Guys, why was his heart beating so fast when we were hugging?

[Hannah_Ann_Linge]

This one guy (I thought he only wanted me for sex) and I hugged a pretty long hug. I laid my head on his chest and said I felt so safe around him. I could hear his heartbeat and it was beating very quickly. Mine was slow because the hug was comforting. Does this mean anything you think since his heart was going 123 miles per minute?

[PurSeduction]

He may have been very nervous about this moment. Perhaps he finally is close body to body with his crush (you).

Or maybe just so insecure and anxious about hugging to long, etc.

I could add so many more theories...

I wouldn't use "his heart was beating so fast" for any presumption

[KendrickDuckworth]

I can't speak for this guy personally, but for me, a long hug with a woman I'm extremely attracted to is both the most comforting and the most exhilarating thing in the world. Yes, there is sexual arousal, but the biggest thing for me is the feeling of closeness and connection in a way that one can only feel with someone they have feelings for. I don't have these types of experiences often, so when they do happen, I become the happiest person in the world and my heart starts beating a million miles a minute.

[FairEnough]

It could be normal. When I breathe slowly my heart beats faster for some reason. but I don't know about him. Ask him if he feels some type of way around you. That is the only way you'll know what he is truly feeling/thinking.

[Elliegirl]

You make his heart race. It’s a good thing! 😊 He likes you!!

[Hannah_Ann_Linge]

You think he likes me more than just sexually?

[prince350]

I'd be very concerned to rely on relationship intentions of someone who starts with 'just sexually'.
It goes the way it starts - if it starts around sex, it stays around sex. If it stars around a relationship it stays so.
Women continuously make this mistake of looking for sex but hoping for love. If you go after what your body tells you, all you will get is bodily aspects, not anything to do with emotions, soul, or a relationship. That really starts by talking and relating.

[Elliegirl]

I can’t say for sure he likes you more than sexually. It’s possible.

[prince350]

If you follow what your pussy or heartbeat tell you, it is just lust, not love.

[Bexxiib]

I can’t speak for a guy but I know when I give him a hug I can feel his heart beating so fast and then his voice goes all shaky after. And I become the same after I hug him, my heart races during the hug and after I have a shaky voice. It usually happens when you’re attracted to someone.
Another thing I like regardless of feelings being mutual if the hug is a friendly hug (mostly with guy friends) I like to rest my head on their chest and listen to their heartbeat, he’s heart beats fast because he cares and yes friends do love their friends and have a fast heartbeat it could mean they truly care for their friends too.
Sometimes it’s anxiety too or their heart beat was just naturally fast or a health problem.

[Unixion0907]

It means that he’s heard your compliment that you feel so safe around it and is soooo happy to hear it that adrenaline and dopamine is rushing through him.


Personally, I love being the guy who a girl can feel protected by, feel safe with, that feeling is something I love, so maybe he’s the same way. Don’t think too far into it. He’s happy that you like him, he really likes you too. End of.

[WesBrewer]

when guys hug girls, at least for me, it usually is more on the stressful side because it feels so different hugging a girl, like if I hug my sister, my best friend (male), and then my friend girl then the first two hugs are the same but the last one is completely different the feeling is both of being in heaven and going through hell, because it is a really nice feeling when hugging but then you start to feel extreme stress after that. I still enjoy hell hugs more than no hugs by the way.

[hahahmm]

Honestly, my heart never beat that fast just because I was hugging/touching a woman. Ever. Not even when I was a shy teenager. Could be he just did something like exercise or move 50 bags of concrete...

[Sevenpointfive]

it means nothing. hearts beat fast. i once had a girl fall asleep on my chest above my heart and i was like how the hell did she do that because my heart was beating fast? i suppose it's up to the person to decide what's fast

[kkirk4442]

It means he liked having your body against his body, and was probably turned on to some degree. He definitely liked the closeness.

[DJB72]

It used to happen to me with my first girlfriend. Major adrenaline rush. I loved holding her but my heart rate pretty much doubled when I did - in a good way!

[Swordnen]

there are possible few
1) he likes you a lot
2) he was little nervous
3) he wanted it, and found unexpectedly
4) a long hug itself is same as a kid finds a candy unexpectedly
5) he was sad and needed a hug and you gave him what he wanted

thousand more

[strraku]

bcoz he was feeling excited , loved , cared , responsible, trustworthy at the same moment
also he wanted u so long so he was happy too

[GalwaysLittleBird]

The most likely thing, was that he took viagra. It does that, your hearth beats like crazy for a few hours.

Other reason could be just because all of the exercise, and that you are just very aware because you have your ear in his chest.

[scooogy]

How can a heart go miles per minute? By foot? 🤔 What would you guess was the reason?

[Hannah_Ann_Linge]

I was saying that for exaggeration lol. Hmmm maybe because I make him nervous?

[Finchie40]

Because you’re hot and he felt like he was lucky to have you in his arms

[SandandWaves]

He could be thinking of something exciting or something is bothering him...

[SystemOfTheMachine]

Part of it could be arousal because the heart beat can increase because of that, but it could also be from excitment because of how close you were. Hard to say exactly.

[J2ohhhhh]

Excitement raises heartbeat. When I'm turned on I even breath heavier.

[Massageman]

I think you have an admirer! You're turning him on!

[Not_Average]

He was paranoid because he thought you were going to find his awkward erection.

[loveslongnails]

Obviously, he was excited for any number of reasons.

[na2398]

He is either sexually attracted to you or is too nervous to do that.

[pizzalovershouse]

You got the guy excited or he was partying before you met him

[Maspolomas]

He could possibly be in love with you and the fact you hugged made his heart race

[FriendlyEnigma]

Nervousness? Anxiety? Maybe he had a rando boner and was scared it might graze you lol

[hahahmm]

Shhh. If she didn't notice it then it must be the size of angel hair pasta.

[StrikeJam]

If it was just after sex - then it's just "exercise rate "
Otherwise he was nervous, or excited

[1stranger]

Your words, touches possibly made him secrete adrenaline🥰

[JPrez]

He was probably a bit excited. Maybe turned on but maybe not.🤷‍♂️

[red324]

Nerves/excitement. Didn't you say in your other post you won't have sex until marriage? The way you worded it, sounds like you guys did already.

[Hannah_Ann_Linge]

We never did

[red324]

He was just nervous. Nothing wrong with that, just means he likes you.

[bradbradley]

means he really likes you and he wants you if im guessing

[MyBigMystery]

Don't you own a mirror, and he's probably not worthy lol

[Anonymous]

He likes you. Rapid heart beat is like the first sign of love!!!

[Hotscorpio3]

It just means he was excited to have you that close.

[MrDGAS]

He obviously likes you in some way and you made his heart flutter. So fucking sweet 😏

[Anonymous]

A lot of racism in my opinion is due to penis size.

[Danny_dan92]

He likes you. Or he just took an energy drink shortly before

[Anonymous]

He has an arrhythmia? He just got done working out? He is on cocaine? Or he had a boner?

[AmeerX]

He didn't hug a girl before

[Hannah_Ann_Linge]

He’s hugged several before

[AmeerX]

Umm then he just like you more than other girls and you don't know if his heart beat increases when he hughs other girls

[dsrice1966]

You probably made him nervous, you are so gorgeous.

[nawtee_me]

He was nervous in your arms...

[Hannah_Ann_Linge]

A good kind of nervous, ya think?

[nawtee_me]

It is possible, but you need to be around him more so he gets comfortable with you.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Because you almost have him a heart attack!

[pepperhicks]

His body was preparing for sex.

[nodnol32]

Maybe he was nervous?

[Wise4myage]

He was either just nervous or aroused, maybe both.

[jasco]

He likes you, or he was blushing lol.

[CaptainSmartass]

Yeah. He fancies you.

Simples...

[locutus9999]

awww... he was nervous... that happen...

[james_d0007]

He likes you and was a bit nervous i guess

[msc545]

He was probably sexually aroused.

[slay_girl]

Congratulations, you got him right by the balls

[David7825]

Really

[Axel1969]

It is something like that definitely nervous as someone that was cocky so in the hugging position leaves him vulnerable to be on the receiving end of a knee to the balls.

[ManHater]

he's getting ready to bend you over.

[RebeccaBecca95]

He like your hugs or he’s got Anxiety hugging you.

[Alexalex92]

Maybe he was excited or nervous

[Jerre]

He was probably thinking about fucking you

[Jerre]

Of course I would love to fuck you as well.

[KendrickDuckworth]

Wow. Easy, Jerre.

[sheikalana]

I think you're reading too much into it.

[SleepingMK]

it would happen to me while hugging my crush

[Husaaa]

His heart was pumping much blood into his dick😂

[Anonymous]

Blood was pumping to his boner.

[Angelo75]

You excite him.

[andy530]

Adrenaline

[Juxtapose]

^^ this.

[Alyssa11]

He was hard lol

[CalmYourTits]

Call a doctor.

[KrakenAttackin]

Tachycardia.