This guy really is an ass, but I can't leave him...
He introduces me as his bitch?
This guy really is an ass, but I can't leave him...
Mate, wake up. If you KNOW that he treats you like a f***ing dog, if you KNOW that he abuses you, then WHY ARE YOU STILL WITH HIM? He doesn’t give a rat’s arse about you. He introduces you to people as his bitch! If someone did that to me, I’d f***ing punch their lights out. You have feelings, and you DESERVE respect. He obviously doesn’t have any for you. You are merely his little f*** toy. You mean NOTHING to him.
Sweetie, WAKE UP! I had a friend who was exactly in your position. She stayed with a man who beat her, who cheated on her, who put her down and made her feel like sh*t about herself. She lost ALL of her confidence and happiness. Then, he put her in hospital. She had a broken jaw, a broken nose, a split lip which needed stitches, two broken ribs, one of which pierced her lungs and almost killed her and bruises EVERYWHERE!
He didn’t visit her once in the hospital, or say sorry. When she got back home, he showed up smelling like alcohol and other girls and yet with THREE F***ING WORDS she took him back. All he had to say was “I love you” and she took him back. He started beating her again, and it got worse. She didn’t come out of her house, he controlled what and when she ate, he made her delete her Facebook and email, he “confiscated” her phone, he made her cut off all contact with her friends and family, he trained her to be his little slave. She meant nothing to him. She knew that. She knew what he was doing to her was wrong. But she let it continue. Want to know why? Because she “loved” him and didn’t want to “leave him”.
But then the police were called when neighbours heard her screaming. She told me that he beat and raped her because she burnt his dinner. He was then sent to jail for 15 years. Sweetie, you may like your boyfriend, love him even. But love isn’t enough. Do you really want to stay with someone who is like that? I guarantee you that your boyfriend will turn out like my friends ex did. Monsters like that ALWAYS do. So please, please, PLEASE for your own safety and happiness leave him. I KNOW that it will be hard. And I KNOW that you may not want to, but the fact that you are asking for advice and seeking help just proves that YOU KNOW WHAT HE’S DOING TO YOU IS WRONG! It took my friend being raped and nearly beaten to death for her to realize that love means NOTHING when it comes to monsters like that.
Now she has a boyfriend who worships and cherishes her. YOU DESERVE THAT! So once again, please, please leave him. Take photos of the injuries you get when your boyfriend beats you and then send them into the police. Tell them what he does to you. There are laws in place to protect you for reason. USE THEM!
And ask yourself this: "Why can't you leave him?" I want you to give me a list of the reasons why you can't leave him.
My relationship status is WAY too complicated for anyone to understand... if I tried to explain it (like I have so many times), you would just think of me as a liar.
how can I do it in private?
It won't let me since I'm not the right level.
no one likes to be called that...no girl...no boy...no one...that's not even funny when you say it in spanish...this guy things he owns you and that you need him well enough that...when he presents you as his "b!tch" o "perra"...that's all you are to him and that you won't do nothing about it...it doesn't matter if his hot, sometimes sweet or kind...if he haves problems and you know he is off in many things...leave him, even if it hurts...and if you can't cause he will go psycho on you...even more but be careful...besides, what goes around comes around!..."lo que se hace aqui se paga aqui!" ( meaning: what you do here...you pay here...as in if you do bad...bad will come to you before you die).
I know that I would slap my boyfriend if he called me that and he still wouldn't break up with me... because he loves me enough to know that it hurts. You must be really hot if he is introducing you to everyone as his bitch. The bitch he is talking about is the kind that means your his personal sex toy that he has wrapped around his little finger. You need to set him straight if he can't deal with you having your opinion and feelings than he would need to break up with you because you better not back down, A relationship is 50 50 and if he just ignores you then start introducing him to everyone as you bastard or such. an eye for an eye... sorry but he does sound like a @ss
He really is an ass, he's abusive too.
geez.. I hate this situation.I am sorry but the best thing to do is to go to the police... some people have DIED because of this my advice is to file a restraining order and move on... you must be freakin gorgeous if he keeps on saying your 'his' bitch.there are many people that will treat you better and call you by a cute nickname.my boyfriend calls me honey massages my back and scratches my back and pets my head when I am sleepy. He buys me gifts and tells me how much he hates to see me cry.
So you have to be hot and gorgeous to be someone's bitch?
it means their bragging, an ass doesn't brag unless your hot. you don't have to be hot to be someones bitch but you would have to be if its an ass that's bragging... that's my opinion anyway
From my pic, would you say "hot"?
that's you? uh... duh yeah! Very hot, you look better than I do and you look more beautiful than many of my friends
Oh? Okay, thank you for your help.
It means you're his whore. You are the one he wets his d*** in.
It's meant with nothing but disrespect, but he knows you'll take it. Silently. As you said yourself, you *can't* leave him.
He knows you are weak, and he's mocking your weakness. He has no respect for you.
In French, we wouldn't even use "she" as in "she's my bitch." We'd use the indefinite article.
"C'est ma salope."
This? It's my bitch.
Yeah, he leads me around on a leash and tells people "its just my bitch" when people ask. But I like him... don't want to leave him you know?
I can't really get why you can't leave a person that disrespect you with any mean ..
You should try to tell him to stop being an ass or just punch him in the face when he tries to insult you again :P (I know its not good to tell people to be violent , but some people just don't get the idea without , so its better to just be distant to them) .
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I'm offended that you're even having to ask if you should be offended. If you don't respect yourself, no one else will. Since you tolerate his behavior and say you "can't" leave him, what are you complaining about? If you want to accept someone being disrespectful and degrading to you, go ahead, but realize you should do better than that. And stop saying you "can't", unless you're conjoined twins you CAN leave him, you just choose not to.
it's a degrading them. you need some self respect for yourself and leave him
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