What's something guys do that's a instant turn off?

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averageguy4 · Accepted Answer

More of a relationship issue, but I've found that if you want sex in a relationship you gotta put in some effort. Sometimes it can be spontaneous, but if you just want spontaneous sex all the time with no effort, you my dude are living in a fantasy. Some guys approach a relationship as unlimited sex anytime all the time. I once heard a friend of mine when we roomed together try to wake his girlfriend up at 2am to have sex. I remember thinking to myself, "you can do that?" Then there was an hour of screaming and i saw her leave. Never saw her again. Turns out ya can't. TLDR version, guys can be self centered to the point they put their needs above everything else. That's probably a turn off.

Juxtapose · Accepted Answer

Bad hygiene is the wooorst :(

purplepoppy · Accepted Answer

Claiming to be alpha.
Smoking.
Automatically believing every conspiracy theory because he thinks it makes him look like an independent thinker.
Behaving like he's in the prison exercise yard rather than like a gentleman.
Using cheesy cliche chatup lines that were probably taught to him by his mother.
Slags off his ex girlfriend.

Miah02 · Accepted Answer

Brag about their dick size

Account · Answer

Bragging and antagonizing people. I deeply despise it.

Ez-Bri-Z · Answer

I'm gonna assume I can't just put "own a penis" here so let's go with...

Can't take no for an answer
Have no sense of humor
Can't hold a conversation outside of a sexual one
Is hateful, especially about women or lgbt
Think they own me, without me giving them that right to

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

What you said plus if they give that player vibe, brag about how many women they have had or could have. Also, if they start out with lies, that's an indication that's not a person to trust so that would also be a turn off/deal breaker.

hannahjo022 · Answer

I hate when guys brag how much money they make then bitch and complain why women use them for their money. Stop bragging about how much money you make and you won't have that problem. Also I know guys thinks it weird when a girl has too many guy friends and same goes for guys having too many female friends especially when they're attractive. Creates problems because guys I be talking to will get upset and jealous when I am hanging out with a guy friend

Azura_88 · Answer

Pretending like NOTHING happened after spending time together or after sharing a close conversation.

Crazyb33 · Answer

I hate when men keep hitting on u when u are ignoring them then they go as far as trying to grab your hand or stand right in front of u and continue to talk to u or when your out at a club and they come up behind u trying to rub up on u or grab your hand as you walk by I could go on and on

loves2learn · Answer

Yell at me or put me down. Nothing kills the vibe faster.

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

Well I'm not into men so I can't say. However I personally find it pathetic how hyper sexual they are. That is they will frequently try to fuck anything that moves and are undecerning in whom they try to fuck. Its pathetic, have some fucking standards and stop being led around by your dick, its embarrassing.

HiveBee · Answer

I'm reading the girls replies and I'm just wondering... how do you manage to find so many shit bags?

Like nothing negative girls have to say about men ever applies to me. Yet I sti feel like women hate me on some deep level, just for being a man, period. Shits amazing.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Bad character traits such as overcharging for gas money (5x what it costs them to drive you there), slandering people when it’s not necessary, trying to control who your friends are when they aren’t violent or dangerous.

SaoirseS · Answer

Get jealous of or start bad-mouthing my platonic guy friends. Most of them have been lifelong friends and I know I can count on them, and they know they can count on me. I'm never sure about a guy I'm dating.

Virgo31 · Answer

Cal themselves an alpha male. It’s cringy okay, no one cares.

JayParris · Answer

A lack of tact or class in any way says he doesn't have the intelligence for nuance, so the in-your-face type gets rejected pretty quick. I've also seen a lot of guys who don't know the art of conversation and/or can't read social cues, and they get tossed in short order as well.

Blackmamba5061 · Answer

I'm not into guys but personally don't like how friends and family always talk about how big their junk is and how much set they have and how they think I'm hay because I don't want to fuck anything that moves. I think a relationship should be more than sex. And the fact I can keep my pants on just means I am more mature in my opinion.

Киттйлинк · Answer

hmm bad hygiene (smelly) especially mouth related D: or being rude to people.

CrotchRot · Answer

When the first thing they send is a cock pic I hate that. At least wait a day.

Iron_Man · Answer

For you and other women it would be you went out on a date with the new guy and he says he forgot his wallet after he ordered a very expensive fancy dinner at a real nice expensive restaurant. And the magic words is I’ll pay you back later and never does

PaynefulPleasures · Answer

Controlling, always talking about the ex, conceded, constantly checking his phone, wandering eyes,✌️

Avocadorable · Answer

The women's point of view is what I'm interested in Lady Gaga.

Leavesbound · Answer

Breathing into your lungs when you make out. Attempting to make all decisions in the relationship Treating the woman as a child or as helpless or as though she has no worth or as if she was property.

CupofToffee · Answer

Be late at the first few dates, not listen, and expects sex to be given whenever he wants.

Stupid_Child · Answer

If I were tbh, I would say just asking her for sex in general, like out of no where... Personally coming from a guy, I couldn't care less about sex but if I were to guess my guess is being to open about the fact that ur horny, I mean some girls like that, you do u, just be careful to who u do it to

Kha0tiic_xo · Answer

Lie, and dress with there pants down around there god damn ass!

keniyaa · Answer

when they leave u on read and ignore u, and act as if u do not exsist

Jerre · Answer

I don’t really have any that I can think of. I have a hard time believing there are guys who would think you being sexually aggressive would be a turn off for them. I’d have an instant hardon if you were aggressive with me.

Blackcupcake · Answer

Too desperate and pushy when comes to sexual intimacy

the_imperfectionist · Answer

Showing signs of only wanting sex, making it clear that they don't want children or marriage, lacking ambition and career/economic goals. Bad hygiene and being selfish in bed too.

Floppy2112 · Answer

Talking about themselves and declaring their own importance. This happens a lot especially when it comes to one's job.

Coulis · Answer

Unnecessarily gross/private bodily things right off the bat or gross eating.

Massageman · Answer

Not taking things at the right pace for the right gal.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Men talking sexual too soon to a girl is complete turn off

Dchrls78104 · Answer

If I were a girl, I'd be instantly repulsed if a guy catcalled me or approached me with his pants below his waist.

karaspara · Answer

Brag

Xoirwinkan · Answer

If you mean in a straight, annoying way, I think eating like a pig is gross, although that isn't unique to men. In general I find loud eating noises to be off-putting.

TallAnon · Answer

Quite funny to read the responses and how it's all about how they are treated, nothing physical so far.

LemiaOfTheCodes · Answer

Brag about How good they are in bed

bannacookies · Answer

The men who always blame women.

Andres77 · Answer

Talking shit about others. Especially petty stuff.

msc545 · Answer

Self-aggrandizement is always a real turn-off for everybody including other men.

rosiepose97 · Answer

When they start acting like what they're going through is something "special" and "no one else is going through it" (yes I've met a guy like this)

Mehzmeh · Answer

I don't know. Since I only date girl's. Lol. But my lady says it's when I don't answer her. Lol

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Comparing the current girl to an ex.

JosyJosy · Answer

Spitting on the ground

John_Doesnt · Answer

Whip out your dick at dinner, every girl loves it.

Paulychicago10 · Answer

Probably being clingy

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Lol long list of things

FaithIsAll · Answer

Going into debt to live a fake lifestyle

Sonorous · Answer

not be brad pitt

Slim57 · Answer

Being faithful

krin_m · Answer

I don't know.

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