Guys, What do u think of girls that give u their body quickly, and what do u think of girls that don't give it away so quick?

[Anonymous]

[TurboKid]

I don't like it when a girl thinks of it as "giving" me her body. It sounds like she's not so into me or doesn't enjoy sex very much. I tend to prefer it when things go very naturally on dates. That might lead to the bedroom quickly or it might not but it feels very natural and mutual and neither forced nor delayed/withdrawn.

[TurboKid]

It might be a cultural thing, but I am from Japan and we don't have this idea of prizing virginity or abstaining from sex before marriage. At the same time, we value marriage but don't withhold sex if the chemistry and connection are there on a date. I also do not think of a woman as easy or anything like that if we have sex quickly. We might just have a whole lot of chemistry.

[Asker]

yea thxs babe

[TurboKid]

Cheers

[Asker]

:) :D

[KneeDragger]

A girl who gives it away easily has zero respect for herself. Why else would she have lots of sex with lots of different people.

A lady who respects herself can say no to the urges of her body and the ones who respect themselves command that others respect them.

[Anonymous]

If a girl is willing to give her body quickly, I think less of her, as she seems to be a person who spreads her body around, and gives it to whatever guy. I think more highly of a girl who is less eager to give her body, especially if she is waiting for marriage.

[Asker]

thxs

[HugoThe2nd]

Firstly, nobody gives anyone their body, having sex is a mutual activity in which both parties involved have to get vulnerable in presence of the other.

As for your question.
I think women who have sex with me within a sensible time period (aka "quickly") desire me and find me sexually attractive, which turns me on and flatters me.
It comes across as genuine and confident to me.

Women who would make me "wait" (aka "not have sex with me so quickly") come across to me as insecure fools who have the stupid belief that men who are willing to "wait" are somehow going to treat them better or value them more (lol).
This also feels sucky because I believe it's artificial and disingenuous and it doesn't make me feel desired nor does it flatter me in any way.

I have sex with the first group, and I tell the other "good luck waiting for your simps".

[ohshee]

It depends on the situation and the relation look for me a girl not really gives it up but allows you and her two become one sooner than somebody else might I have a lot more respect for her because that tells me that she is confident she's independent is she goes against the grain or with other people think or say so to me it's a turn-on

[boggboss]

Worst case ill think thats how she is will all men if I was willing to relationship her before that wouldn't change as thats what I wanted in the first place as for waiting long equally its fine but after a while it can make me get bored if its for reasons I see as silly

[Dchrls78104]

I want a deep connection with a female, that lasts for life. Give the body up too soon, and she might make me suspect that that's all she has to offer; she would then be useless to me. Make me wait forever, and I might get trust issues with her and suspect that the hen cackling in my coop is laying her eggs in another. Sex must be neither too soon (especially before marriage) or too late, or I'm moving on to greener pastures.

[TheSpaceGnome]

It depends, if we barely know eachother, I would see her being quick about it as a red flag, but if we are best friends or she knows everything about me and she is quick about it after a short time of being flirty, I would see it as prefered.

[vald9inches]

I would be thankful and like her more as a person if she did but if she didn't depends on how long

[Asker]

what if she was 15 and was one

[vald9inches]

Was one what?

[Asker]

a virgin, and didn't give it away quick

[vald9inches]

Well its her choice i am not gonna force her but a lot of guys will lose interest fast especially if she waiting for marriage or something

[Asker]

oh ok

[normalice]

If the girl "gives it up" because she likes to get off, i think better of her. If she gives it up because she wants to be liked, i think less of her.

Girls who dont want sex are simply not compatible with me.

[FilmGuy93]

It makes no difference in how I see her. But I have found that women who have sex quickly usually aren't interested in progressing things further.

[ChrisMaster69]

Neither worries me, it’s her body she is in control of it,