What's something guys do that's a instant turn off?

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averageguy4 · Accepted Answer

More of a relationship issue, but I've found that if you want sex in a relationship you gotta put in some effort. Sometimes it can be spontaneous, but if you just want spontaneous sex all the time with no effort, you my dude are living in a fantasy. Some guys approach a relationship as unlimited sex anytime all the time. I once heard a friend of mine when we roomed together try to wake his girlfriend up at 2am to have sex. I remember thinking to myself, "you can do that?" Then there was an hour of screaming and i saw her leave. Never saw her again. Turns out ya can't. TLDR version, guys can be self centered to the point they put their needs above everything else. That's probably a turn off.

Juxtapose · Accepted Answer

Bad hygiene is the wooorst :(

purplepoppy · Accepted Answer

Claiming to be alpha.
Smoking.
Automatically believing every conspiracy theory because he thinks it makes him look like an independent thinker.
Behaving like he's in the prison exercise yard rather than like a gentleman.
Using cheesy cliche chatup lines that were probably taught to him by his mother.
Slags off his ex girlfriend.

Miah02 · Accepted Answer

Brag about their dick size

Account · Answer

Bragging and antagonizing people. I deeply despise it.

Ez-Bri-Z · Answer

I'm gonna assume I can't just put "own a penis" here so let's go with...

Can't take no for an answer
Have no sense of humor
Can't hold a conversation outside of a sexual one
Is hateful, especially about women or lgbt
Think they own me, without me giving them that right to

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

What you said plus if they give that player vibe, brag about how many women they have had or could have. Also, if they start out with lies, that's an indication that's not a person to trust so that would also be a turn off/deal breaker.

hannahjo022 · Answer

I hate when guys brag how much money they make then bitch and complain why women use them for their money. Stop bragging about how much money you make and you won't have that problem. Also I know guys thinks it weird when a girl has too many guy friends and same goes for guys having too many female friends especially when they're attractive. Creates problems because guys I be talking to will get upset and jealous when I am hanging out with a guy friend

Crazyb33 · Answer

I hate when men keep hitting on u when u are ignoring them then they go as far as trying to grab your hand or stand right in front of u and continue to talk to u or when your out at a club and they come up behind u trying to rub up on u or grab your hand as you walk by I could go on and on

loves2learn · Answer

Yell at me or put me down. Nothing kills the vibe faster.

Azura_88 · Answer

Pretending like NOTHING happened after spending time together or after sharing a close conversation.

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

Well I'm not into men so I can't say. However I personally find it pathetic how hyper sexual they are. That is they will frequently try to fuck anything that moves and are undecerning in whom they try to fuck. Its pathetic, have some fucking standards and stop being led around by your dick, its embarrassing.

HiveBee · Answer

I'm reading the girls replies and I'm just wondering... how do you manage to find so many shit bags?

Like nothing negative girls have to say about men ever applies to me. Yet I sti feel like women hate me on some deep level, just for being a man, period. Shits amazing.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Bad character traits such as overcharging for gas money (5x what it costs them to drive you there), slandering people when it’s not necessary, trying to control who your friends are when they aren’t violent or dangerous.

SaoirseS · Answer

Get jealous of or start bad-mouthing my platonic guy friends. Most of them have been lifelong friends and I know I can count on them, and they know they can count on me. I'm never sure about a guy I'm dating.

Virgo31 · Answer

Cal themselves an alpha male. It’s cringy okay, no one cares.

JayParris · Answer

A lack of tact or class in any way says he doesn't have the intelligence for nuance, so the in-your-face type gets rejected pretty quick. I've also seen a lot of guys who don't know the art of conversation and/or can't read social cues, and they get tossed in short order as well.

Киттйлинк · Answer

hmm bad hygiene (smelly) especially mouth related D: or being rude to people.

Blackmamba5061 · Answer

I'm not into guys but personally don't like how friends and family always talk about how big their junk is and how much set they have and how they think I'm hay because I don't want to fuck anything that moves. I think a relationship should be more than sex. And the fact I can keep my pants on just means I am more mature in my opinion.

CrotchRot · Answer

When the first thing they send is a cock pic I hate that. At least wait a day.

Iron_Man · Answer

For you and other women it would be you went out on a date with the new guy and he says he forgot his wallet after he ordered a very expensive fancy dinner at a real nice expensive restaurant. And the magic words is I’ll pay you back later and never does

PaynefulPleasures · Answer

Controlling, always talking about the ex, conceded, constantly checking his phone, wandering eyes,✌️

Avocadorable · Answer

The women's point of view is what I'm interested in Lady Gaga.

CupofToffee · Answer

Be late at the first few dates, not listen, and expects sex to be given whenever he wants.

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