I've hooked up with a guy yesterday but I already knew what it was as I was aware of him leaving my country tomorrow. We had a great sex to be honest, he said he wants to do this again. I was ok.
When I got home he was blowing up my phone calling, texting, I thought I must of forgotten something but nah he just wanted to talk?
I was busy he was trying to call me for 1 hour straight, and apologizing and saying I don't want you think bad about me, can we talk can we talk. I acted cool and was delaying the call. Eventually I call him and we talk for like 2 hours straight, getting to know each other, it was a very pleasant talk. He seemed to tell me a lot about himself.
Today I wanted to show my friend who I met yesterday so I screenshot his story on Snapchat but from ANOTHER account and blocked him right after. I tested it before hand and all a person can see is the name of the person who screenshot it but can't open profile.
Anyways few minutes after he deleted my REAL account on there so I texted him why and he tells me that he prefers having me on WhatsApp, it's way better for talking. I got upset and said I thought we were friends, and if we can't have each other's added on both apps then I am walking out. I don't have time for games so I deleted him.
Why do you think he deleted me?
He is back to his country so you serve him no more purpose.
He assumed you screenshot his story, so he got upset and deleted you. (Again I doubt)
That's how hookups are (but still why did he want to call me so badly - explain in comments)
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For everyone who wondered, we're cool with the guy now lol
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Its all good by the way, we still talk
He deleted me after this?
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Let me get this straight. Feel free to correct me 1) Sex with a complete stranger 2) Chatted for 2 odd hours and learned personal things 3) You post these personal things on Snapchat. 4) He deletes your ass from Snapchat worried you'll take more of his information & slander him 5) You actually asked him why 6) He suggests another app & you delete his account as if he's in the wrong.
Seriously. If I'm accurate I have one question - are you stupid? You took someone's personal information and put it on an app. Are you braindamaged? Of course he's going to be negative. He told you that expecting respect and you're as disgustingly disrespectful as a dog.
Wait u said u don't want to play games yet you was playing games by screenshotting him on a catfish account but not only that after he blocked your main account u responded making it clear u was the one that screen spotted it like it dont take sherlock Holmes to work that out
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How did I make it clear? I never mentioned the screenshot part to him, I told him he be hiding something if he can’t have me everywhere
Because people are not dumb lol after he got screen spotted and blocked form a random account he blocks u and u then respond to being blocked seems pretty obvious and again your talking about him hiding u yet u was playing games equally
but he looked so cute on it, I really wanted to save that.. it's whatever.. it's best to think he deleted me cause of snapchat screenshot than believe the truth.. I was just a hookup.
He wouldn't have spoken to you that much if u was just a hookup lol after the sex u would have never heard from him again if u wanted to save the pic then save it dont actively look like your playing games from another account thats childish shit
yeah that would be so cool to see a girl that you just hooked up with SCREENSHOT ur photo? . that seems creepy af... would you be turned on? I think you'd run
Actually yeah, he will never know if it was me... also why should I care, he never had good intentions.. I told him I regret we met and had that sex as he's fake
Lol u can believe that if u want butbiys super obvious it was u but meh if u truly regretted it you wouldn't be asking this now clearly u care but are sad he blocked u stop trying to pretend
Of course I’m disappointed, I thought we’d stay friends. But it hurt me how he was so interested in me and now he deleted me. Kinda like throwing used paper in trash. I guess I should be cool with it, I agreed to it. I agreed to hookup. But like I said if he left me id say he just came for sex but he played with my mind. He made me think he likes me actually and now he's gone 🤷🏽♀️
I wish he regretted it and reached out but I know I can forget that. Its not happening. Even if he “kept” me on whatsapp, how do I know he didn't delete me there too? It doesn't tell you.. so maybe he just wanted to make me think he has me added and “we will keep in contact” but he wasn't ever gonna talk again or if ever he wanted quick sex again
I just think this guy wanted to ghost me but had no balls to do so, or maybe he felt so stupid about chasing after me so desperately after night.. who knows but he is conflicted with himself... I decided to delete his messages and leave it alone. I got better things to do.
Men say something, women overthink it and go "What does he really mean?" even if it's something simple and straightforward like "I like you. We should go out some time."
well why'd he deleted me and say it's better to have me on whatsapp... like if you are serious you don't have trouble having someone added on each app. It sure has a meaning.. prolly was just a ho I mean I wouldn't care really but he was calling me like crazy after sex so I thought he wanted more than that... otherwise I'd just let it go.. least stay friends.. but whatever
"why'd he deleted me and say it's better to have me on whatsapp"
Like I said, guys are for the most part, simple. If he said he found it easier to keep you on one app, then I see no reason to doubt that. The thing is, you do doubt that - but you can't come up with a reason either.
you are just taking his side cause you are a man but he probably deleted me everywhere. It's just on snapchat I can tell if he deleted me, while on whatsapp I can't, since he has public profile picture.. He could of just been fair and deleted me immediately... not freaking give me hopes by calling me like crazy
You prove my point. I tell you why I said what I did. As plainly and simply as I can. You can't accept the simple answer and invent one. "You're just taking his side because you're both men"
If you will be believing every bs someone tells you, you’ll just end up being played. I hope you stop trusting people words so fast. I learned the hard way.
Not that it matters to you but i told you why I'd believe him in this case. Not always and not about everything. But I'e no inclination to change your mind on this.
Nah, he probably deleted me there too, it's just I can't tell there if he has me added or not. He just didn't want to break it down to me but damn that dude was so stupid really.. If he just left me alone after hookup and didn't try to impress me, it would at least look normal.. But he had to give me hope then throw me away.. Anyways who cares.
cause it was a hookup? and he was chasing after me like crazy like he's interested and I'm so special to him.. if it was a hookup why didn't he just not bother reaching out after you know? I'd be fine, I already accepted the fact that it's a hookup. But he poured that hope in me FOR NO REASON.. Just to take it away the next day... if you know what I mean
Probably after he went back home, I was just an old story so he deleted me but he didn't have the balls to tell it to myself probably. All would be cool if he didn't act hot and cold, why'd he be chasing after me after we had sex trying to impress me if he was going to delete me anyways. That's so stupid, anyways his loss. Something in his head isn't functioning right.
