Is checking out other women normal guy behavior or the behavior of a cheater? (Page 3)
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I think its natural for the eyes to automatically have a glance or perhaps look at someone attractive. I'm sure sometimes even for women in a committed relationship might not be able to keep their eyes away from a good looking man passing by. If you truly love your SO, you'll think of them even when you see an attractive person. Its not conclusive whether checking out a person is normal or the behaviour of a cheater since everyone is different.
An ass is an ass, tits are tits. If a women wears revealing clothing, mens eyes tend to veer towards those areas. Men are just naturally attracted to those things. As long as he doesn't initiate physical contact or talk to her in a sexual manner, i'd say it's fine. To be honest, even if they're just wearing jeans or a normal shirt, i catch myself having some occasional glances. If you're uncomfortable with it, just talk to him about it. It won't necessarily mean he'll stop though.
girls listen to this - it is normal, let him do it, or he will sneak around with other girls and do more than look at them
For guys it's simply a reflex action. Sexy bitch walk by their head turns automatically. Nothing to do about it and it doesn't mean that he don't want you
I think it’s normal to look at somebody and admit they’re attractive, but that doesn’t necessarily mean you want a relationship or anything with them! It’s normal, but you’re kind of a dick if you openly do it often or if you do it in front of your s/o
I feel like looking is normal. People look at stuff all the time. But I think staring is rude. A glance is normal, and even to just look and appreciate it briefly is normal. But to stare blatantly or to keep eyeing the woman is showing that he wants to talk to her not just look but wants her attention. If he continues to look at a woman while with me it is rude
is looking at other womens purses and shoes normal female behavior? I think we are ALL striving for "stimulation".. it's free catalyst to stimulation... except for monks who are fully satisfied in all moments of life.
and thus muslims cover up the women so other men don't look. Jewish hide their women at home.
I cannot help women with their shoe envy...
Well most of us will try to avoid being obvious, but yeah we all do it
But why? I never do this why the hell are guys like this?
There is no “why”, its not a conscious action. Why are you so bothered by it?
I don't know it’s just a bit disrespectful and since i don’t do it i don’t understand lol if thsi were to happen to me though I would pretend that nothing happend but feel sad inside
I never check guys out.
I’m loyal as hell lol and the only man that is attractive to me is my boyfriend no one else
It's unrealistic for any individual to not find another attractive even if they're taken. Doesn't matter if you're a girl or a guy... attractive people are attractive.. don't lie to yourself or to your SO. Finding another person attractive other than your SO doesn't mean they'll cheat, don't let an insecurity get the best of you.
everyone notices other people that are attractive that nature. It`s when they act which is the, no, no, when I walk down the street I really doo notice women with their men giving me a quick eye flick. or the 1000 yard stare as they walk past quite flattering.
it's normal tbf however when it starts becoming more a case of moving beyond just looking and actually making more direct and physical plans then you need to dump that guy's ass straight away cos that behaviour is more a sign of you getting replaced
If a girl catches his eye and he glances her way that’s very normal as guys a visually stimulated. If he glances more than one or for an extended roof of time (say more than 5 seconds) he’s letting his mind go too far.
If I had a girlfriend, I would not be checking out other Women/ Girls?
It's normal to look, staring is bad but if he looks, you call him upon it and yet he denies it... that's a problem. He should just apologize for it and then it'd be fine.
It's normal for a guy to have an urge to look at a woman or check her out. It can even be so that he will glance before he notices and looks away. The difference is in weather he chooses to control himself or not
Normal guy behavior. To what extent, or how obvious, varies wildly.
Come on it's natural. Women do it too. If someone grabs your attention you're not being honest if you don't at least take a peek and see what they are all about that they would grab your attention. It doesn't mean you're a cheater at all. You're just human
It’s kinda like window shopping you can look but not touch or buy
It's only natural to look. Long as it doesn't go past just looking. Women look at other men too. They'd be lying if they said they didn't.
I said essentially the exact same thing and got down voted by wemon.
All I said was it's natural and wemon do it too xD
Those women are probably the clingy ones who track their partner with GPS apps 😂
Well it makes me feel good that a woman have me conversation xD
I even posted a pole of my own to ask wemon if they do...
I got 5 vote... 3 said they would never... And 2 said "other"
2 comments that said they wouldn't but after asking a few questions pretty much progress they did... They were just making excuses about y when they did it, it didn't count...
I'll have a conversation with anyone who is nice enough to talk, and won't be offended by my own opinions etc, so thank you.
Sorry typo. But yes I also enjoy the conversation xD
It was supposed to say "conformation"
😂 No worries.
If I’m alone I check out men. If I’m with him, I wouldn’t ever give a second glance ever.