What does it mean when your guy friend cares a lot about what you think of him and is sensitive to what you say to him?

[Anonymous]

Should a guy friend be that sensitive? There are moments we are playing around with each other a lot. But he will get in his feelings easily when I say something mean

[Stephanielongoria]

Just so you know man have feelings they are capable of getting theyre feelings hurt too. Man are not robots they are humans just like you. What makes you think that us woman we can say such awful comments or act disrespectful only because he is a guy you think he should suck it up not cry and be a man. No in my opinion it is okay for man to cry and expressed they're emotions. Hiw would you feel if your guy friend tells you that woman are only good for cooking cleaning and not working be a stay home wife take care of the house chores. Or for example if you dont want sex but you have to have sex only because your husband obligates you. I' m not being rude or anything it just that we need to take consideration that man are humans too and are capable of having feelings and expressed emotions. Expressing emotions talking taking it out helps a lot and it's good for your mental health to. Just take some time to think about it.

[Asker]

Oh I totally agree !

[Account]

Some people are just sensitive. I have noticed other people's answers claiming that he is into you and... well he might be, but that is completely irrelevant to what we are saying.

I used to be the same way as him, till I stopped. I don't miss it at all.

[ColHathi]

Okay hold up. I'm seeing other comments suggesting that he must be into you, and he could well be, but he doesn't have to be into you to be sensitive to what you say or tease him with. He may just have hit a limit and can't take too much of that stuff anymore for whatever reason. I'm the same way. That's not to say that you can't joke and insult each other in jest, just make sure that there's an understanding between you.

[Asker]

Yeah there hasn’t been an understanding lmao

[SeniorK]

Guys have emotions too, and to discount that is absolutely harmful. When he shows sensitivity, that's a perfectly normal, healthy behavior. The reason you don't see that in a lot of guys is because the world is hostile to guys who do, as they don't fit the mold of the stoic rocks that tradition has said guys should be. Without this interference, guys would show more emotion if they weren't vilified for doing so.

[Asker]

Hm, great feedback. I understand. I’m learning that, I guess when you aren’t use to seeing a guy that way you forget or don’t take it into account that they have emotions

[KrakenAttackin]

"Should a guy friend be that sensitive"? Let's be real, this guy is a friend-zone-bench guy who wants to be with you, but you keep him benched.

To be direct, NO, he should not give a shit what you think or do.

[Asker]

What if he talks about hook ups with women generally speaking? Even still? lol I mean openly

[KrakenAttackin]

What does he get so sensitive about? He is probably talking about "hookups" to try to get you jealous.

[Asker]

He will get sensitive about If I tease him too much he will not like it lmao he wIll get in his feelings but if he does it to me, different story. And he will talk about how women only like him for his dick and don’t care for his personality lmao

[Avicenna]

There is somewhat of an overlap in feelings you have even for a platonic same-sex friend.

[Asker]

I gotcha.

[Laozi]

Some people are too sensitive. But when it comes to opposite-sex friendship then chances are that one of them has feelings (more than just friendship) for the other person.

[justjared]

I'm sensitive at times, he mite be insecure about things. My zodiac sign is cancer tho so it makes sense for me to be in my head

[Asker]

Yeah he is, cares about my approval

[Stephanielongoria]

And that's okay to be sensitive man are humans too.

[Asker]

Yes they are

[justjared]

My ex loved it about me. We didn't qork b. c of distance and how life panned out.

[Asker]

I like a guy who can express how he feels

[justjared]

Understand that growing up a lot of guys are told not to show emotions

[Asker]

I think that’s crazy and psychologically disturbing

[justjared]

It is! Its seen as a sign of weakness (well was) a lot of dudes would call me gay and soft. Ultimately idc I will speak my mind to my gfs and if I want to cry I will 🤷🏾‍♂️

[DiscomfortZone]

It means guys aren't made of stone, congratulations on the shocking revelation. If you can't help abusing him for your own twisted pleasure - cut hum loose.

[Asker]

I don’t. Lol at all by the way. I joke around but even with jokes I’m explaining.

[Stephanielongoria]

You are absolutely right , I agree with you're statement.

[kenFold]

So he gives a shit... probably just not used to that from a guy.. I bet all your boyfriends only cared about getting you on your back.

[Asker]

Lol the assumption. No sir the ones that I pursued did not.

[jaxthedog]

He likes you and wants to be more than friends

[Asker]

lol ok, because I tread lightly knowing he will feel some type of way. Because he will make fun all day and then when I start , he doesn’t like it lmao

[jaxthedog]

Yeah i used to be like that make fun of girls thinking i was teasing them and when they would say something back I'd get all booty hurt. Maybe that he's doing

[Asker]

Lmao yes ! Exactly ! It is so annoying so I keep my mouth shut and sit there.

[jaxthedog]

Don't clap back keep doing it until he stops or be as blunt as you can and tell him if he has feelings for you and tell him if you do or don't

[Asker]

Ok. Thanks for the advice

[yourpsychosuburban]

He like you, I can tell from experience

[Asker]

He cares lol I see

[yourpsychosuburban]

Exactlyy

[Asker]

Acts like he doesn’t sweat it but then says something back lmao

[Asker]

What about even if we discuss other people? Like guys or girls sexually. It doesn’t matter?

[yourpsychosuburban]

Trust me girl, that's just a cover up

[Asker]

Lmao gotcha. Cause he was mentioning his sexual fetish and all when he wants to fuck. I was like interesting

[GOOSEBOY78]

its because he loves you. DOY!

[Browneye57]

A girlie-man. See, they get no respect!

[Stephanielongoria]

What exactly do you mean girlie man and why?

[Asker]

Lol I wouldn’t call him that.. at all

[Asker]

Stephanie, your thoughts to my question?

[Stephanielongoria]

So you belive only because I'm a female should stay home and take care of the house chores.

[Asker]

Lol no, is that for me? Or him?

[Stephanielongoria]

No swetie thats for him lol

[Stephanielongoria]

You are okay girl were cool.

[Asker]

Lol ok, and my through are completely yours. You are preaching to the choir !

[Browneye57]

You dipshits can't even spell. And you don't know anything about men or women, or relationship dynamics. Either shut up and listen, or go pound sand.

[Asker]

Lmao man shut the hell up

[Stephanielongoria]

Girl don't let it get to you. Lets report him for unacceptable behavior. He is rude and unconcedaret.

[Stephanielongoria]

Girl he wants to upset us it's what he wants dont let him get to you.

[Stephanielongoria]

Girl he hates young people like us so just ignore him.

[Asker]

Lmao I sure will. Just ignorance

[Browneye57]

Dear god children. STFU and get out of here. You're clueless.

[Stephanielongoria]

Ok boomer if you say so lol He is so triggered itsbfunny lets have fun and make him angry lmao

[Browneye57]

@Stephanielongoria - Okay fucktard. You just can't get any dumber can you? You keep proving it over and over. And your little shaming tactics are just silly. IDGAF

[Asker]

Lmaooo he’s so upset

[Browneye57]

You don't know jackshit about me. For you bimbos to actually think I give two shits simply shows how dimwitted you are. Try to imagine how little I care. Your narcissism is so common. Guys hate that and now we know why you can't land a great guy.
Oh well, instead of coming here to learn something you spew your stupid bullshit. What a waste.
Bye bye... have fun.

[Asker]

lol. I’m a narcissist? Why are you still talking? Is it that serious.

[Stephanielongoria]

He says he doesn't care but apprently he does lol. Why because he keeps replying back LMAS His so triggered lol If he so mature why is he getting so angry at our comments lol. He won't won't be very long here he needs to go play bingo in room at the nursing home he is lol.

[Stephanielongoria]

Yeah yeah yeah lmao. This is so funny he is actually taking our comments so serious that he got so triggered. Funny thing someone that is old enough to be our grandpa is angry. Its not our fault that the nurses aren't taking carebof him at whatever nursing home his in. Lol Grandpa is so angry.

[Stephanielongoria]

Oh Im a fucktard lol Keep getting more upset you will have more wrinkles. Your facevis full of wrinkles as it is lol. okay grandpa if you say so lol

[Stephanielongoria]

Okay grandpa go play bingo lol

[Asker]

Dyinggg

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t know?

[Asker]

Lmao then why the comment?

[Opinion Owner]

Cuz I can

[Asker]

Lol must be bored

[Opinion Owner]

Like you

[Asker]

Nah lol

[honestGUY45]

Snowflake.