feminism today has changed a lot since it's creation and these little nagging fake female liars appear like angels while they are demons from inside.
What is the definition then?
@4eyes2mouths read about the early 60's to 70's feminism
No. What is "your" definition.
@4eyes2mouths my definition is that i don't believe in feminism...
Just because you don't want to believe in something doesn't mean the definition doesn't exist or has changed. You're an idiot.
Now you choose to not respect all women that are feminists (that you don't believe in.) Lol ok bud.
I carry a fire extinguisher filled with concentrated packing foam for just this purpose. In my line of work women are constantly attacking me with edged weapons, which is where the fire extinguisher comes in as an excellent deterrent. You know what they say, squirt in a woman's face and she'll forgive you for anything.
No and not because it`s a woman but because he shouldn`t go so low to punch a person back. My response would be the same if it were two men fighting. I don`t believe violence is the answer. People want to talk about making the world a better place and to stop violence but then they support it as well (eye roll)
Your statement “J don’t think violence is the answer”, is a sweeping generalisation; in some cases even murder can be perfectly justified.
@Lucky1974 That is true but we're not talking about murder. That's different. I've been in situations where the possibility of me killing someone was real. This "do you think if a woman punches a man, he should punch her back" isn't one of those life or death situations.
I'm saying I don't believe violence is the answer because it shouldn't be. Sadly it is and I know that. I just think if I were a man and I got hit may it be from my sister, crazy girlfriend or ex or a stranger then I'd just walk away because hitting back would be a reaction out of anger and our of "getting back" at the person who started.
Also it's not nice to see people fight. Why not be the "bigger" person and walk away?
This is a fight after all. The whole punching thing. If a woman was trying to murder a man then I'd definitely say the man should protect himself but again... we're not talking about murder and instead this is about punching.
Hello 530d. I hope for the sake of preventing misunderstandings you read my first message at the very top. When I gave the example of murder, I wasn’t implying murdering women, I was thinking of politicians, conglomerates, and shareholders who are running this planet and civilians six feet under.
No, but yes.
In most cases it's easy to just stop (or hinder) (or ignore) that punching.
I see exceptions: if that punch comes out of vicious intentions AND can be considered 'dangerous' ... she will bleed as much as a man would ( If I'm successful, that is ;) )
Ignore doesn't solve attitude problems 😉
@crazy8000 True. With 'ignore' I rather tried to say (but failed to :) ) that I don't respond to the punch itself.
Absolutely. It would be self-defense while she is the attacker / suspect. I would definitely take her down if she got me first. Being a woman does not give her the right to attack men without facing consequences one way or another.
I have never done so. Although I did get slapped once or twice. Being stronger by far I did not feel threatened so I only took hold of her arms to prevent any others.
Looking back on it now, answering your question, after so many years I find it funny to what extent I kept my cool, calmly asking "Ben je nu klaar?"
Afterward I even told her that a fist should be made with the thumb on the outside. "this way you'll break it, silly".
Physical abuse is physical abuse. Just because it's a girl punching him doesn't mean she can't cause bodily harm. Granted, if he did something to deserve it, he should just take it. But if the woman started a fight and posed a threat to his physical well-being, there's no reason why a man cannot defend himself.
Anyone that picks a physical fight should expect to be beaten until they stop moving. Then they should expect to be arrested and charged with battery and go to jail for at least 30 days after they get their ass whooped.
Everyone speaks for equality... Why here should be different
Very very true
At least most weak skinny guys understand that if you punch a grown man, you're gonna get your ass kicked. You ladies like to take your privilege for granted.
If you don't wanna catch hands, don't throw hands. I'll treat you exactly the same as a weak, scrawny man.
No. As it says in "Are Women the Stronger Sex?", free from obooko, men usually have upper body strength stronger than women so a woman punching a man probably wouldn't be as hard as if a man hits a woman. Besides, if a woman hits a man, it's probably because he did something to her. Whereas, if a man hits a woman, it's often because she didn't "do as she was told" (what is she, a child?) or it's a means of controlling and intimidating her (which is abuse).
Right because violence against males doesn't exists. Sure!
Don't punch him if you don't want him to punch back as easy as that. If you dont want to get hurt then don't hurt him lol
Shameful that other women are saying "no." If you abuse a man, he has a right to protect himself. Stop using our gender as a shield to protect yourself.
Depends. If she's harassing you and you need to defend yourself, hell yes punch the shit out of her what TF does she think of herself... Otherwise, it might be unnecessary and if it's unnecessary you better not do it.