How fast do guys fall in love?

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PeacefulRainDrop · Accepted Answer

It takes a man a lot longer to fall in love than a woman. I believe this is because of the way we think differently men are more head focused think of facts.. women are more intellectual well he did this so that must mean this.. when in reality he only picked up your pencil cause it rolled closer to him.. Women sometimes put dots together that were never ment to be together and also women expect men to read their signs.. guys are very deliberate they dont beat around the bush as much as women do. Guys aren't mind readers and sometimes women put unrealistic expectations upon them. This is all me observing from my experience. So if you like a guy whats worked best for me is taking things as they are someone asks you out for coffee its just coffee.. now if they go to kiss you goodnight id just say ahhh I dont kiss my friends is this a date? Most guys like the ball to be in their court and I think when women get so worked up guess who asked me out for coffee? Telling all their friends they get their hopes up then think its automatically going somewhere when maybe the guy was just bored and craving coffee and didn't want to go alone.. asked a bunch of other people first than you came to mind sorta deal..

I believe every guy is different can't say a month or a week some might be a day some might be 4 months... but you can tell when they love you before they even say it.. I wait for the guy to say it first... that way he doesn't get cold feet if my feelings are ahead of his... also theirs a lot of women out there that just walk all over men so most of them have thick walls up and you have to prove yourself to them... its a lot more risk for a man to fall in love than a woman.. so he has to pick his partner wisely cause a good woman by his side makes his life better but a bad choice destroys him then he's more hesitant for the next woman... just cause you say youd never cheat on him doesn't mean he believes you cause he probably heard those words from another woman that cheated on him... and sometimes women say I can't believe you dont trust me this is such a waste of time
.. he feels like he dodged a bullet and puts another block on his wall mean while she thinks of everything she did for him and thinks he's blind wants to know why he thinks so poorly of her when really it had nothing to do with her as a person he wanted to believe her but his experiences told him otherwise

Eeeeeeeeeeeeeee · Accepted Answer

They fill your vag with thumbtacks and if they can last five seconds you know it’s real

ShadezMcgee · Accepted Answer

Depends on how many times a guy has had a fling or relationship with a woman and the relationship ended.

Men vary in timeframe, but those who experienced relationships take longer because they want to find the woman that meets the standards they set and the standards get more defined and grow through experiences with women as a whole. New guys I believe fall in love quicker from lack of experience and have the lust and ideals of love shaped from what they have been exposed to in media guiding them.

Just something that is learned and shaped based on the individual.

Apope16 · Accepted Answer

Girls take about 2 months if there is sex. Guys pretty much know instantly if they will date her because they go more by looks. Now true love takes longer if its a girl they have mild physical attraction to. It could take 6 months to a year if she's overweight.

MasseurDeMojo · Answer

This all depends on the guy. Some will fall in love as soon as the see a woman they like; others may take a year to realize how much they love someone. There is no set time line for falling in love for a man. It all depends on where they are at, in that stage of their life.

Effably · Answer

Fastest I ever fell for a girl, not to neccessarily call it love, was about 3 hours before I realized that yep, she's awesome.

Has also taken several years. So you know, case to case and person to person. My understanding is that guys fall in love a little slower but become deeper entrenched in it, not more invested just more stuck.

A_Nihilist · Answer

It differs per person and per experience. Someone who has never known love may take longer due to inexperience. Others who have had many bad relationships may fall in love quickly out of desperation.

I personally get attached quite easily but I don't so much fall in love easily. I think there's far too much emphasis on that word alone. Even if I really really like someone quickly, I am conscious of it and my behaviour. It's important to respect boundaries and not become overbearing in the early stages of a relationship.

Nikola321 · Answer

I can get a crush on first sight. But falling in love, needs more time for that to happen. I look at girl's personality the most, girl being a good person is what makes my "having a crush" turn into "being in love". So as soon as I get to know her (which actually isn't that long) :D

Dalton57 · Answer

I fall in love immediately. A few times in my lifetime.
As the relationship grows my head clears and I move on.
This has led to some great flings for me.

Otherwise it's a gradual thing as a relationship builds and love grows over time.
This has led to two marriages for me.

K-I-S-S · Answer

I love you. *about that fast. For me anyway, i fall too fast and for too long time.  It could be a superpower at this point, if i spot any positive use for it.

worldscolide · Answer

it usually takes me a while.. Having been burned so many times, it was really hard for me to trust. For example, it took me 6 months to tell my wife, when we were dating, that i love her. Granted i fell for her a month after we started dating, because of her actions while i was in the hospital with my wisdom teeth.

TodsShadow · Answer

For me depends on the women and my level of intellect during pressure. I’ve fallen quickly before but she was really great. She hit most of the marks and she didn’t try that shaming shit when she was wrong in a conversation.

But then there’s another relationship where I was waiting to fall in love but never did. She look great but her personality was like a sour patch kid

FilmGuy93 · Answer

How the fuck did you install a camera in my bedroom?

Xyglo27 · Answer

Guys with an analytical mind will generally take a bit longer than usual to fall in love. Emotional guys on the other hand, fall in love a bit too quickly.

Mofunfour20 · Answer

I dont know about how fast but i can say that a man loves you when he will risk his life to protect and provide for you. I would only do that for a woman that is respectful, cooks, cleans, and gives me a sense of peace I can't find anywhere else.

Finchie40 · Answer

Depends on how fast she falls in love with me , if she treats me good and makes me feel valued and wanted and I feel I can trust her then love can come quick but to be in love takes time

The_Maphio · Answer

Sexually speaking, is a matter of seconds.  Emotionally wise, it generally takes time. These days in particular, it takes a rather long period to develop the necessary trust.

Floppy2112 · Answer

Pretty fast. Especially, when you have that eye contact that has that spark and you immediately feel as if you have known that person all your life. I am sure what that is is hotly debated and it's super rare, but really cool when it happens.

DeltaCharlieEcho · Answer

Depends on the guy, but they’ll only fall in love so many times.  At a certain point any man will stop giving his sanity to women that live life on easy mode with no consequences.

exitseven · Answer

Me. I do it pretty quick. I used to fall in love before really thinking it through.

Riddler1412 · Answer

Depends on the girl. It can be a few months, or it can be a few seconds.

ohshee · Answer

If all conditions are right all it takes is a heartbeat

Waldoe · Answer

Very Slowly... they "Fall in Lust" Love takes Much longer because they are consumed with Lust

OddBeMe · Answer

How fast do your legs open?  There’s a mathematical theorem that when adjusted for the speed of light, there’s a correlation between sex and love.

fred_durst · Answer

guy who falls in love easily will logically make him a player

rebeliouse · Answer

@wowwgirl haha probably in the time it takes to make him cum deepthroating him :D afraid were all as shallow as a puddle :D

Jamie05rhs · Answer

If I wasn't purposely trying not to, I would fall in love VERY quickly.

WhiteWolf69 · Answer

For me it all depends on how much time I spend with a woman, getting to know her and making that emotional, mental and physical connection with her.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Mitches can fall in love in a blink of an eye 😁

BLMUSER · Answer

It depends. If she is pretty love can happen very quickly.

scott04sa22 · Answer

Too fast!!  gag if you don’t like what I said 👎 you know what to do! 😃

TallAnon · Answer

I think guys are quick to think they're in love, but it takes quite a while to actually be in love.

boggboss · Answer

Will differ from guy to guy

msc545 · Answer

146.234512 Hrs, +/- 2,34267 hrs.

Paul09 · Answer

I'm either unlucky or lucky. But I've never experienced this love you speak of.

Leavesbound · Answer

For me typically one week to one month.

deeks1121 · Answer

I get attached for too quickly 😅

Belgie · Answer

It can happen in a moment. It can take years.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

How fast can a girl prove she's worth loving?

JamieLoves · Answer

Everyone’s different!

jerdanro · Answer

For me it varies. The last time it was fast.

Pterodon · Answer

Some faster than others

Miristheiss · Answer

About 25 miles per hour.

krin_m · Answer

Every now and then! :-)

serious · Answer

Subjective.

jaclyndavis · Answer

It's the time of the season for loving🎶

Iron_Man · Answer

Maybe a year into the relationship

ZlatGR · Answer

If you like shrek then instantly

jahaims · Answer

Every guy is different just like every girl.

exxxc · Answer

really quick for some.

Joshua0213 · Answer

Couple months to actually fall in love usually

anylolone · Answer

Same as chicks, more or less

scooogy · Answer

I used to break my nose when falling :P

Zygum · Answer

Not true, men take time to fell in love

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

Approximately 7 to 10 business days

princeofromance · Answer

Super Fast!

Redtop101 · Answer

Every 60 seconds.

Silvius · Answer

Immediately

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