I slept with a guy and he dumped me and verbally abused me I thought about reporting this to the Police should I?

[Lyhra4]

Two days ago I went to th house of a guy nad after one day he started to make excuses for me to leave. Firstly he said I should hide my car in the garage, and finally when I took courage to leave him he started to treat me really bad saying that I was ugly and that I would never achieve anything in my life. He also said that I was nothing special and that I should treat a thing in my body that really makes me feel bad. He completlety made me feel like shit I almost made suicide yesterdar and honestly my life has no more sense anymore. I'm constantly being used only for sex, my professional life is not good and I don't know what I'm doinh here please help :'(

[Anonymous]

That's horrible, but unfortunately the police can't do anything in this case. Verbal abuse, while still a form of abuse, isn't against the law. I suggest not only cutting him out of your life completely, but stay away from men right now. Focus on yourself. I think some counselling is needed if you have access to it. Focus on fixing your career as well, which will also help with your confidence and self esteem. These aren't "quick fixes" by any means, but the ONLY fixes and could take time. But just focus on that for now. Forget about men at this point.

[Lyhra4]

Thank you so much :'( . I wll try to focus on me

[throwsomecheeseonit]

Stop dating for awhile and work on your self. In order for others to love us we must first love ourselves. Nothing is wrong with you. Everyone girl is beautiful in their own unique way. Find your flaws and make them strengths. Find a friend that will always lift you up and help you in times like this.

[Lyhra4]

You are so right, I think these things continue to happen because I see myself with no value and so I allow those people to treat my like crap... I also seek validation all the time which is very bad... I just want to look ate the mirror again and feel beautiful and worthy because right now I feel miserable :'(

[throwsomecheeseonit]

Well you are worth it. Listen to worth it by dax it will tell you facts. You need no validation you are perfectly made as is. Love your flaws and embrace them.

[Lyhra4]

Thank you so much you are very kind

[throwsomecheeseonit]

You are very welcome

[NotTacocaT6969]

Because there was no physical violence the police will do nothing.


He is a horrible person and his words are meaningless.


You deserve a man who loves who you are as a person and not just sex.


In the future, hold off on sex until you’re sure the man is genuine and not just a sex-hungry swine.

[Lyhra4]

Thank you so much, I am trying to not feel bad about myself but it's hard :'(

[EmmaMary]

Just why the hell do you allow yourself to get used by the lowlifes of the world... Get a Grip, Get a Life before it's too late.

[Lyhra4]

Because I'm stupid and have lack of self-confidence :(

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.

[PBarlow]

I don't think it's a police matter. You just need to cut ties with this guy, and go for a vacation, and "start all over" in mind. If he starts showing up at your door and entering without your permission. Heck yeah, hook 5-0 on him for sure

[Lyhra4]

Thank you so much. I already cut them off but his words hurt me a lot

[PBarlow]

If you don't let the words to get to you. I was verbally abused at the elementary school for my looks and stutter which still lives on ( god forbid it goes away even for a day) and now I rarely go out and socialize, but I think that would happen even without the abuse. I am more mad at myself for those flaws than I am sad for what others think of me

[Lyhra4]

I'm so sorry to hear that... I totally can understand, I also close myself in the bedroom to avoid people in some way, and I feel the same as you... What kills me on the inside is that I don't love myself first before anyone else :(

[PBarlow]

Same here...

[Lyhra4]

We'll get over this, I know...

[A_Bell]

Your story sounds suspiciously one-sided like so many I hear from my female friends about relationships.

If it was so one sided, why do you care about him anyway? If it wasn't, why do you not mention what you did during this argument?

Then, you want to jail him because he said mean things.

Stay away from him, you'll both be better off.

[dudeinohio]

Don't let one guys words define you. Don't give him that power over you. Relax and move on. Eventually, you'll. find the guy you deserve.

[Lyhra4]

The problem is that I really feel ugly and miserable he just aggravated my bad thoughts... :(

[dudeinohio]

Just disregard him...

[Lyhra4]

I will for sure

[NightHawk99]

Another fuckboy trying to increase his sex score. Do whatever you gotta do to bring him down. Just don't lie.

[Lyhra4]

Yeah unfortunattely :( ... I blocked him and stopped replying to his offensive texts, I guess it is the best "revenge" maybe...

[NightHawk99]

For now.

[Lyhra4]

yeah..

[LAgirl22]

Isn’t there a bullet somewhere you could be jumping in front of?

[InfobotLives]

He has not committed any crime.

[Lyhra4]

Indeed he did not, but emotional abuse should be considered as a crime per se

[InfobotLives]

If that were true we'd run out of space in prisons and were already pretty much doing that. It is not a crime to be unkind, it would be a major impingement on our freedoms and would be the first step to turning us into drones.

[SmokinAces2000]

Not trying to be a dick but it sounds like you are just mad that he dumped you, is verbal abuse even illegal

[DWornock]

You should commit suicide because you have no value to society.

[Maniwishiwashome]

Fuck off your a idiot

[Lyhra4]

@Maniwishiwashome thank you, that's because of people like this guy that sometimes this world sucks...

[GloUp11]

Don't you need a license to be that ugly?

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