Well that happens if someone has something interesting about them, that you;ll look at them. But honesty as a guy, even if it's glance. We will look at an attractive woman differently than a non attractive woman. And I hear women say "well I'll notice a pretty woman" It's funny the difference for straight guys. I'm secure that I can acknowledge if a guy is handsome. Niners Jimmy Garrapolo is a good looking guy. But if a dude that would be seen as very good looking walk by me and my girl, I'd hardly notice and the reason is very obvious. Pretty, or hot girl walking by, especially if she got a nice ass in like yoga pants. I wouldn't be a jerk and turn my heard, but I'd definitely notice her. I and men, our attention is very selective where it's mostly sexual related if we're looking vs women who seem to look at anyone that is pretty. Women sure have freedom from their hormones or at least compared to guys.
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Lol illustare got on there twice And I was asking not telling you , if you look at other people while out 😊
Why the hell are guys like this? I would never do this to my boyfriend the fuck.
Well if you really want me to go into the genetics and brain activity of it I can lol
Please explain i don’t understand why are guys like this? Is it because they find the girl more attractive than they’re girlfriend thank God I've never been through this because I’m already an insecure person I’ll get sad as hell lol
If a guy says that you’re the only girl that is attractive to them are they lying?
Alright so basically when it comes down to it, a guy's brain is usually looking out for multiple partners because that's common in the animal kingdom. Whether it a guy or a girl in a species, most are looking for multiple to have the greatest number of offspring. If this competition didn't exist, every species would be like a panda bear, which are too lazy to have sex lol. So in humans, guys are looking for multiple partners, usually. There are situations where a guy could think a girl is more beautiful, I mean we can't all have our top picks either because again you would run into multiple partners everywhere. I would also argue if a guy says you are the only one he finds attractive that may be true. Most guys when they start dating a girl realize that they like being in a relationship more than just trying to have sex with every girl they come across, which can be complicated in itself. Did that help answer some questions?
Yeah I guess but guys that want more girls than the one that they’re with are assholes honestly but stating for a second isn’t the worst thing
I'm just saying it is human nature. The whole point of consciousness is that you are able to fight that nature. If guys don't, then you have a problem. So while I agree they are assholes, you can't blame them too much for their inability to fight against it.
Are you talking about checking girls out or cheating? Because if a guy cheats he’s scum lol that’s a fact
No no I'm talking about checking girls out. If anyone cheats they are absolutely the worst.
I guess I find it understandable now lol or at least more understandable
That was my intention. I wasn't saying you should start letting your boyfriend stare at other girls or anything lol
Thanks for telling me because I could’ve had a break down from crying or something if this would’ve happend 😂 but now I’m mentally ready
Glad to hear it.
Also morality, he will always find others hot,But he has the choice to cheat or not,If he’s wreckless and a rebel and doesn’t care about morality and society’s little social rules, he will be like fuck the cheating rule and do it anyway,If he’s square and highly moral nerd who is scared of getting caught, he won’t cheat
:D how many girls do you know in your life fr? We also have sexual desires, you know that right?
@Miley19new I jus been told that if s girl is in love she doesn’t find anyone else attractive jus himThat’s what she told me
@Miley19new maybe it was a lie
we are all humans and all humans who are able to see notices who is attractive and who isn't. Yeah, of course we will think our boyfriend is the hottest, but shouldn't we all view our special ones like that?Men and Women aren't all that diffrent really. Almost all of us desire sex and we keep seeking for the best partner. Im lucky i found mine
@Miley19new so what your saying that a girl who has a boyfriend currently... can find other boys hot and want to have sex with other boys?
i can't speak on behalf of every girl on this planet just like you can't speak on behalf of every boy. There is a fine line between finding somebody good loking and wanting to have sex with them. My boyfriend is enough for me but i have friends who desire almost every guy they see even tho they are in relationship. Some even go as far as cheating.
@Miley19new I think the only thing that holds someone back from having sex with someone they find hot Is hurting their partners feelings,I think if their partner didn’t care and didn’t get upset by it then everyone would cheat and all relationships would be open
@Miley19new they’re jus tryna be nice people by not cheating I think, but deep down I think everyone has the desire to now n then,If not they must jus not have a very big sex drive
well i believe if somebody is completely pleased with their partner and compatible, they won't really have desires for others because your partner will be the best option for you
@Miley19new that’s true
It’s jus you disagreed that you find other guys hot whilst having boyfriend so that make me think u too would wanna cheat on him n fuck other guys,I don’t understand how you can find someone hot n not wanna fuck themI think being sexually attracted to someone purely means your attracted (like magnet) making you want to have sex with them, that’s what Hot meansSo if you say someone is hot but you don’t wanna have sex with them... that means you don’t find them hot but just “like” how they look
nah, i dont apply such deep meaning to words like "hot". Hot simply means good looking to me and no, i would never wanna cheat on my boyfriend
2 people disagree that your allowed to look wherever u want,The world is retarded
@NameWidNoFace Yes, many people who use this site are morons.
It hasn’t happend to me yet lol
if you give up on dating over stuff like that you sure are easy to deter. yea men will be men but just accept them the way they are
@007kingifrit I do accept men for the way they are. But I have my insecurities and I don't think some guy is worth the emotional exhaustion my brain would have to go through.
I ain’t normal then lol
nobody ever accused you of being normal. :P
I see those women down voting. It's double standards. Women check on other guys as often but guys often dont see it a big deal.
Just to clarify I'm talking about the type of look that is very lustful long and creepy.
Another down vote
Whelp. Guys don't like the truth here. Sorry guys who downvoted. You know what your doing wrong. Not sorry for what I said.
You Sir are not a girl how would you know? I am not a Karen but you can't say all gurls do it.
I don't believe I said anywhere "all girls do it" did I? No... I said "girls do it too" cuz there are girls that do it tooAnd I know cuz I have been in several relationships where my girlfriend was open about it and told me if she saw anyone she found attractive...So... Any more questions?
Omg this is hilarious... This is the most hate over every got on a post and it's over the me saying girls check out other men? XD it's not even a contraversal statement. Everyone can tell on some level of they find a person visually attractive or not. It's not a male exclusive trait
I think I’ll be mentally prepared now if this happens lol I think I’ll just roll my eyes. So every man does this?
I find it hard to understand though because I’ve never checked out anyone before and I only find my boyfriend attractive
@pink_and_inlove you can even jokingly go along with it, like "ooo-eerr, check out the hottie, she's got a great ass right?" He'll probably laugh and downplay her looks like "well she doesn't move her hips like you do" (i don't know his personality so I'm projecting a little bit here lol)
But why? I never do this why the hell are guys like this?
There is no “why”, its not a conscious action. Why are you so bothered by it?
I don't know it’s just a bit disrespectful and since i don’t do it i don’t understand lol if thsi were to happen to me though I would pretend that nothing happend but feel sad inside
I never check guys out.
I’m loyal as hell lol and the only man that is attractive to me is my boyfriend no one else