Pretty sure Hubby is happy being a man.
"Y’all don’t get to enjoy cute things or dress up nice and cute"? Hubby has nice things, not cute but nice. I doubt he secretly wants anything cute, except for me of course.
"you don’t get to express your emotions in a healthy way" He is definitely more reserved in his expressions of emotion, but he for sure has them and displays them in a more reserved manner. Rarely, but every once in while, he will let them out. It's best to not to contradict him at that moment, in my experience.
"experience motherhood" Well they have fatherhood, so...
"and you’re lustful" I kind of like him that way, I can be lustful over him as well.
"and angry And violent in an animalistic way" everyone can be.
"and at the end of the day us women make the rules" not in our house, we are both adults and treat each other with respect.
and people, male or female, care about us more and treat us better. On a societal level, maybe true in some instances and not in others. I our home, that is not how we treat each other.
"Maybe y’all so sexist because you’re the inferior ones." Probably should take a hard look in the mirror if you think someone is inferior, male or female, because of their gender. There is good and bad people of both gender, and more than enough sexist people on both sides of the gender equation.
First I have to say not all men are sexist.
However I do believe that women get a lot of things men don't. There's no such thing as guy's night where guys get discounts on drinks at the club. There's really no way for a guy to change up his look because most men's clothing all looks similar, not to mention that when a guy does try to look "cute" he usually gets picked on by his friends. Women almost all think that men are just varying degrees of a predator. Women can break down and let their emotions out but it's totally socially unacceptable if a guy can't keep things together. Heaven forbid if there was a group, like the feminists, to stand up for men's rights. In cases of abortion the man has absolutely no say in whether or not the baby gets to live, but if the woman decides to have the baby regardless of what the man wants she can take him to court and get child support. In cases of divorce and custody of children women are far more heavily favored to get custody than the men are. And that's just what I can think of off the top of my head.
You make some interesting points, apparently listed from worst to best.
Enjoy cuter things? No. Guys simply don't enjoy those things the way you do.
Express emotions? Guys express emotions all the time, they just either go unnoticed, or are emotions that women don't approve of. That doesn't make them less sincere or less real.
Motherhood? No, but many guys do want fatherhood, which can and should go along with motherhood.
Lustful and angry? Someone needs to be, and plenty of women are too.
Testosterone probably makes you less violent, ironically enough.
But at the end of the day, as you say, both men and women care more about women, and men notice, and more than a few of us come to resent it. Even envy it.
But inferior? Men and women need each other, complement each other, and sexual dimorphism will always lean one way or the other in terms of advantage.
Talk of female supremacy, superiority, and male inferiority is pretty hot in bed, at least for some of us, but that doesn't mean we take it seriously.
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I'm not sure about all of the guys but yeah some guys can be emotional and we do enjoy cute things too but sometimes it is hard to express those emotions as they have to maintain that "Manly" attitude which stops them from expressing the cute gesture... it can be a stupid way of thinking but guys do think that way... at least among the other guys or else they'd think that he's too "girly" (Maybe you can call it as sexist I don't know about that lol)
Hmm... well... no, I don't think that's the point. It's not that we "don't get" to "dress up nice and cute," it's that... we simply don't *want* to. So we don't. And of course we "get to" express our emotions in a healthy way, if we choose to. We often just choose not to. And lol we don't *want* to experience motherhood. What the hell are you even talking about with that? Guys experience *fatherhood.* Right. By that logic, shouldn't you be upset that you don't get to experience fatherhood? No, because you get to experience motherhood! If you want, anyway.
"Maybe y’all so sexist because you’re the inferior ones." Lol oh sis. You're adorable.
No we don't because...
1. We don't want to enjoy cute things. We are strong and we enjoy that feeling of power.
2. We don't have as much strong emotions to express as women do.
3. We experience fatherhood which is the same as motherhood without the bad parts.
4. We are horny more times than women, yes but that is what our hands and porn are for.
5. That animalistic way is great to feel! No really, we take pride on it.
6. You say that women make the rules because?
7. Yes they also abuse you and beat you up more. I always felt lucky in being a guy.
Nope, personally i dont like to dress up but i do enjoy my fair share of cute things, sure most guys are raised to not show emotions but myself im pro emotion for guys, we're all driven by emotions shouldn't hide them, im not exactly lustful and haven't been angry in nearly 5 years.
The reasons why guys to those things is because, growing we're told to "man up" punished for showing emotions by adults across the board simply because you're a boy and somehow its fine to teach boys to suppress emotions and be stoic.
Fuck that shit! If i watch a ssd movie imma cry, nothing going to stop me, showing and expressing emotions isn't weakness. Hiding and burying them is
Personally no, I can't speak for other men, but I've never woke up and wished I was a woman. Also, guys can be emotional, but many don't feel the need to express them because we're not emotional as much as females. I think that's a strength. If you want a guy to express his emotions more then there is a chance he just doesn't have anything to express at the moment.
I'm pretty content with being privileged in society, though I wish that life was fairer for everyone that I share the world with. I'm not sure about emotions and motherhood, but having balls is a colossal pain in the ass.
you do you, dont bother yourself with me doing me just as its no concern of mine what you do
thats my take on it
I don't feel inferior regarding clothes, the fact that men commit most crimes makes me feel bad somewhat, though of course I consider abortion to be wrong and women thus are committing a lot of murder in my eyes.
I've never in my life felt inferior to anyone male or female. I am fully content with being a male.
It's clear that you're the one feeling inferior. Submit to a strong man and make yourself happy.
Yawn. Look up "Hasty Generalization" and get back to us.
for me a slight yes in 1 way and you did not list it. women get to much control in picking sex partners.
Women are physically inferior and arguably not more intelligent than men. All you have on your side is sex appeal, which fades.
I wanted to say that I actually like it too, but it kinda sounds like you have a problem with guys...
I don't mainly because I am an "A" type Personality with 23 years of military experience. And professional consulting experience
what. Don't bring me into this. I have nothing to do with those disgusting selfish skin suits.
Sounds like someone just wants to rant
Do think all men think the same way as you about their manhood. We're pretty fond of being men.
I think you're projecting here.
Oh, fuck no. You're projecting again.
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