Guys if u have a girlfriend why do you check out other women?

[Jaskinbartlett]

[FunkyMonkee]

We're visual, by nature. We can't help it! I told my future ex shortly after we started seeing each other that I'll still be looking at other girls because it's like looking at great works of art but, my heart is still completely yours!! And I MEANT IT!! I was loyal to her for 10 years!! I even had other offers during those 10 years!! SHE'S the one that started cheating on ME!! I called her up to see if she was coming over for Thanksgiving, she said she was gonna spend it with her "friend, David"! She'd been spending a number of holidays with other people, especially him, but I'm not jealous! She's allowed to have male friends! So I jokingly asked, "What, are you gonna marry this guy?" After a moment, she said, "Well... yes!" I never wanted to see her again!!!

[Caliguy88]

It’s natural. Lol. Sometimes I’ve been yelled at for looking at a girl i didn’t even see. But she was hot so the chick I was with was just nuts. My longest ex didn’t care if I checked out girls and I didn’t care if she looked at a guy and said he was hot. Lol. Who cares. Not taking about it doesn’t mean it’s not happening. Everyone does it to some capacity.

[PaynefulPleasures]

Why do women do it?

[TurboKid]

They're eye-catching to me? I don't check them out in a blatant way though. I just sort of notice but do my best not to hold a gaze.

I don't always find them so attractive either, just eye-catching. To explain, say a massive bodybuilding guy walks into the room with epic biceps and chest and back and veins popping out. Probably lots of women will want to at least glance in his direction a few times, even if they don't find him attractive, and just because he's very eye-catching.

[TurboKid]

I do find some attractive though and not merely eye-catching. But you know, they're still eye-catching.

[Unbeatable]

True

[beardedbigguy]

Curiosity is always there, women are extremely attractive, some want to keep their options open. It's like having a nice car but still looking at others. Doesn't mean you want it or them but that they are enjoyable to look at. I don't believe women never look at another man once they are with one

[InfobotLives]

If you have all the shoes that you need, why do you still look at shoes? If you have a full refrigerator, why do you still look at nice food? If you have a car, why do you look at other cars?

Who knows 🤔

[Jaskinbartlett]

So basically I'm not enough is that what ur saying?

[InfobotLives]

No, I'm saying that no matter what you have you can always appreciate something else. It doesn't mean that you have any desire to have it, you just appreciate it in a fleeting moment.

[kkirk4442]

Guys are more visually stimulated than are women. Even if with a woman, guys commonly notice other women. That is not to be confused with lusting after other women, which is different.

[Archerer]

It’s simply human nature, your body doesn’t know it’s in a monogamous relationship, that is a made up concept which your instincts will never account for. You can stop yourself, but if you need to stop yourself it’s already too late.

[In_Trance]

Smh its human nature.
I don't know why the narrative of checking out other people is such a threat to human beings now.

[Anonymous]

If you feel like you aren't enough just lose some weight work on your personality some more. Be more interesting. Never let yourself be dull. Just dont get entitled.

[Shihab91]

I would say lake of self-control. the more you look the more you become addicted and nothing satisfies you.

[Shihab91]

lack*

[Wise4myage]

Of course, girls do the same thing. But Id never do it in front of a girl I was dating.

[exitseven]

I do this. I appreciate women's bodies.

[Anonymous]

Biology.

We are visually stimulated.

[DarcRefractions]

it looks nice.

[Anonymous]

They look good.

[jahaims]

I don't