Why does my crush look down when I walk past him?

[Anonymous]

He was walking towards me.. , I had my phone in my hands was about to text , We made eye contact , he looked down stared at my feets/shoes then we walked pass each other silently. But that man literally walked me over off the road then I started walking on the damn grass.😂 what is wrong with him? Why this behavior?

[On_cloud_wine]

Maybe he thinks you’re judging him. Be kind to him and maybe you’ll see a glisten in his eyes like. Ok, maybe this chick wasn’t judging me all along. She’s just busy

[Asker]

I barely even know him lol

[Asker]

Why would I judge someone I know nothing about.🤷‍♀️

[On_cloud_wine]

I literally just had the same thing happen to me with a guy a barely know and after I approached him a couple of times, he doesn’t look down anymore.

[On_cloud_wine]

He now passes me and says “hey how’s it going? (With a smile)”

[On_cloud_wine]

Be genuine and curious to get to know the people you work with

[On_cloud_wine]

“ Why would I judge someone I know nothing about” people can’t read minds. Your body language is all they go by

[On_cloud_wine]

They don’t know what you’re thinking. He might think you don’t like him, as funny as that sounds, because you’ve never even really communicated

[On_cloud_wine]

If he’s very shy, he’s just gonna go through guessing games, so be less shy than him

[Asker]

Communicate with a man who might be married. Imagine what he would think of me. I'm cool with everyone but not to a point curious to know someone.

[On_cloud_wine]

My love language is “acts of service” so one small kind gesture means so much to me. Maybe try that. Even the smallest thing. And make eye contact and smile when you do it, maybe even make a joke to try to make him laugh. Maybe he’s just intimidated. See how he responds

[Asker]

I noticed he barely respond to a goodmorning lol

[Asker]

Mein I'm so over him.😂

[On_cloud_wine]

I try to be as open minded as possible. It makes me more approachable

[On_cloud_wine]

If there’s a heavy energy in the air, I feel it. I try to bring positivity into the workplace

[On_cloud_wine]

Think to yourself “is this the best it can get?” And try to improve it. It takes practice but it gets easier

[Asker]

Well I have already show him that I'm a very open person, I laugh and joke with all my coworkers, supervisors. One day he saw me laughing with my them at the station. "He was basically minding his business "

[On_cloud_wine]

Well that’s all you can do. If he doesn’t respond well, he just needs time, it show no I’ll feelings. I’ve got the most stubborn people to bloom and beam like a 🌻 lol people have problems, we all do. If he doesn’t have the greatest social skills and brings his home life into work, just give him space and patience and let him know where you stand

[On_cloud_wine]

Show no ill feelings*

[Asker]

He only said goodmorning to me once. Then when people say goodmorning to him , he doesn't respond. But last week he reponded to this lady he works with..

[On_cloud_wine]

Is there one person in your life that you look forward to seeing? Their presence has a glow like everyone turns around and welcomes them in when they come through the door? That’s what I try to be

[On_cloud_wine]

Ok this man is just, you know, shy…. So that’s my answer to you lol

[Asker]

I'm just saying that, why would he stop greeting all of sudden. He's a weirdo

[On_cloud_wine]

Well for one, when I have a crush, I’ll never let him know.. I just act normal but when I’m crushing hard, I become more quiet and I’m like damn it. Why can’t I act normal.. then I assume he knows because I’ll have a nervous laugh or be clumsy.. but this is just infatuation. It’s all in his head. He must be crushing on you too if suddenly he’s being avoidant; he wants what you and your friends have.

[On_cloud_wine]

But just be kind and act no dif than you are with your buddies, and act like you have no idea he’s crushing on you and maybe he’ll be more friendly again lol

[On_cloud_wine]

I think he feels it’s safer to just keep to himself

[On_cloud_wine]

He’s scared you might think he’s boring

[Asker]

That's why I'm trying to do but sometimes you can't control your nerves lol. I even stop being around him for a while but I don't want to over do that lol. One day he was staring at my finger while i was clocking out lol I caught him.. Another time a patient was trying to put me in trouble , my supervisor was calling me on the speaker then I went to see what was going on. He was standing there, I almost freak out 😂 while I explaining the situation to my supervisors , he walked pass me and went straight to the bathroom.(the bathroom was at the station. but I had a witness that the patient refused her medication. They called the witness, I went back to the station. He was again standing there, listening and on his phone. Bu they were finally was on my side.. 🤦‍♀️

[Asker]

I don't know why he's shy tho but anyways thanks for sharing your opinion...

[TommyMountainFigure]

From what I gather these days guys are too scared to approach a girl any more.

[Asker]

But why? Lol

[Asker]

I dont know why

[TommyMountainFigure]

According to what people have said in here. guys are worried that just approaching a girl can land them i all sorts of trouble. I know.. it amazed me too. I'm from a time where a guy would say hello, and if the girl liked him they would talk. if not that would be the end of it.

[Asker]

Well I guess it's time for me to let go of my crush.😂
Because in my situation, it doesn't look like any one of us would approach first

[TommyMountainFigure]

Just as long as this time next year you don't look back with regret.

[Luckycharms12]

Seem shy