Is checking out other women normal guy behavior or the behavior of a cheater? (Page 2)

[AustColombiangirl]

It’s kinda like window shopping you can look but not touch or buy

[jabberwocky00]

If I’m alone I check out men. If I’m with him, I wouldn’t ever give a second glance ever.

[__inkRat]

I think intention of checking out is more important that act itself. Men are visual so its bound to happen like it or not. If you get jelous just because of it you two have a lot bigger problem sthat checking someone out. If you two can talk about it, like deam did you saw how grat she looked, yee her dress really fit her well, or diod you saw his arms, yee, his ass was nice to. You have normal healty relationships where you can talk about stuff.

[Nephilim000]

I believe when you are truly in love you barely notice members of the opposite sex exceptmfornyoue significant other

[Dreamgirl97xo]

It’s only disrespectful if he says something to her like “ you’re sexy” or “I wanna smash you” the amount of guys who have messaged me who have been married or in long term relationships 😮 some do it because they are bored with their current partner

[SexyAshh]

Its normal.


I mean like damn, if i see a hot girl im going to look too!

[BackAgain602]

I had to learn the hard way that a man is going to look, regardless of his age or relationship status. It's just their nature. (No offense, guys)
It's cheating when they physically act on it.

[BlckGrl]

Normal. Guys are visual and they like to look it's harmless

[FeenaK]

It's normalised in society but it is a disloyal trait

[Avicenna]

It isn't indicative of a cheater. People check out other people all the time- we are hardwired for it.

[Sevenpointfive]

i don't know. i don't think i'm normal but i'm not a cheater. i'd check that ass out if it was that good

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Let's not be hypocrite. Even women look while in a relationship.

[Alwayreckles93]

You are right while watching the Twilight movie all girls tough Taylor Lautner was sexy and we were in a relationship so yes you are right.

[Anonymous]

All guys look. ALL guys. Now he should at least TRY to be discreet about it. That's just good manners. But yeah--if a girl has a great ass or spectacular tits--we're GOING to look. That has nothing to do with cheating by the way.

[pervertedjester]

In the words of Foxworthy "You can move your eyes, just don't turn your head."

[Anonymous]

Many guys are cheats with that, pervs too. And act on it. Idiots.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Oh don't act like many girls don't cheat because they also do. When a guy take her girlfriend to a shopping mall, doesn't automatically mean she's an gold digger looking for a richer guy?

[Opinion Owner]

@Aiko_E_Lara I tend to talk wit other guys, text them too. I do it in a different way so yeah, cheater.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Anecdotes don't prove anything

[Opinion Owner]

@Aiko_E_Lara hahaha I am a master so with me it is ok

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Then this made me question if you deserved that.

[Opinion Owner]

@Aiko_E_Lara hahaha Best one on here who is the wisest.

[Opinion Owner]

Hurry now, @aiko_e_lara I see u are guru u can catch up to me. hahaha

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Xper here don't mean shit. A 5 year old can understand that. It's sad you think life is about Xper

[josephinelcajon]

That is sick behavior! Make up your mind! Do you really love her then god dam it show it!

[Thatsamazing]

You're an idiot.

[Torari]

Yes, you would. As would literally everyone else. That's just basic biology. You will look at physically attractive people. Your eyes can't help but shift that way.

[COMMODOREII]

Actually i check out every girl that comes by even if i was in a relationship. I know my exes did the same thing. Its when you cross the line that is bad. Looking is not cheating.

[Anonymous]

He's a disgusting cheater who can't keep his eyes and hands on one woman

[Unit1]

This is normal behavior. Who doesn't check out the others? Crazy people?

[Apope16]

Everyone does. It's about whether its extreme or not

[Cryptic-Game]

I find that behavior inappropriate. As beautiful of a woman you are, madam pink_and_inlove, men should only focus their eyes upon you.

Don't tolerate that behavior in men. I think it is selfish, rad madam.

[Anonymous]

Normal. It's funny when guys try to hide it. i have deliberated dined at restaurants with hot female waiters with tight clothing to see how he acts/sweats. It's a test. It's cute lol

[Gagname]

You say its funny & cute when guys check out hot waitresses, so it sounds like it doesn’t bother you...

Are you just trying to confirm that guys are all the same, or is your “test” to see if a guy has a “wandering eye” and if he does then you’re done with him?

[Opinion Owner]

@Gagname both

[Gagname]

Hmm... I can understand you being concerned about a wandering eye, but am confused why at the same time you feel it’s “normal... funny... cute.”

And if you “know” this about guys, why go to all the trouble of putting them through a “test” that you know they’re gonna fail and you’re gonna just gonna drop them anyway?

Doesn’t sound too logical...

1. Checking out other women is “normal” guy behavior, but
2. I’ll “test” them anyways and “It's funny when guys try to hide it” [but I’ll get a good laugh out of it] and
3. When they fail my “test” [and they will because it’s “normal” for guys to do check women out] I’ll just drop them

... but it does sound very sadistic.

[Opinion Owner]

@Gagname it is logical. Some pass the test and manage to supress the urge. I know that they are from the looks on their faces.

[Gagname]

Ok. Half of what I asked you before was are you “trying to confirm that guys are all the same” and you said yes (by answering “both” to the 2-part question I asked)...

But you just said “Some pass the test and manage to supress the urge” [to check out hit women]...

Cool, I knew we guys are NOT all the same.

[Gagname]

*hot

[Opinion Owner]

@Gagname men are the same in that they have urges. However some men are better at suppressing urges. Two things are true.

[Gagname]

 I agree with that :)

[ttrg21t]

It’s ok. I think both girls and boys could have been attracted at a person’s appearance, that’s not cheat.

[jadspop]

I got down voted for saying wemon do it too. So I'm looking threw the girls comments to see if any girls agree that wemon look too. So thank you for sharing and sorry for your down vote

[Anonymous]

Men are visually stimulated and women are generally attention seeking and over exposed... it is not men’s fault women exploit our natural biological instinct for their own selfish ego.

[Old_Golden]

I called my dad out it once and he said "I'm married not dead"

[ElvenMr]

Can't really do much. Even if you try not to look, you'll catch yourself looking anyway.. doesn't mean he is a cheater at all.

[es20490446e]

If I'm really into my partner I only have eyes for her.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

I have never cheated and will never cheat and I can't stop checking out other women

[magiusX26]

normal human behaviour for people to check oyt other people. irs not just a guy thing.

[A1513]

It's very normal, although I wouldn't do it anywhere near my girlfriend.

[Wise4myage]

Not necessarily a cheater, but a very stupid and disrespectful thing to do.

[Tslav_]

Do women notice other men despite being in relationships? Yeah, because suddenly don’t become blind nor asexual when they enter bonds

[Jack9949]

I dont check women it out unless its porn lol. It just makes people uncomfortable and why would I want a hard-on in public?

[noleafclover_3]

I think that's normal. What wouldn't be normal is if he flirts with her while being with you.

[peedy]

Completely normal everyone does it and I mean everyone including you ladies
Be honest you know am speaking truth

[peedy]

Its how we do it, do you broadcast it by turning your head and/or body completely around or are you more subtle about it and only look with your eyes

[Protein_mate]

I think it's human nature to admire attractive people when we see them. Even if I look I'd never think about doing anything about it

[soleil6998]

Weapons do not need checking out,

There are silos for storage,

If you need to see, you need permission and a clearance,

Until then you receive a salary

[Kinkyhubby]

I haven't cheated and I have checked out other woman

[Anonymous]

Normal. His sexuality doesn’t die when he enters a relationship.

[Sabretooth]

it could be unintentional-but it certainly can lead to cheating if not corrected.

[bklynbadboy1]

He's in a relationship he's not dead as long as he isn't disrespectful what's the problem

[Siavash_1990]

If he is on a date, he should not. Otherwise on his own, he will

[Anonymous]

It's normal. Men will look. As long as he isn't making compliments about her body you are fine

[CreepyCute]

I think a quick glance is quite normal.

[Vegeta00]

I blatantly check out other girls in front of my girl, because I KNOW how women work.

[FourDoorViper]

I watch people period. It's not anything much beyond that for me.

[shaan0007]

Even girls check on other guys, it's not cheating, it's a normal behavior

[Anonymous]

It's normal. If you saw a hot guy walking past you, you'd linger a little looking at him right?

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

"look, but don't touch"

[elizamichale1]

No i think its normal n natural for them

[YourSong]

That’s a cheater right there

[genericname85]

Everyone does this xD women too.

[JosyJosy]

Pretty normal.

[robocop666]

I see boobs and butt I stare. all men do

[Gisellelight]

Bullshit. My boyfriend doesn’t.

[Gisellelight]

You don’t speak for every guy.

[bamesjond0069]

@Gisellelight honey... baby... he looks.

[Gisellelight]

@bamesjond0069 I never see him do that

[Gisellelight]

And I watch him

[OrallyFixated]

@Gisellelight
I don’t understand why you “watch him.”
What are you watching for? A reason to get pissed off?
Going out can’t be much fun if you are spending your time watching him to make sure he doesn’t turn his eyes the wrong way.

[Gisellelight]

@OrallyFixated That sounded wrong haha. What I wanted to say is that we have a lot of eye contact and we observe the other quite a lot. What I see is a good man who is focused on me or the task we are doing. Generally we’re people who are in our zone.

[beefy40]

@Gisellelight wow sound crazy, poor guys scared you will chop his dick off or kill him.

[Twalli]

We aren't blind. We will look at attractive girls

[jimmy2]

Guys are visual we, all do it

[gandolph3]

It is normal, and we know you check out guys

[Anonymous]

Yeah, his dick not just exclusive to you only.

[DavidFox]

It’s normal