Do men get butterflies over women?

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MrOracle · Accepted Answer

I think the answer is "yes", but I think it's less often than for women by a healthy margin. And that's because males are built and designed and evolved differently, to be "sex-first" rather than "romantic-first." That doesn't mean that we don't have romantic feelings or excitement feelings or "butterflies" - it just means that we're much more likely to experience sexual arousal or at least sexual interest in situations where women are more likely to be "emotionally aroused" or "relationship-aroused." In order to get the butterflies, a girl has to REALLY "click" with us in a way that very few do - and it's different girls for different guys.

ChiTown33 · Accepted Answer

Not for a couple years and only once in the last 20. I've learned i can't trust my heart it frequently lies to me. I try to keep my heart out of it for as long as possible and just use my head. And if i can't see, touch, taste, or hear it then it doesn't exist.

NalleBabyBoysss · Answer

Yes i think it's exactly the same for boys and girls 🤔 We get butterflies too, we try just as hard to impress a girl (but we just don't admit to it) and we think about when is the perfect timing to call this girl you went on 1 really good date with because we want to call like the day after but that's to needy while the girl is thinking oh he don't like me cause it took him like a week to call 😂

ButtaGrey · Answer

I’ve always had a saying that love isn’t butterflies in the stomach, for it’s never been a feeling. Those spicy, cheesy nachos and that bottle of wine can replicate those same
feelings. But to address the question at hand, guys do get and experience nervousness,
including sweaty palms and stomach turnings in anticipation of liking a woman or girl.

Akshayjosh · Answer

Yes.. I get butterflies if a woman is knowingly touching me, knowingly comes near to me, knowingly becomes clingy, and my heart races even fast when I know I can get her in the bed at that very moment 😄😄.

I recall slowly as I unhooked the top of a girl on my first date.
Knowing that she wanted me at that very instance

smb930 · Answer

Like, nervous energy? Hell yes! I've locked up and couldn't talk at times.

One time was so awkward, I just avoided this girl that I know had interest in me. I finally built up enough strength to approach her, but by that time, she realized I couldn't talk to her. I fear I broke her heart, and I feel terrible. Hope I can reconcile with her, no hard feelings.

lucas262 · Answer

1st time i asked a girl out Victoria was her name, i worked over at the registers and her in the sandwhich shop

Walked up asked to a movie, knees shaking Sooo nervous

Hee answer was ,, NO!,,

I was like ugh walk away don't make it more awkward

torgor67 · Answer

Yep sometimes if they are really attracted to the woman then they can have loads of butterflies and you probably can tell in the way they act around you or their voice my get nervous. Certainly some do yep!

Lliam · Answer

Oh yeah. Especially when I asked someone out for the first time or before a first date. Also when it looks like we are going to make love for the first time.

EmbraceThePain · Answer

I think men feel something different.  I think women might feel butterflies over men, but I think men feel something around lust and protectiveness.

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

Yes, all the time. Especially if a woman openly and obviously flirts with me and/or compliments me. First kiss on the cheek: major butterflies First time tying me up: major butterflies :P

cush_ebo · Answer

I used to about girl of my childhood that I use to know on school. After travelling a lot, I was still like damn, I need to send them some gifts to maintain the dialogue, but no I realize, it's not going to open her mind to me. So I left.

SpiritBear · Answer

remember please. "Men" is a broad term, and all men are different, and also people. So if women are at all any sort of way, chances are, some men are that too.

ManOnFire · Answer

Hell yeah. If I'm really, really into her, yes I get butterflies.

Spyke_34 · Answer

Yes we do! I get them a lot with my girl, whenever I see her, when she sends me pics, msgs, calls me etc, it's an amazing feeling to get, along with the racing heart beat etc

bodukem · Answer

They can it just doesn't happen as often for men as it does for women

Reaperbot666 · Answer

if there is a physical, mental and emotional attraction to her. then sure I believe it is possible.

Thatsamazing · Answer

Only if they're hot/pretty. Guys are not intimidated by females for any reason other than physical attractiveness.

dracodragon · Answer

I do, I can't speak for other dudes, but I still do, and I've been with my wife for 9 years.

Juxtapose · Answer

Oh hell yeah! Especially if the woman can whisper pervy things tome, touch my face, etc. I love flirty women who know how to make me blush lol.

justcurious2019 · Answer

i have once girl i used to work with i can't seem to forget about her i would get butterflies a lot when i saw her each day

JCoole87 · Answer

Ohh yeah! Butterflies, heart skips a beat, heart in throat... stupidly smiling when I get a text.

Tunasub · Answer

Very much so... we are human just like women. Just have different parts.

OpenNudist · Answer

I wouldn't call them Butterflies, so much as an Upset stomach

jhnny1331 · Answer

Yes I did for my wife and did for seventeen years till she passed now I just die a little each day

Nerdvana · Answer

Yes, at least I do. We are no different than women. We get nervous too.

Guardian45 · Answer

As for me, f you are asking if women can stress men out, then answer is HELL YES!👍

Jerre · Answer

I can’t recall ever having butterflies over a woman

888theGreat · Answer

First date and she looks like a super model? Of course they do. You think we are machines?

cashmere_citizen · Answer

Yes!! Actually, even seeing her name is sometimes enough to trigger it.

dirty1620 · Answer

I do/have but it all depends on my feelings for the female

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

I used to get earlier.. now I dont.. I only get an erection

Sbeve3 · Answer

Yes, most often in the begging if I'm really attracted to her

Anonymous · Answer

Butterflies and pissed off. They only want other men. No point trying when they refuse to be my type

Celtero · Answer

Not since I was 13. These days? Fuck women.

Harness · Answer

more like electric shock

Avicenna · Answer

Something similar, yes

Purpul · Answer

Absolutely! Over the one he really wants.

Nik1hil · Answer

Yes.. We all do! . But we overcome it..

testtickle · Answer

Always have and always will

es20490446e · Answer

From most women what I get is worries.

Unit1 · Answer

Absolutely! 👩👩👩😍😍😍

LEADFOOTboi · Answer

yup, we do... if we really feelin it

Wealthydentist · Answer

If she’s the right woman

pocketman · Answer

men don't get butterflies, we get boners.

QueenOfBaku · Answer

I hate that butterfly feeling

Twalli · Answer

I do whenever my girlfriend is coming over

Fuentes · Answer

Only if u give me top

Rudon00 · Answer

Yes I do if I'm really attracted to her

jaybigj · Answer

Yes, I did over my most recent ex.

BeMuse · Answer

Nope.

Silvius · Answer

Not really, but good emotions

discotony · Answer

It's obvious, dumb question soz

ziggyb · Answer

sure in the beginning

Anonymous · Answer

Butterflies or Murder Hornets?

Anonymous · Answer

Most times it's not butterflies, it's diarrhea.

sensible27 · Answer

Sometimes...

Lemia · Answer

Yes i do

Josephx760 · Answer

They can depends.

Prof_Don · Answer

Yes we do! 😉

Arjunaguy · Answer

Yeah always

R3DthatDude · Answer

Definitely

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