Why is it ok for my boyfriend to do things he wouldn't be ok with me doing?

[Anonymous]

He specifically told me that he doesn't want me to like on any man's photos, comment, add, none of it. I said ok if I am not allowed to do something (not that I ever did while with him) then you're not allowed to either. He said ok deal. He still did. The part that upsets me is he's always accusing me, always telling me what to do and what not to do, he's paranoid as hell, and I am doing every thing right but then turn around and he's not. I don't care about the likes or any of that or who he's friends with, only reason I care is because he's being unfair.

[DangpMango]

Because often guys are more likely to get the wrong idea while girls occasionally get the idea but have more of a chance of understanding the actual relationship better. Is it fair, no. I suggest to get the fuck aways from social medias like Twitter and insta. Snap too if you're serious with anyone. They don't need your likes and you don't need theirs

[Asker]

I'd delete it in a heart beat. He's the one who causes issues over it which is why I'm causing an issue because it's like wait don't tell me to do something and you're not even doing it. Then he gets mad after I call him out on it and says in anger he'll just delete fb. As if I'm the one causing issues lol. Dude just stop with the double standards, that's all.

[DangpMango]

Yeah I mean I'd leave tbh I think. I could never deal with that kind of stubborness

[boggboss]

Because clearly he is not a man off his word and a lier thay dont respect what u have to say

[Asker]

He wanted me to put "Ruben's wife" on my photo so I said ok then you have to do the same for me on yours. He did. He flaunts me on his fb but it just seems like even after all of that, I still don't trust him. Like I don't know if these are just my insecurities or what...

[boggboss]

Well no because he did somthing that broke your trust so it's obvious why you have a hard time trusting him

[Explorer91]

It’s not okay at all, but you are the one making it okay.
The fact he can do whatever he likes and you can’t. Shows you are more afraid to lose him than he is afraid of losing you.
You already know the answer to your question.

[MzAsh]

You must not let him get away with it! Call him out and if I were you, I’d tell him that you’ll do what you want.

[Bee-Hatch]

Well that's fucked up and very controlling. Certainly reason enough to be looking at your options.

[OlderAndWiser]

Is there a history of mental illness in his family?

[Asker]

I'm not sure about his family but I know he's been in a mental hospital before.

[OlderAndWiser]

This is his mental illness at work. Why are you still dating him?

[SupremeWarlord]

Sounds like an asshole. It's not ok what he's doing to you.

[In_Trance]

Aren't you guys a little old for this childish crap? If he's that insecure to set out boundaries like that I'd suggest you move on now. Ignoring small red flags now will only hurt you in the future

[ghost_135]

Break up. this is the first sign of an abusive relationship. don't wait for it to get worse.