That's cute. With the kissing and hugging in public, just be careful that you guys don't start catching feelings :p
When I had a friends with benefits, we would hangout a lot since we played video games together and text each other almost everyday too. Like we were very close friend. but we never kissed or anything. We acted as friends in public. And once or twice a week, I'd go to his place and we would have sex lol but we would never cuddle, or kiss or anything. Was just sex.
The last one I had we barley spoken unless he wanted sex or I did. I’m pretty sure we went like 2 months without speaking at one point.
I’ve never had that kinda closeness with any of my past ones. We would check in on each other and set up the next meeting but nothing else. When those things happen feelings get involved and difficult conversations might need to be bad because lines got blurred.
Everyday, she's my wife, she my best friend, and she brings benefits to the relationship.
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Your question is today's 2nd Question of the Day illustrating that Friends With Benefits is an illusion because eventually one of them will get emotionally involved as if in a couple.
It's not a question of "if" it's going to happen, but "when".
If it is any consolation, in December 1988 just before I turned 26, I was involved in this intense 2.5 week F W B situation (*) with my roommate. I was very emotionally involved, but, for her, I was just a convenient lay between more "serious BF"s.
So, was I a stupid fool? Yes and no. I knew better, but I wanted what I got into and paid the price. I learned through The School of Hard Knocks just like you are...
(*) This is long before "Friends With Benefits" became "a thing". No one said that 30+ years ago let alone thought it because it would be considered an embarrassment to sink to that level. Apparently, being a slut or manwhore doesn't matter in today's "hook-up culture".
We kept it to ourselves in public but hung out we smoked and eventually if it lead to sex hey it did we felt comfortable with each other we check in on each other so ur not alone on the hang outs and checking in it's just you are friends but find a sexual appeal to em
Did he decide the friends with benefits situation or did you? Because yeah we hang out but the endgame always ends in sex. That's the entire point.
Yep, and before you know it you will start to get feelings for him and that's where it gets ugly. Bad idea.
At least every 2-3 days and sometimes every day. It just depends on our schedules. And for context, we only meet up 3 or 4 times a month, due to schedules.
The type of thing you´re describing is exactly what I would like. Now I´m jealous! lol
Why wouldn't you exclusively date. I dont get it...
That is basically what I think most people want lol, the intimacy, attention, and physical relief of a relationship but without the pressure
I don't know. your situation same as mine. maybe it's normal.
I feel like it is more of an intense relationship than friend with benefits..
This isn't even a friends with benefits this is just dating
You are basically friends without benefits
Or both afraid to call yourself a couple
It sounds more like a non exclusive relationship to me. But it’s cool
When I did have one, we only met to fuck and only texted to meet. I like this arrangement.
Sounds more like a boyfriend
That's how mine have been.
Talk to him every day see each other once a week.
Depends on which one
@Taylor_c I'm down for a friends with benefits
Ahaha right
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